This post is sponsored by thredUP.
So, besides the twinkle lights…and the carols…and the cookies and the gift wrap and the candy canes…and the cards in the mail…and the 24 hour marathon of Christmas Story–okay, so basically everything that is good in this world, there is one more thing I love about the holidays–dressing up. I crave old school Christmas cocktail party attire–dresses and sequins, heels and glitter, black dresses and flowy skirts. Even if it’s a Friday night at Chili’s.
“You know you can totally go casual,” my friend suggests for our upcoming Nutcracker tradition.
“You speak Christmas blasphemy,” I replied. “How dare you.”
I love my active wear days and nearly lived in the same nightgown for Thanksgiving break (“That’s a little, um…” Brett informed me, “…how do I say this–grandma-ish.”), but I also love the invitation to glam it up a bit during the holidays and the girlishness that has a moment to shine.
Since dressing up isn’t something we do a lot of over here, when it comes to buying fancier clothes, I don’t like to spend a lot. But I do like certain brands and don’t want to sacrifice quality. Dilemma solution? Secondhand, baby. And not just any secondhand–the online motherload of well-curated fashion for women and kids…thredUP.
Don’t know thredUP? Come with me. I’ll show you.
So, your closet needs a little inspiration–a few fun new items, some glam, a new black cocktail dress. Your kids need winter sweaters. Your son’s busting out of all his 4T. Have no fear. We can do this without breaking the bank.
You go to thredUP. You search your favorite brands like Madewell and J. Crew and Free People, which are always up to 90% off retail price. You filter your finds with specific sizes. You put way more in your cart than you need because Oh my God, these prices! and I’m in love with too many things! You edit your cart, you decide on your final purchase. You order. You wait for your box to arrive and while you’re waiting, reply “WILL ATTEND” to all those holiday gatherings because you know what you’ll be wearing now.
And then that polka dot box arrives. And when you open it and pull the pretty tissue paper back, you swear everything has to be brand new (and some of it is!).

(Sweaters! Sweaters for the kids. I love having them for our chillier days here in the winter, but hate paying full price because we don’t have enough of those days here to justify it. This French Connection sweater for Dash still had the tags on it, and the Gap one for Lainey is exactly the style I would have paid full price for. I got it for $13.99 while a similar fair aisle sweater for girls retails for $44.95. That’s a 70% discount!)
Where were we? The box. Yes, the box. Everything in the box makes you happy. So happy, you run to show your husband and brag about how much money you saved. (“Do you even know what this retails for? I mean, look! The tag is still on there–it says $130! Twenty bucks, babe. I PAID TWENTY.“)
My favorite holiday dress-up clothes for my latest thredUP box?
This Adrianna Papell cocktail dress. The fabric is thick and rich and feels so good on.

And the detail in the criss-cross, collar-baring bodice…love, love, love. The dress was $32 while most Adrianna Papell cocktail dresses retail from $160-$200.

This New York & Company cardigan with romantic ruffles that can be paired with anything from a pencil skirt to jeans and heels to glam it up…

And my favorite, this gorgeous Milly skirt–new with tags–and this fun mod cardigan. This skirt with black tights is my new go-to.

And come summer, I’ll ditch the tights and get nautical with a red stripe tee and sandals. I will reach for a sailor cap but I’ll put it back because I know when to stop.
We always find great Hanna Andersson and Mini Boden stuff on thredUP for the kids too–and I could have kept that a secret so that we keep finding it first, but I’m nice and divulged.
I picked up this darling Lands End dress for Nella, perfect for fall…
…and love seeing the kids’ new sweaters in the closet, waiting for another cold front.


As if buying secondhand isn’t great for the planet already, thredUP threw in another little bonus this year–all their clothing tags right now double as adorable gift tags for your Christmas presents.
Here’s the best part. You, my dear readers, get 40% off your entire thredUP order, when you use code HAMPTON40, valid through 2/1/17 (discount is valid only for first time shoppers and up to $50). And there’s more: thredUP is also giving 1 lucky winner a $250 credit to use on their site. Visit HERE and comment back on this post with the link to one item you’d like to purchase!
Now would someone please invite me to a fancy Christmas party before I overdress for margaritas at Chili’s?






