I’m not going to lie, one of the first things I thought upon finding out I was going to have a girl all those years ago was, “I get to do her hair!” And then another one came, and I was like “TWO! Two little heads of hair begging to be braided and twisted and fishtailed and tied up with ribbons and bows and all the hair accessories in the land!” Now that school’s rolling, we’ve stocked up on all our favorite hair accessories to make getting ready in the morning much easier rather than the end-of-the-year army crawling under beds to scour the floor for a possible hidden ponytail holder because everything’s missing (every day of our lives come May).

For the most part, my girls’ hair is up every day because A: Nella will be distracted and play with hers if it’s down, and B: I was a teacher once, and lice prevention is my jam. Lice prevention goes like this: Keep it dirty; keep it up. Therefore (I threw a “therefore” at you!), we don’t wash it every day. Although I will say some people (not naming names, but it rhymes with “Krett”) take that a little too far, because I rolled up in car line to pick up the girls after “Krett” held the fort down for my 4 days away last week, I saw Nella, and I was like, “DEAR GOD. HER HAIR.” It looked like someone washed it with a CAN OF CRISCO.

How do you get a kid to let you do her hair? I get asked this a lot, and my answer may not work for everyone, but it’s how we play the hair game: it’s non-negotiable here. As they say in the south, “No bow, no go.” Lainey does her own hair now, but starting with preschool, my girls have always known that hair’s gettin’ done, end of story.

It helps that I started doing their hair when they barely had enough to do, so they’re so used to it and never complain. Occasionally, if I’m doing something that’s a little more time-consuming or annoying, I’ll do it in front of the T.V. or hand Nella an iPad, but for the most part she doesn’t hesitate and gets involved in how she wants it done. “I want a fishtail!” “I want honey pots!” (two buns–got that term from a blog reader years ago).

And on weekends when it doesn’t matter, we let her wear it wild and free and down if she so chooses so she can swing it around like a diva.

As for storing and organizing our hair accessories, we have tried everything over the years from those big ribbons you use to snap on all your clips to labeled containers. We finally settled on what works for us (and actually keeps us from losing as much as we used to)–an entire top drawer of a dresser with a compartmentalized drawer organizer in it.

As for our hair products and accessory stash, I’m sharing some of our favorites today.  There are some handmade shops out there that make the most beautiful hair accessories, and we’d love nothing more than to have our entire selection be made up of these gorgeous goodies, but we’d be broke. So we do hair stuff with a half-and-half approach–we splurge on the really pretty-pretties we love for a nice foundation to our stash, and then we stock it with inexpensive fillers, especially when it comes to trendy stuff.

As for the basics, we always keep bobby pins on hand and use them for buns, braids and up-dos. For the ends of braids, we use clear mini bands.

I always buy a spool of narrow red grosgrain ribbon to tie in ponytails and at the end of braids (red goes with everything) as well as a spool of some gingham check to keep on hand (Joann’s or Michael’s or any fabric store). The ribbons fall off and we lose them from time to time, so the inexpensive spool replenishes our stock.

And the rest? Here’s what we’re currently loving for our mane game:

 

1. Fairy Tales Rosemary Repel Lice Prevention Spray. As a former teacher, I’m a bit of a lice prevention freak. I spray this on my kids’ hair every day (it doubles as a detangler) before I do their hair.

2. Rabbit Ear Ponytail Holders. Lainey LOVES these for her ponytails. They’re super inexpensive (20 of them for $7), won’t damage hair and turn an ordinary ponytail into something a bit more special.

3. Giddy Up and Grow Barrettes and Accessories. Basically, I want everything in her shop. We have several goodies from Giddy Up and Grow, and they are so beautiful–all handmade with the most beautiful materials. Her clips are super fun (Nella wore the popcorn and cotton candy ones to the fair this year), and her headbands are intricately designed and absolutely stunning. And her fall and Halloween line this year–Gah! Adorable.

4. Glitter Snap Clips. I mean, it’s glitter. You can’t go wrong. And it’s a 9-pack for only $10. Tight snap, great for bangs that are growing out or securing flyaways from braids. Or, in Nella’s case, chunks of uneven hair that she cut herself.

5. The Wet Brush. It took us a while to get one of these but after every kid who came over for a sleepover pulled one out of her bag and was all, “What? You don’t have a Wet Brush?!?”, we finally got one, and we’re in the cool club. By cool, I mean not crying from ripped tangled hair.

6. Hello Shisho Clips. Maybe it’s my miniature loving heart, but their coordinating themed clips? Obsessed. And they’re so cute when worn as a pair. Little conversation starters and the perfect accessory to any outfit. The fall acorn and leaf? The chicken and the egg? I CAN’T.

7. Sweet July Clips. These have been our signature clips since Nella was a baby, and if you look back in the blog archives, these babies pop up on my girls all the time. My good friend right here in Naples makes them, and I love to go to school and see all the other kids wearing them as well. They stay put–my favorite part. Even when Nella was little and took swipes at her hair, these suckers didn’t come out. Lots of fabric and size choices as well.

