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Hair Diaries: From Brunette to Ice Blond

May 24, 2019 By Kelle

Hair Diaries: From Brunette to Ice Blond

I was in my teens when I tried my first hair color after I convinced my mom that it wasn’t really dye and would only “accentuate my current color and make it shiny.” When I tried it, I was hooked. The transformation was barely recognizable, but the idea that I could change my look so easily delighted my creative heart. In the past thirty years, I’ve tried every hair color in the book including some notable surprises including Shit! Why is it Green?! and It’s Supposed to Be Blond But It’s Orange, both results of bathroom do-it-yourself jobs. But, like rearranging furniture or painting a room a new color, I’ve always loved the inspiration and gratification found in working with what I already have to create a new look. Reasons for switching hair color and styles have included but are not limited to:

  • I’m bored.
  • I failed miserably at something and need a new start.
  • I’m grieving a loss and don’t know how to handle it. (I did a drastic hair color change after a miscarriage.)
  • I saw a picture of Charlize Theron in a magazine, and I have to have her look–like, today.
  • I bought a dress I’m so in love with, and dark hair would compliment it better.
  • Fall is coming.
  • Summer’s coming.
  • I feel creatively stuck.
  • I feel creatively inspired.
  • I feel frumpy.
  • I feel beautiful.
  • I saw a picture of myself, and I don’t like the way my hair looks.
  • I’m getting too many grays.

Reasons have ranged from insignificant fun to Maybe you should talk to a therapist about that. Either way, changing hair color has been a harmless form of creative exploration, and Redken has been a constant friend to me through the years. That said, after a signature brunette-and-bangs look that carried me through my early parenting years, I went blond last year–right before my 40th birthday. I wasn’t sure how long it would last, but I LOVE it. Like really love it. Yes, it’s a lot of upkeep, but it definitely masks grays much better, and there are some other perks I didn’t expect–one being that it dries my normally oily hair just enough that I can skip washing it a day and play around with dry shampoo looks (I could never do that as a brunette–always looked like I laid in butter overnight).

So many people have messaged, asking about what products I use to keep it blond, so I thought I’d give a Going Blond 411.

First order of business: TRUST YOUR STYLIST. Because I’m impulsive, of course when I decided to be blond, I wanted platinum-in-a-day. I even told my stylist that I know people have done it because I’ve seen it. Still, she refused (she’s also a friend who tells me like it is). She said for the kind of blond I wanted and to keep my hair healthy, it would take a while to get there. She also said if your stylist says you can go from brunette to super blond in a day, you need to can your stylist. In the middle of the gradual process, I once decided I wanted to go back brunette and she refused to do that too–ha! Because she knows me. “You’ve worked too long to get here, we’re not ruining your dedication in a day because you’re pulling one of your “I need change” cards.” I need a stylist who keeps me in line.

Here’s a little look back on the hair diaries over the years:

And finally, I got my ice blond! And without having stretchy, damaged hair.

 

I didn’t want a yellow blond, so we use an ash-based color. My stylist said it’s ALL ABOUT THE TONER! She puts a toner on after she highlights it. The toner gradually fades (making the hair a little blonder each week after processing), but it keeps it from looking brassy. The opposite of yellow is violet, so the if any hair is yellow, it will be beige after toner and white hair after bleached will be more violet after toner.

I also swear by violet shampoo and conditioner to keep the blond from getting too yellowy. I’ve got my entire hair routine down to 5 products:

  1. Clairol Shimmer Lights Shampoo & Conditioner – It’s suggested to use this three times a week in between regular shampoo, but I use it more like 5 days because I like the look of a blue-based blond.
  2. Shu Uemura Ultimate Reset Restoration Serum– I smooth a couple pumps of this into wet hair to protect it from drying out.
  3. Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray  – Cult favorite–this stuff is AMAZING. But pricey. I spray a little at the roots once my hair is dry to give my hair some lift and to help achieve that messy-on-purpose look. If I’m feeling guilty about the splurge, I’ll take Oribe breaks with Batiste dry shampoo, but it’s not the same.
  4. Conair 1.25 in. Curling Iron – No fancy curling iron–this one is super inexpensive.
  5. Shu Uemura Shape Paste – This is the magic ingredient. I imagine Meg Ryan used it in You’ve Got Mail because that adorable texturized perfectly-out-of-place look is exactly what it does. When my shape paste starts running out, I get hives.

I’ve never been so committed to a hair routine and style, but I’m really loving it. The true test of staying blond for me comes in the fall when the mood shifts to cozy fireside warmth and dark rich tones.

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Spring Wardrobe Must Haves

April 5, 2019 By Kelle

Spring Wardrobe Must Haves

While we experience close to constant sunshine here in Florida, I still tend to follow seasonal trends for fashion. That means I get unnecessarily excited when I hear people talk about sandal weather and short sleeves. It’s the Michigan in me, I guess. So when a friend recently told me she needed some new clothes for spring, wanted to revamp her entire wardrobe and asked for help, I got really excited, over achieved and made an entire blog post of my favorite must haves for the new season. I’m not officially calling this a capsule wardrobe because I’d add a few more things to make it complete, but if I were going away for two weeks this spring, this is definitely what I’d pack.