Definitely these. My niece would love them! I’ve kind of made her a little boot addict like I am and she loves Minnie Mouse.
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-disney-black-boots/19407888?sizing_id=36%2C400%2C409%2C405
I’m a sucker for anything Anthro!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-acrylic-postmark-from-anthropologie-gray-cardigan/20201576
I mean, I feel like my husband should definitely take me on a date with this. https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-jessica-simpson-ivory-cocktail-dress/20314961
I love this paired with black velvet throw: https://www.thredup.com/product/women-rayon-lane-bryant-pink-casual-dress/20006927
So pretty!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-caroll-dark-green-casual-dress/20359722
This blouse!! https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-madewell-red-sleeveless-blouse/19521604
Oh my, my daughter just put jeggings on her Christmas list last night!
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-abercrombie-light-blue-jeggings/20333420
I love that Adrianna Papell dress! I wore one of this designers dresses to my daughter’s wedding.
https://www.thredup.com/product/boys-cotton-carters-blue-short-sleeve-button-down-shirt/20243083?shortcut=3553
I actually had this outfit for my 15 month old son last summer–but sized wrong so he never got to wear it. I’d love to pick it up for him for next summer in 2t!
I’d love this silk dress for the holidays! https://www.thredup.com/product/women-silk-jay-godfrey-black-silk-dress/17420148
This blouse!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-rayon-vanessa-virginia-orange-long-sleeve-blouse/17416787?sizing_id=579%2C813%2C822
Because who doesn’t need a purple purse?
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-leather-cole-haan-dark-purple-leather-satchel/20180509
I want all the things. But this red sweater is festive and chunky and $13. ???? Yes please!!!
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-baby-gap-red-pullover-sweater/20231465?sizing_id=427%2C132%2C136%2C35%2C33
So cute!!
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-ikks-gray-pullover-sweater/20095058?sizing_id=427%2C39
I love this little romper for my daughter next summer. https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-ralph-lauren-pink-romper/17713397?sizing_id=22%2C36
You inspired me with your cute sweaters:
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-lucky-brand-burgundy-pullover-sweater/20335290
Adorable outfits on you. And the photo of the kids in sweaters ~ too cute!
Love this green dress
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-calvin-klein-green-casual-dress/20262779?sizing_id=795%2C798%2C813
Honestly I rarely buy clothes online because I am short and all my weight goes to my middle so I very seldom find things I think will actually fit. But this site is definitely making me want to try, and right now I am utterly into this bug tote:
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-miss-albright-beige-tote/20151745
I love this.
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-weston-wear-purple-casual-dress/20209312
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-the-limited-black-cocktail-dress/17033427?shortcut=4142
I’m thinking holiday parties in this cute cocktail dress!
I wish this silly hat came in an adult size! My daughter would love being a monster!
https://www.thredup.com/product/boys-cotton-hanna-andersson-orange-winter-hat/19819966
I am unexpectedly expecting years after ridding myself of my fave red maternity pants.
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-motherhood-pink-jeggings/20302715
My husband’s work holiday party at the arm museum is coming up. This dress is so pretty and would be perfect for the occasion!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-lela-rose-for-neiman-marcus-target-purple-cocktail-dress/19375860?sizing_id=812%2C832%2C568%2C822%2C829
You had me at “holiday party at the art museum” Love that dress!
I love glitter so this. https://www.thredup.com/product/women-nylon-j-crew-gray-long-sleeve-top/19612151?sizing_id=795
Totally not the season but I would not be able to resist this happy summery dress!!!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-kate-spade-new-york-pink-casual-dress/19863219?sizing_id=816%2C813
Kelle…you are the perfect person for Dressember! Have you heard of it? Wear a dress for the 31days of December to raise awareness and raise $ to combat sexual trafficking of women.
It’s only Dec 2nd – not too late to start. Spread the word..Dressember + this post = a perfect combo.
Dreaming of warmer weather.
