I started off this morning with a little Monday craziness, trying to get as much done as I could to stay ahead of the game this week. It’s so easy to slip into the rabbit hole of anxiety, even if it’s the subconscious version from normal routines–lunches, e-mails, school schedules, etc. I was maybe only forty minutes down the wrong path this morning (go, go, GO!) when I reheated my coffee in the microwave, went to grab the handle and burned my thumb and forefinger so badly, I yanked my hand back, dropped the cup and yelled a bad word. For two seconds, the house went still–everyone stopped and stared to see what was going to happen next.
“I call a do-over,” I said. “Erase everything that just happened, and I’m going to start my Monday the right way now. Sorry ’bout that. Carry on.”
I backed up. I slowed down. I refilled my coffee and enjoyed it. Lainey and I talked about how much fun this week was going to be–a class party, costumes at ballet, trick-or-treating. I took Nella and Dash for a morning walk and paused to say Good Morning to joggers. It wasn’t long before I realized that I had regained power over my week.
True yogis who’ve been meditating for years will tell you it still takes work and practice to guide the mind into a peaceful state. Likewise, I like enjoying the small things, but that doesn’t mean I don’t forget and need a few burnt fingers to remind me from time to time.
So hello. Happy Monday. Let’s take this week’s reigns and guide it where we’d like it to go, shall we? And if the horse goes buckin’ bronco and you fall off? It’s okay. Swear. Get back on.
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Thank you for all the kind responses to Elizabeth’s post last week. She was excited about funds growing for Luke’s journey home. You can continue to follow her journey from her blog and help Luke by donating here. This weekend I had the opportunity to hold and love on a baby brought home from the Ukraine through Reece’s Rainbow, and hearing her mama retell the story of her journey was heartbreaking. We also celebrated our fourth Buddy Walk this weekend here in Naples, and I’ll share more about that later this week.
First, a few things enjoyed this past week:
I know a lot of people roll their eyes at early holiday decorations, but they make me happy. I love twinkly lights. My kids love twinkly lights. The stores look so pretty all dolled up with garland and bows and lights. So when we saw the first touch of holiday happiness at a local plaza this week, we had to stop and touch and ooh and ahhh. “It’s a shame we do all that work to decorate our house every Christmas, and it only stays up for a month,” Brett remarked. And then he had that look in his eye that said he was scheming. I won’t be surprised if Clark gets an early start this year.
Night Redemption. He sleeps. Finally. Besides a few “I lost my pacifier” whimpers, we are owning the night again. Definitely something to be enjoyed.
Library visit with Poppa.
And some pumpkin fun.
I’m partnering with Disney in using their Story App, a great tool to unlock all those photos and videos on your phone and release them in sharable stories.
There’s a breeze from open windows in our house right now, and I am loving our weather that’s headed soon toward first fire in the fireplace.
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I’m at BabyZone this week sharing 8 Ways to Decorate Nursery Walls with Things You Already Have and over at All Parenting with a little ode to ballet.
Happy day.


















You’re such a breath of fresh air…always uplifting stories which make my day brighter! The kids are gorgeous as always…love the new tuft of hair on Dash and those upper teefies..too cute!
Your photography inspires me to capture every little thing that makes me smile! I am having a contest on my blog for that very thing! http://chachismemories.blogspot.com/2013/10/photos-and-challenge.html
Hey Lady K! Just wanted to say hi! Still here – reading and enjoying your blog as ever. As you were! Brit Girl x
YAY! Picture header is back!!! Those little ones are the cutest!!! Happy Monday!
I am glad your redirection of the week has worked well for you this morning. And I must admit, the early Christmas decorations get me every time too. We have already looked at lights and ornaments and I have almost all the details planned out for the trip to get to my family’s Christmas breakfast this year. I can’t wait.
ohhhh, what a lovely pictures!!!
and the header is so fanny 🙂
I love do overs. A perfect example of grace being lived out. Happy Monday.
