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Swing your Dreads.

October 19, 2010 By Kelle

Sadly, our company has left.
And now we have a little time for this:

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In craving fall pleasures of the North, we managed to find this:

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Not exactly the picturesque old cider mill hugged by tiers of apple trees we would have preferred but fun nonetheless.

Bradenton’s Hunsader Farms Pumpkin Festival–a carnival of fall-pleasures, a buffet of fair foods, an exposition of autumn-themed festivities like pony-rides, hay throwing and corn mazes.

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Dude, you know it’s a bad day when the corn patrol has to come rescue you from your lost corner of the corn maze.

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I’m pretty sure I have that same orange vest in yellow.


So, I like Fall. No, I love Fall. And if I was into that whole kindergarten teacher decorated cardigan thing, I’d wear one every day. But I’m not. But somewhere there is an imaginary version of me wearing something orange with gourd buttons and felt patch leaves. I’m just sayin.

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This Hunsader Farms. It’s this crazy huge place with tents galore and a parking lot the size of Montana. But it’s a magnificent place to feel like it’s fall when really it’s eighty-some degrees and the closest thing to a cider mill is the $12 hay bales they sell at the nursery up the street.

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The kids loved it. And I loved the kids loving it.

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We indulged in real carmel apples and fresh-squeezed lemonade, smoked sweet corn and chocolate dipped bacon. Yes, chocolate dipped bacon.

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(and if you’re reading at the same pace I do, this is about the point in the song playing that I wish I had dreads so I could stand up and dance, flinging my head back and forth all crazy…and my dreads would swish and whip with blurring speed, and I’d feel like a true rockstar…sans pumpkin sweater, of course)

And speaking of dancing, we danced. We danced like crazy people, sweat beading and dripping down our temples, laughing and swinging our kids like flour sacks across our hips. We danced to live honkey-tonk music and jammed to banjos and drums and fiddles played by Santa Claus-looking life enthusiasts.

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Our dear friend, Rebecca, who came down from Indiana just for this weekend’s festivities. We love her very much.

My girl was wild and free, clapping off beat, stompin’ her feet, dancing crazy, tongue curled bashfully just like it always does when she is having more fun than she wants us to know.

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We stayed until the exposed bare skin caged beneath sandal straps was black from hours trekking across loose dirt and the kids were worn out and in need of nourishment that didn’t involve sugar or a deep fryer. But it was grand.

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And, on the two-hour drive home, in between choreographing a car dance routine and popping sweet potato puffs into Nella’s sweet little mouth to keep her happy, the sun gave us a little encore of loveliness to our day.

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And, in other news.

We have a garden.
Gary (who just happens to be a very talented horticulturist) put in a 15 x 6 foot garden yesterday which is more than I thought I’d ever be able to have in Florida and something our family is really excited about. Come time for Nella’s birthday, we should be expecting to harvest tomatoes and peppers, carrots, onions, radishes and lettuce.

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My friend Nici has inspired me to get a little more involved in the food we eat, and I’m excited for this new challenge. We’ll see what happens. I’ve never considered myself the gardening girl but the older I get, the more I want to be. There’s this line I love in Little Women. Jo, the writer, just finishes giving an impressive speech arguing an important point. “You should have been a lawyer,” someone says. And she smiles and calmly replies, “I should have been a great many things.” I love that.

I want to be “a great many things,” and maybe….just maybe….garderner is among them.

And this post is getting completely long-winded, but real quick, just to prove it doesn’t take that much time, money or effort to make meaningful memories for your kids…

Our Fall Party.

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Every kid brought their own pumpkin and t-shirt to paint and the only thing I did was lay out donuts, cider and carmel apples.

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The hit of the day was the scavenger hunt…a trail of clues that led to a bag of candy buried beneath the “X”.

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Swear, I forgot I said I was going to throw this party until two hours before the kids arrived. I was knee-deep in work and completely oblivious to what time it was. Needless to say, the rule was “stay outside” so no one saw the atrocious mess indoors.

Anyhoo, it was fun.

It’s been interesting balancing work and chores and family and company and Buddy Walk and pumpkin festivals and meaningless errands and housework and so on, but strangely, the busier we are, the more fueled I feel. You make it work…in the best way you know how.

It’s Fall, People. Go hug a pumpkin. Go swing your dreads. Go discover what a great many things you want to be.

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And Congratulations to my sister who rocked out her Toastmasters speech today and won!

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Hey Buddy.

October 18, 2010 By Kelle

Oh boy…here we go.

Brett has this theory (among many) that when you have a moment of deja vu, it means you are exactly where you are supposed to be in life; that, somehow, if you feel like you’ve lived through a moment in life before, it has to mean the universe is letting you know you should be living that moment. And, I guess that’s how I’d have to summarize this weekend.

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I just felt like I belonged, like it was exactly where we were supposed to be.

Sometimes I feel selfish. Like why didn’t I do these things before Nella? Why did it take my world being quaked to make me jump aboard this ship and would I have done it if it hadn’t? Up until this point, I have done it because every day, I peer into soulful almond eyes that belong to a child that is mine. And I love her with a painful, throbbing love that makes me want to change the world for her. I want to speak fearlessly and change stereotypes and possibly stretch hearts and minds to accept my baby more because she is mine and that’s what mamas do for the ones we love. We move mountains.