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-j-crew-factory-store-navy-blue-casual-dress/19934538?sizing_id=765%2C778%2C559
Do not need another LBD, but this one! Love! https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-shani-black-cocktail-dress/20344308?sizing_id=813
I started ordering from ThredUp a few months ago when you first posted about them. I have gotten so many brand new kids clothes on there, it’s insane.
I’m expecting baby #3 right now, so I’d love this pretty maternity holiday dress for parties this season!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-motherhood-dark-purple-casual-dress/20220867?sizing_id=829%2C832
This! How fun! This site would be perfect for shopping for a vacation swimsuit in the dead of Minnesota winter 🙂
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-viscose-bcbgmaxazria-blue-pullover-sweater/16874702?shortcut=4125&sizing_id=757%2C551%2C756%2C768%2C554%2C775%2C778%2C750%2C755%2C765
Loving this wool skirt for holiday family photos, and casual holiday family gatherings!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-wool-brooks-brothers-346-dark-blue-wool-skirt/20343095?sizing_id=795%2C798%2C806%2C571%2C813%2C90%2C919%2C88
https://www.thredup.com/product/20316853
I actually just joined and order a few things. I was thrilled to find out they had tall sizes now.
$12?!?!?! Are you kidding me?! This is such a happy sweater — https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-j-crew-factory-store-pink-pullover-sweater/20365814?sizing_id=775%2C782%2C791%2C799%2C774%2C790%2C781%2C778%2C795
Love this, thanks so much for sharing!! Your holiday spirit is contagious. 🙂
I would love to rock these wedges for work:
https://www.thredup.com/product/20278793
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-grass-collection-black-cocktail-dress/19802517
I LOVE this dress. Can never have enough little black dresses!
I liked a lot of things but I really loved this dress. 🙂
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-alloy-beige-casual-dress/15414088?sizing_id=795%2C798%2C842
I want something warm and cozy to get me through the winter preggo months: https://www.thredup.com/product/women-motherhood-brown-cardigan/19109976
I love this dressy coat:
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-wool-h-and-m-gray-wool-coat/20300013?sizing_id=778%2C795%2C781%2C790%2C563%2C568
This one!
https://www.thredup.com/product/boys-cotton-crewcuts-red-pullover-sweater/16728462?sizing_id=778%2C124
Who could go wrong with a 12.00 dollar sweater. I love more that I could tag.
I am a frequent browser to thredup!.
https://assets-thredup.insnw.net/assets/56314498/large.jpg
Cute, Cute, Cute bag. Love it.
This one! Sooo sultry. https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-grass-collection-black-cocktail-dress/19802517?sizing_id=795%2C813%2C579%2C822
Love this little cocktail dress for NYE!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-bcbgeneration-gray-cocktail-dress/18633172?shortcut=4125
I’m kinda diggin this shirt:
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-alternative-apparel-gray-short-sleeve-t-shirt/20109724?sizing_id=790
Shopping ahead for Easter for my daughter: https://www.thredup.com/product/20118866. We love ThredUp!
Love outfitting my kids from Thredup!
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-oshkosh-bgosh-dark-blue-overalls/19228696?sizing_id=36
Now you got me wondering about Adrianna Papell, so I found this dress that I now “need”: https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-adrianna-papell-black-cocktail-dress/20379699?sizing_id=829%2C832%2C841
Loving this cute little number… would be great in the summer and I could throw a cardi on over it in the winter!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-viscose-kensie-light-green-casual-dress/19958894?sizing_id=778%2C795%2C790%2C799%2C571
So many great finds! I love pieces that can easily be dressed up or down.
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-new-york-and-company-dark-blue-34-sleeve-top/18832351?sizing_id=795
I haven’t purchased clothing for myself in a long time, nut I am in love with this purse.
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-leather-coach-black-leather-shoulder-bag/16534641
Your finds are so cute! The sizes I needed, not so much. But found these cute bottoms, just need to wait for summer is all!
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-gap-kids-gray-skirt/18091769?shortcut=3552&sizing_id=65%2C68%2C489
hey kelle. thanks for the recommendation! i found some cute stuff for my girls. i love this shirt for me – hoping to win the big prize 🙂 https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-j-crew-ivory-sleeveless-blouse/20370422?sizing_id=813%2C798%2C812