Thank you for your beautiful words this morning. I haven’t had a chance to stop by here, or your IG, in a few months. My Dad’s health has continued to decline through the summer, and after a possible life lengthening heart surgery in August, his recovery caused his lung disease (IPF) to rapidly worsen. Dad lost his fight with this horrible lung disease earlier this month. It’s been hard trying to keep moving foreward & create a new “normal” for us all. Dad/GDadddy was a huge, daily, part of our lives. Dad usually walked the Buddy Walk with us; he was SO proud of his girl! We tried, but just couldn’t participate without him this year. For weeks I’ve had trouble sleeping & horrible dreams. But this morning I woke from my first good dream since loosing Dad. Oddly enough, you were in my dream, Kelle. We were just hanging out with our kids, chatting while they played, at my house. Just normal. Something I’ve been craving.
I’m not Kelle, DeAnn, but I wanted to say I am so sorry for the loss of your father.
I am taking this week’s reins and guiding it back to where I want to go! I love this image. And I also like being given permission to swear a little in the process. 🙂 Have a lovely week, and thanks for sharing the adorable photos. XO, Matthew’s mama
I must admit, we are regular offenders of early Christmas decorating. There have even been a time or two that our tree was up, and decorated, by….ahem….Halloween night. “Late” for us would be getting it up the week before Thanksgiving. We do usually wait a little longer to put our outside decorations up & take them down shortly after Christams. But inside, Christmas reigns for almost 3 months, since we don’t usually take everything down till we return from our post-Christmas family reunion the 2nd week of January. 😉
I spy a little baby curl on Dash!
DeAnn,
You made me cry. Thank you for sharing that–I’m happy to be a tiny part of a sliver of normalcy for you. I pray you find more of that, slowly. I am so sorry for your loss.
So much love to you and your family.
~Kelle
Thank you for you reminder this morning to stop, slow down and enjoy. I too felt that inner Mama anxiety this morning thinking about our all too busy week. So I have officially restarted my day and week. Also, I don’t think your family could be any more adorable! Blessings
These are GREAT photos & precious and CUTE kids too. Loved your Monday do-over & the example…great reminder and visual for me any day of the week.
Happy Monday and Fall y’all from Tejas,
Melissa
Adorable photos.
Love your new header.
Happy Monday.
xo
Hey! I wanted to rent papas place, but. It says the link is broken? Can we still rent?
First: I love this and am going to call a do-over the next time I have one of these moments. Second: I don’t think there is anything cuter than Nella’s maxi skirt. Third: Love your decorative ideas although I’m pretty sure if I tried to make a mobile out of hangers it would just look like hangers on a wall. But you inspire me and maybe I’ll try. 🙂
beautiful!
saw this and had to run here to share with you. i think you’ll enjoy seeing this beautiful homecoming queen! 🙂
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9HeXCgmN94&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D-9HeXCgmN94&app=desktop
Kelle….
First things first. I love your new Header picture!! Too cute!! 😉
I only swear in private. Except for “ass”. I happen to like that word for whatever reason!! And, hey!! It is in the Bible!! –Wink, wink!!– 😉
My offline journal/diary, however, is filled with expletives!! Shhh…. Do not tell anybody!! ;-D
They played “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree” at our local KFC yesterday!! And I loved it!! So. Repeatedly watching Bruce Springsteen perform “Santa Claus is Coming to Town” during wild mood swings on YouTube is no longer “illegal”!! Hey, The Boss makes me happy!! 😉
–Raelyn
Yes, let’s take the reigns and lead this week where we want it to go! Love that.
Happy Monday to ya!
XOXO,
Angie from Ohio (angiepics on Instagram)
I’m pretty sure Nella is the cutest person on earth.
I like that you started the day over.
The pictures and the video made my day. All of a sudden Dash is one of the bunch. Love their costumes. So cute.
Thanks again for sharing.
