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Creating a Capsule Wardrobe: Less Stuff! Less Laundry! More Space!

January 9, 2018 By Kelle

I cannot believe I’m saying this, but I’m finally joining the capsule wardrobe movement. Never one to consider it for my Type B merry-go-round of a brain (I’m too colorful! I like too many different things! My style cannot be contained into a capsule!), I changed my mind when the new year rolled around because A) I need to shake it up in many different areas, B) my closet situation is not working and needs a SWAT team intervention, and C) my sister told me she was attempting this, and she makes everything doable and fun (plus, she has a brain much like mine, so if she can do it, I can do it).

What is a capsule wardrobe, you ask? Basically, it’s an attempt to downsize your closet into a small collection of mix-and-match items (most capsule guides suggest around 30-40) that are supposed to last three months (1 clothing season) before refreshing it. You store what you don’t use out of sight.

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The capsule wardrobe was popularized by Unfancy blogger Caroline Rector back in 2014, but according to this article from Fashion Magazine, the original capsule was a more conservative approach created by a London shop owner in the 70s and was supposed to include roughly a dozen high-quality classic pieces. This idea took flight in the states in 1985 when Donna Karan introduced her “Seven Easy Pieces” collection. Capsule wardrobing is meant to help you declutter your closet, claim your style, gain confidence, save time in decisions and cut down shopping by keeping you from making emotional “I have nothing to wear” purchases. If you’re interested in trying it, Unfancy offers this printable planner that can help you choose your pieces and define your style.

Look at my sister’s Before & After…so inspiring!

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Now that you’re a capsule wardrobe expert, I’m going to break down my attempt at creating one this past weekend–a job I thought would take a couple of hours but turned into a full-day exorcism of my closet and way of life.

One of the biggest reasons I wanted to attempt a capsule wardrobe was that, no matter how many times I “organized” (I’m using that term loosely) my closet, it didn’t take long before it was a mess again and laundry was out of control. This, my friends, is the question I could not put to rest: Why do laundry if you still have things to wear? This problem, of course, resurfaced in other areas of my life, dampening my creativity. I tried the whole Kon Mari thing on my closet, but it’s a difficult approach when you truly find great joy in children’s books, holidays, stickers, neck bows, red shoes, things with bows, things with rainbows, things with stripes, things that are yellow…you get the picture. I love too many things. And, please, let me preface this post by saying this closet problem? It’s a very luxurious problem to have–I get that. With that said, this new capsule approach is doable because I’m just putting things away, not completely having to make decisions yet about what’s staying and what’s going for good. Although–let’s be honest–this is a stealthy method I’m expecting will lead to a more willing purge after reassessing the full closet in a few months. Another reason this feels refreshing for me is that I feel like I’ve been in a style rut simply from being overwhelmed with too much stuff in my brain, closet, etc. I used to get so much pleasure out of putting outfits together and having fun with creative fashion, but I’ve been grabbing the same old things to wear–many that I don’t really love–just because walking into my closet has made me want to walk out of it as quickly as possible–grab & go. And then, feeling overwhelmed and in a style rut, I was more tempted to buy things I didn’t need for an easy fix. After I shared the beginning of my capsule wardrobe attempt on Instagram Stories this weekend, many praised the capsule wardrobe, saying it has helped them clean up space for other things; but several thought it would stifle my style. From experience and so many things I’ve read about creativity and my personality, I think it will do the opposite–create order for my creative spirit to reign.

My goal in choosing my 35 pieces was to purposely pick some fun, colorful out-of-the-box items to force me to get back in my style groove. A lot of capsule wardrobes I’ve seen online feature a more minimalist style–a lot of neutrals, chambray, denim, black and white–but I went with a lot more funky/color pops, combined with staples (black, denim, black/white stripes and polka dots) with which they can easily mix & match.

This is what my closet looked like before–and it doesn’t even show the overflowing laundry baskets on the floor, not to mention all these weird random objects hidden in there that would both make for a challenging game of “Find It” and a nice roar of laughter from my friends. “Really, Kelle? A vacuum attachment, two puzzle pieces and a bike kickstand? Why are these in your closet?”