I can see my girl wearing this
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-mini-boden-dark-blue-romper/19251894?sizing_id=35%2C50
There are so many fun dresses that it is hard to choose! This would be perfect for NYE in NYC:
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-laundry-by-shelli-segal-black-cocktail-dress/16427543?referral_code=adwords_pla_dc02&gclid=CJDZre6v2NACFYKCswodc7sAkw
I love, love, love Joe’s Jeans!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-joes-jeans-dark-blue-jeans/20099152?sizing_id=778%2C765%2C781%2C790%2C775%2C782%2C791%2C551%2C554%2C559
Would love these pointy toe black flats! I have had a hard time finding a pair!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-sam-edelman-black-flats/20396920?sizing_id=926%2C579%2C829%2C584%2C588
Just spent the last hour shopping and I can’t wait for my box to arrive next week! Absolutely adore these heels! I’m a sucker for anything Kate Spade
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-kate-spade-new-york-red-heels/19346409
Those sweaters are ADORABLE!
I love second hand clothes, but hate all the searching way an awesome way to shop!
My son goes through jeans so quickly, I love these Gap jeans!
https://www.thredup.com/product/boys-cotton-gap-blue-jeans/20040865
I just placed an order for several dresses and tops using your code, so excited about that. I did love this sweet little dress, but alas, it isn’t my size.
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-nanette-lepore-dark-green-casual-dress/20081935
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-j-brand-dark-blue-jeans/19324079
These maternity jeans. Loved them so much I bought them. 🙂
I love a good, comfy sweatshirt and a book to curl up on a cold winter evening!
http://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-free-people-tan-sweatshirt/20435515
They don’t ship to Canada! 🙁
a new swim cover up for my daughter, to keep her warm on the beach this winter during our travels. love thredup!
https://www.thredup.com/product/boys-cotton-mini-boden-ivory-pullover-hoodie/19304600
This sweater for sure!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-rayon-41hawthorn-dark-blue-pullover-sweater/20420983?sizing_id=832%2C812
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-polyester-chicos-brown-casual-dress/19956881?sizing_id=829
This dress is so pretty and looks comfortable!
This for next summer 🙂
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-sonoma-life-style-blue-casual-dress/19084649?sizing_id=812%2C832%2C841%2C588%2C795%2C829
Such a fun site!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-rayon-skies-are-blue-dark-blue-cardigan/20429268?sizing_id=829%2C842%2C579
ThredUP is my FAVORITE! Thus, I sadly cannot use the 40% off code, but wow that’s a great discount. I love these Jordans for my toddler! https://www.thredup.com/product/boys-jordan-black-sneakers/17500647?sizing_id=812%2C409%2C405 Crossing my fingers for this one!
I need an invite to a fancy party for it, but this dress is gorgeous!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-white-house-black-market-dark-purple-cocktail-dress/18236339?shortcut=4141&sizing_id=829%2C571%2C832
So hard to pick just one item 🙁
This sweater for my daughter:
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-abercrombie-navy-blue-pullover-sweater/20460794?sizing_id=507%2C116%2C812%2C65
Such cute sweaters!
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-lucky-brand-burgundy-pullover-sweater/20335290
I can’t believe I haven’t shopped there before! Here’s one of a million things I could buy.
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-hanna-andersson-purple-dress/18309523
This.
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-rayon-banana-republic-brown-casual-dress/15403746?sizing_id=778%2C551%2C554
Because, for Pete’s sake, IT IS ELEVEN DOLLARS.
This is going to be a problem. I can feel it in my loins.
https://www.thredup.com/product/women-cotton-bcbgmaxazria-black-jacket/undefined
I love thred.up!!!
I’m feeling the green, must be the scent of pine in the air! https://www.thredup.com/product/women-fossil-dark-green-leather-wristlet/19217472?sizing_id=778
Love this breezy leopard top! https://www.thredup.com/product/women-linen-joie-tan-short-sleeve-t-shirt/20069699
I love this for our upcoming trip to Hawaii! So tempting…
https://www.thredup.com/product/girls-cotton-mud-pie-blue-dress/19193932
http://www.thredup.com/product/women-leather-michael-michael-kors-
Need a new purse so bad! Outfits look flawless on you btw????
Buffalo plaid! I love ThredUp <3 https://www.thredup.com/product/women-acrylic-the-limited-red-cardigan/20467134?sizing_id=812
You had me at mini Boden <3