I love that you do ‘re-dos’ as well. My trick is to step in the shower ‘and when I’m out, it’s a whole new day, washed that old one off’ (although you probably can’t tell your kids just to be cool and do themselves while you have a shower)
Also, I know it’s not my usual music recommendation, but I’ve been ploughing through assignments this week (errr) and I’ve sought a bit of inspiration from Miss Whitney, consider this my new get shit done song
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sWa5vE4MUpU
xxx Nicola
http://www.mindfulgrateful.blogspot.com
Hey Kelle!
Have read your blog over the past few years (ever since you posted Nellas birth story) and thought this might interest you. Two different couples I know are adopting baby boys who have down syndrome and are selling this adorable T-Shirts to help cover the costs of the adoption. Is this something you might be interested in featuring on the blog?
http://teespring.com/downsyndromeadoption
Those costumes are the sweetest cutest most creative things I have ever seen. How amazing are you to put it together?
Oh that baby is so delicious! Love the picture of him and Nella.
Good Evening Kelle!
I do do-over days too. My absolute earliest that I decorate is November 1st. We had our first snow yesterday…way to early for me, but I live in Saskatchewan and Winter hits early sometimes up here.
Been a reader of your blog since Nella’s birth story and I come back often. Love the photography and love your writing!
Diane
That last pic…. My heart just melted!!! Love all of them as always and I love the “do over!” 🙂
I love the picture of your dad with Nella and Dash in the library and Dash has eyes for Mama only. So sweet.
Happy Halloween, Hamptons!
I love the picture of your dad with Nella and Dash in the library and Dash has eyes for Mama only. So sweet.
Happy Halloween, Hamptons!
I love the picture of your dad with Nella and Dash in the library and Dash has eyes for Mama only. So sweet.
Happy Halloween, Hamptons!
We all need to call a Mulligan once and in a while. Happy Monday to you!
PS: My Monday was a little brighter today with y’all’s hand-me-downs gracing my doorstep! Thank you! So excited to get some more memories squeezed out of those sweet pieces 🙂 xo
oh my! That photo of Nella sharing her popsicle is precious.
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The header picture! I can’t take the cuteness of those costumes. They are PERFECT!
All the pictures made me smile and the words inspire me…always.
Thank you, K.
Thanks for reminding me that it is within my power to have a start over of any day! What a relief….:) Loved watching Nella explore the pumpkin top. Children are so refreshing to my spirit!
Your new header picture is to die for!! By far the BEST group costumes EVER!!!
I love fall decorations so they stay up till thanksgiving BUT I am not afraid to leave Christmas up for months … As soon as I feel cold air Christmas music is fair game in my home! We love the Elf soundtrack!!! My kids love it! Love your spirit!!!!
Dash looks so cool wearing his cap.
Love the new picture at the top. A circus theme is such a great idea for Halloween.
You guys have one AWESOME library! With a fountain outside too! Wow. I’m so impressed, I wish I could visit it myself.
His TEETH!
Nella’s maxi!
Lainey’s bun head!
The way Nella runs and the way she says “gross!” Nora says, “drose”….we make her say it all the time and laugh just as much when she does :).
Just got my t-shirt today in the mail!! My grand daughter loves it!! Thanks for the opportunity to help with these amazing kids! I worked with adults with disabilities for years – loved it and still am friends with many of them!!
Thanks for the information… I really love your blog posts… specially those on Local Tamil News
I love the new header! So beautiful.
Beautiful photos, Kelle. I love your new blog header, too. So sweet!
Do-overs. Genius. I’m going to pull that tool out of my belt. My mornings are always so hectic. Thanks for the reminder that do-overs are possible. 🙂 I’m getting antsy for Christmas decor as well. I’m trying not to jump the gun. Poor Thanksgiving always gets the shaft, but I think I’ll start by making sure we do a Thankful tree again this year as well as kick off our Random Acts of Kindness in November. Love me some holidays.
I love the coin-dropping action shots of Nella, at the fountain! Awesome 🙂 That made my day!
Kelle….
Happy Halloween!! ;-O
–Raelyn
As always, I love all of your pictures, but I wanted to drop in and tell you how much i LOOOOVE the header with their halloween costumes. I really can’t get over how cute they are