I consider myself a selfless person. I volunteer when I can. I give a dollar or three or four when the check-out lady asks me if I want to add a donation for diabetes or the homeless shelter or breast cancer research to my grocery bill. I cry when I read stories about children who are hurting, and sometimes I lie in bed at night forcing myself to think of how bad it would hurt to be one of those moms. And yet sometimes it disappoints me that it took opening my arms to the tiny slippery body of my baby–the one with almond eyes and little peanut ears–to make me want to look deeply into the almond eyes of the girl that sometimes bags my groceries at Publix. To make me want to hug her and tell her I think her blond hair looks beautiful tucked behind her ears or that I appreciate how she always bags the bread separately so that it doesn’t get smooshed. Because, to me, she is Nella.

And I wonder if that’s selfish–having to have a personal connection to make me feel it. But then, I remember that everything we learn in life goes back to connections and emotions and knowing someone who knows someone that something has happened to. We teach our kids to treat people how they want to be treated, and the suggestion of bringing it back to ourselves is selfish in itself…but it’s how we learn.

It’s how I’ve learned. Knowing what it feels like to love someone so desperately that has that extra chromosome and to slowly let that feeling seep in deeply until it goes beyond just my child…it makes me so very passionate.
And, I guess with all that said, I felt that Saturday. I felt connected. I felt like I was walking for every blessed soul with designer genes. I felt like, even if we didn’t have Nella, I would have wanted to be there.

And yet, the love still bleeds most deeply for my own girls…and I’m okay with that.

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So, I walked with a few names in my pocket of babies whose mamas aren’t quite ready to walk yet. And I walked for all those on the path before us, all those on the path behind us.

And I walked for my girl. My beautiful blue-eyed kitten who rocks out a studded hat like nobody’s business.

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I say I love adjectives but words fail me now.

It was…beautiful.

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I thought of what I wanted it to be in my mind. I wanted happy. I wanted dancing. I wanted a crazy celebration. I wanted to rock it out.

And, well.

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I cried a little bit when the choir sang the national anthem, but I cry at that before a big game too. And I cried when I huddled with our friends after the walk to tell them how much I love them, but that’s nothing new either. Other than that, it felt like a big freaking party where life is celebrated and the future is welcomed.

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Also helped that we brought a boom box loaded with rock anthems, and my dad hoisted it over his head for the entire 2-mile walk.

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And I didn’t know walking across Florida boardwalks just post-sunrise with friends, celebrating the magic of the 47th and jammin’ to the Black Eyed Peas was on my Bucket List, but it is now…followed by a big fat CHECK.

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Nella’s P.T. Jonah, his son, and the little rockstar herself.

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The tiniest rockstar representin’…Baby Grady, just seven days old.

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It was Naples’ first year hosting, and our town delivered. We might be small, but we are mighty.

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Thank you to everyone who came out to support. Three cheers for the Village.

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Total craziness here. Coming up for air soon. But, there’s good stuff this week.

Hint-hint:

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We drove two hours to get the best make-shift Michigan we could find, and Bradenton, Florida delivered pretty nicely today, I gotta say.

But, that’s for later.

We gotsa giveaway.

Winner (generated by Random.org) of the Vintage Pearl $75 gift certificate: Commenter #1271, Suzanne who’s loving: 1. Our 3 children already jumped into those leaves last night after supper…I raked a maze for them first!, 2. A “White Chocolate” coffee flavor I found for $4.99 today and drinking it right now in my fun insulated Halloween Cup., 3. Listened to Ingrid Michaelson as I drove down the winding roads of small town Wisconsin.
There’s lots of love right now!

Suzanne, please e-mail me your information to kellehamptonblog@comcast.net

And, I’m happy to announce The Vintage Pearl as a new sponsor this month. Their hand-stamped, sterling silver comes in eye-catching unique designs and makes for memorable conversation pieces and beautiful gifts. Use discount kelle10 at check-out for 10% off this week. Discount ends this Friday.

And I think that’s it. Or did I already say that? Whoa, Deja vu. Or maybe, I am just right where I’m supposed to be.

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Giveaway

October 16, 2010 By Kelle

A. I have shin splints. Those damn ugly bowling shoes did a number. Like it kind of feels like my shins are made of wood. Note to self: Don’t run in bowling shoes.

B: It’s madness here. Good, crazy madness where there’s much to do and not much time to be on the computer. In the meantime…

C: If you have leaves–beautiful, saturated colored ones that are spinning into little piles in your yard, please…someone…jump in them for me.

D: The back-up plan: Shipped in leaves. So my girls know what they feel like. What they smell like. Cousin Joann did it again, this year topping out with extra wrapped bags of acorns and t-shirts that have soaked in the smoldering scent of smoke from burning leaves.

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Divinity.

E. How’s about a giveaway?

Loving my Vintage Pearl necklace

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How’d you like a little something lovley from her shop? One random commenter will be winning a $75 gift certificate to The Vintage Pearl. International commenters can win too! Winner will be announced Sunday.

Let’s make it fun. Tell me three things you are loving about this moment. I’ll start.

1. Loving my friend Rebecca down from Indianapolis here to stay with us.
2. Loving anticipation for the Buddy Walk tomorrow and joining hands with all those we love in celebration of something so much bigger…and love that we took “Rockstar” theme to the Nth degree. Hey, it’s almost Halloween.
3. Loving that I found my tennis shoes tonight. No more shin splints.

Much love in store.

Oh, wait. Can I get an AMEN!!!!!! to what you have done for the NDSS? We’re over $5,000, thanks to you. I am deeply grateful and touched by the kindness of all of you. Thank you, thank you. Donations can still be given HERE.

You are making a difference.

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