I’m trying on a few of these outfits to show you how they can be put together and linking a huge list of options at the end. None of these will break your budget, and I included several of my favorite Target picks right now in the mix (including that polka dot Who What Wear maxi skirt, a $12 graphic tee and two pairs of sunglasses under $20!).

Look at all the possibilities!

Let’s start with jumpsuits and rompers because I’m feeling very passionate about them right now. It’s a one-and-done outfit, and there are so many cute options available. I have a really long torso, so I used to think jumpsuits and rompers didn’t work for me, but my attraction to them won in the end. It turns out there are so many that work, and as long as I try them on to make sure they’re wedgie approved, we’re good. Current favorite: DENIM. I linked this Free People one at the end of this post. It’s so comfortable! I may end up cutting the sleeves and rolling them up when we get to boob sweat temps here, but for now the longer sleeves don’t bother me. I wear it with nude clogs to make my legs look longer, but you could totally wear sneakers for a more casual look, or heels to dress it up. There’s a Wrangler denim romper linked at the end as well which I wish I would have seen first–I like the little bit of elastic in the waist.

While we’re on jumpsuits and rompers, this Nordstrom one is another fun one. It’s a nice lightweight fabric but still forgiving. I’ll probably add a belt in the middle instead of the tie.

My main go-to for every day though is a graphic tee + maxi/midi skirt. I love wearing skirts and dresses, and adding the graphic tee keeps it super casual. This skirt is from Target’s Who What Wear line last year, and I wear it all the time.

I love pairing sneakers with skirts lately too, and there are so many cute retro sneakers right now that I have to abstain from clicking.

Another graphic tee/maxi combo with a current Who What Wear skirt (at Target now)…

As far as dresses, I like casual flowy dresses and buy most of mine from Free People because they fit perfectly and they work great for that beachy Florida vibe. This one has a nice heavy gauzy feel; and you can and wad it up, throw it in a suitcase, wear it wrinkled, and it would still work.

Finally, to even out the funky and colorful, I love keeping a classic pair of skinny jeans in rotation and a nice button-up shirt. I wear all my button-up shirts tied in the front because I think it creates a flattering waistline, so I always make sure the shirt is long enough to unbutton the last two buttons and tie it without having it ride up too high.

To complete the spring look, accessories include a panama hat, two different styles of sunglasses and two pairs of earrings–one classic and one fun statement.

And the round-up of all these styles

2 Maxi Skirts
Who What Wear Polka Dot Skirt (the one I’m wearing, under $30!)
Pleated H&M Skirt
Patterned Maxi Skirt
Embroidered Yellow Midi Skirt
Floral Maxi Skirt (with suspenders!)

Graphic Tees
Merci Tee ($12.99 at Target!)
Mama Bird Ringer Tee
Billy Joel Tee
The Beatles Tee
Madewell Retro Sister Ringer Tee
Bando Vacation Tee

Button Down Shirt
Cloth & Stone Classic White (I found mine at Marshalls last year for a fraction of the price)
J.Crew White Linen
J.Crew Mustard Stripe Short Sleeve

Jeans
J.Crew High Rise – These are my current favorite jeans. I look for high rise, button fly and a raw hem in jeans, and these check off all three

Overalls – I’ve tried on so many overalls, and these are my favorite. I like that they’re more fitted in the legs to give it a more tailored look.

Jumpsuits & Rompers
Free People Denim Romper
Wrangler Denim Romper
Red Levi’s Jumpsuit
Floral Jumpsuit
Pink Collared Romper

Retro Tennis Shoes
Retro Nike
Rainbow Boden Sneakers – I get so many compliments every time I wear these. Comfy and super fun!
Gola Rainbow Stripe Sneakers
Madewell Tretorn Sneakers

Big Buckle Birkenstocks – pretty much all I wear when we are up in Michigan

Heeled Nude Clogs – so great for making your legs look longer!

Edgy Booties
Super Edgy Gah! I love these Givenchy knock-offs–which is a good thing because the real ones are $1395
Middle Edgy
A little Edgy

Flowy Dress
Free People Bali Dress – I stitched up the cleavage area so it’s not so low cut. Took me 5 minutes and it lines up perfectly so you can close it as high as you want with a little needle and thread.
Free People Midi Dress – I have this, and it’s so comfy!
Madewell Wrap Dress
Topshop Maxi Dress – would look so cute with red sandals!

Accessories
Black Panama Hat – I am super picky about hats. I want a stiff brim (as opposed to floppy) that isn’t too big and a crown that isn’t too cowboyish. This is my go-to hat, and it’s super affordable.
Gold Aviator Sunglasses – classic rockstar sunglasses
Round Ombre Penny Lane Sunglasses – fun retro vibe
Vivi & Bette Mustard Pom Pom Earrings (I’ve been wearing these with everything lately–adds such an element of fun to any outfit)
Tortoise Hoop Earrings – Simple, classic, goes with everything

Now go forth and enjoy your weekend! HAPPY FRIDAY!

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