8. Pom-Pom Pins. Forever 21 is one of my favorite places to stock up on inexpensive hair stuff for the girls, especially the trendy funky stuff Lainey’s more into now. Also it gives me an excuse so when we walk in the store and Heidi tells me, “Dude, we’re like minivan-driving moms; we don’t belong in here,” I can snap back with, “I’m just here for the hair stuff…for the girls, of course.” (shhhhh…and also a bedazzled crop top). These pom-pom pins are super cute–shove a couple in a bun for a pop of color.

9. Miss Magpie Originals. You can’t go wrong with classic simplicity. Everything in this shop is timeless. These sweet bows are hand tied and made from high quality materials. Pair with a Peter Pan collared dress, bobby socks and Mary Janes, and then climb into the pages of a Dick & Jane book.

Also, Lainey is all up in those giant Jojo whats-her-name bows perched at the top of a ponytail cheerleader-style, but they’re like $16 a pop. We’ll pick one up on sale every once in a while because they do have some snazzy rainbow sequin stuff you can’t find anyplace else, but Lainey’s been happy with this set for way less.

And one from the archives to close…Gahhh! That itty itty bitty barrette!

This post is sponsored by Blue Apron.

When I travel, I like the early flights. Brett thinks I’m crazy because there’s not much that could drag him out of bed before 7, but I don’t mind tiptoeing in the dark to get ready and arriving to the airport just as the coffee shops are opening. In fact, I like it. An airport coming to life, short security lines, a hot cappuccino, a good gossip magazine in my hands and the sound of jet engines revving, and I’m awake, eager for adventure. Early flights also offer the benefit of arriving to destinations with enough time to slip right into the activity of the day which is where my early flight late last week landed me–off the runway after an emotional 3-day adventure in Minneapolis and right to my car, just in time to head to Dash’s preschool to pick him up.  While the early flight awarded me the chance to get back to the demands at home without losing another day, the transition was a bit jolting, and by 4:00, reality had swallowed me whole. And then Brett texted:

Forgot to tell you. Blue Apron just came. It’s in the garage fridge, so dinner should be easy.

Hallelujah, praise be to the heavens. Can I tell you what a weird welcoming hug that bit of information was? And it wasn’t just the relief of knowing I didn’t have to run to the grocery store or decide what we were going to eat–although that’s lovely in itself. It was an invitation to my enter my happy place and recover from travel in the best way possible–at home in my kitchen, nurturing my people and restoring all the loud, overwhelming “this is too much” voices in my head with kitchen sensory therapy. It’s hard to achieve when I’m scrambling last minute to think of something to make, throwing together random things I found in my refrigerator, but when all the beautiful healthy ingredients are handed to me on a silver platter and all I have to do is follow directions to put them together?

That’s when the magic happens, when cooking becomes therapy–a sensory buffet of sounds and colors, textures and smells. Blue Apron delivers all of this–the most beautiful, farm-fresh ingredients in just the right proportions we need (no waste!) in a refrigerated box, straight to our door along with easy-to-follow chef-designed recipes.

All I have to do is the stuff I love most–chop and stir and simmer; smell the garlic, listen to the water in the pot bubble, shake the seasonings, pour the olive oil, wait with anticipation as the candle flickers and the music plays and the kitchen swells with the most delicious scents…and then, delight in the end product.

Our meal this week was Garlic Butter Shrimp & Corn with thyme roasted blue potatoes (the color!) and the most creative side salad I would have never thought to put together with fresh green beans, cherry tomatoes, homemade toasted croutons and a creamy lemon dressing.

Lainey and Dash joined me for prep this time. Dash was ALL IN.

He took great pride in knife wielding very early in life–so much that we moved all our knives to a high shelf in the pantry and left him with kid-friendly cutlery in the drawers he can reach.

He’s not very happy about my assistance here…wants to do everything by himself.

The thyme on the potato wedges kicked up the flavor perfectly. We roasted ours a little more than the recipe called for because we like them crispy.

But look at the plate when it was finished–so pretty!

As we fold up summer and head into the cozy gathering months, I’m looking forward to many more nights in this kitchen, finding my calm place during a busy time of year in the rituals of cooking. Blue Apron makes that so easy by doing the hard work for us–gathering the freshest ingredients for the tastiest meals. Whether you choose to get Blue Apron meals delivered regularly or splurge on once-in-a-while saviors for the most demanding weeks, you can sign up, try it and cancel deliveries if it’s not a good week for you. And you can choose 2-person servings or a family plan.

Whatever the case, it’s another great resource for taking care of yourself and making the good life a little bit simpler.

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And if you’d like to try our tasty Garlic Butter Shrimp & Corn meal, you can find the recipe here or browse the many other delicious Blue Apron recipes here.

Bon Appétit!