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One thing I had to get over quickly was that I could make over my closet without having to have it perfect. It’s easy to look at online closet transformations that include thousands of dollars, expert reconfigurations, fancy wood shelving and racks of gorgeous designer clothes on teak hangers and think, “I’m so far from that–why bother?” I’m working with what I have, but I did invest in several large bins as well as new hangers (I’m using the Huggable Hangers from Target). The plastic hangers were making me crazy, and I figured whittling down my clothes to 35 pieces would be a great time to start building a cohesive hanger collection.

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I began by taking everything–I mean everything–out of my closet which led to the realization that OH MY GOD, I AM A HOARDER. Even before I started putting clothes away to store, I collected three huge bags of clothes and shoes to donate and got them out of the house. Because my closet is the largest storage space in the house (we don’t have basements in Florida), I use it not only to store clothes but a place to keep my ironing board, vacuum, hats/mittens for up north, kid keepsakes, tote bags, camera equipment, etc. I did some hardcore organization on those items, and it feels so good! I also shared on Instagram how I store clothes my kids grow out of–the ones I want to save forever–in my closet (you can watch the Stories in my highlights on Instagram). Basically I save a few timeless favorites for grandchildren in one bin, and in another large bin, I store other favorites to be saved and made into a quilt for each child someday (I have one gorgeous baby clothes quilt made already that I’ll be keeping, as if my children want that one, they can pry it out of my cold, dead hands). Woven cottons quilt best, so anything that will work well in their quilt (I have a color/pattern scheme in mind), I put in the bin until I’m ready to send them away to Vintage Giggles for the magic.

On to the capsule selection. This is the Pretty Woman shopping scene part of the post which everyone knows is the best part of the movie (see also: Sex and the City closet scene). I found so many great things in my closet that I wasn’t wearing or had forgotten about and rekindled some major love for them once I took the time to try them on and match them up with other great but ignored pieces.

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I’ve always loved those magazine articles where they select 10 pieces and then show 30 different outfits you can make with them. This was my chance to do it in my own closet, and I had a blast with it–blared music in my bedroom, sorted through piles, matched up outfits, tried them on, walked the hallway runway for Brett and the kids, got votes and remembered how much fun fashion can be. I didn’t even realize I had a red pencil skirt…say what?

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Technically, the items you choose for your capsule include clothes, shoes and outerwear but don’t count pajamas, accessories, special occasion and workout clothes. So a neck bow doesn’t count (oh, we’d include it if it did). But the real question is, DOES A DICKEY COUNT? I tweaked this capsule for my own needs and ended up with 38 clothing pieces and 8 pairs of shoes.

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The Breakdown:

3 graphic tees (love Bando‘s tees). I love wearing these super casual with jeans but also pairing them with long skirts and pencil skirts or layering dressier blouses underneath them.
3 classic upscale neutral tees (to ground all the funky colorful stuff. I love Vince and Michael Stars fit and quality.)
10 blouses/shirts (a mix of Zara, Cooper & Ella, Gap, Who What Wear and Anthropologie)
2 sweaters  (one cardigan, one stripe–for some of these colder weather fronts we get this time of year)
1 blazer (one of my favorite most versatile pieces in my closet, this classic J.Crew Party Blazer)
1 jumper dress (basically a dress with suspenders, from Anthropologie–most favorite things I bought last year)
5 skirts (2 pencil, 1 flare, 2 long including this ASOS hot pink pleated midi skirt that I wasn’t wearing but love)
4 dresses (this Shabby Apple Rainbow Dress–works for casual, a classic J.Crew black dress and 2 printed Anthropologie dresses)
1 romper (even though I am constantly fighting the war on rompers in my head because of my long torso)
1 pair of shorts (I’ve never thought my legs look good in shorts, but sometimes in Florida, you have to succumb, especially at the beach)
1 pair of overalls (I always feel fun and creative when I wear them–they make me happy)
5 pairs of jeans/pants (my favorite go-to denim choices are Gap Super High Waist Corseted Black Jeans  and J.Crew 9″ High Rise Toothpick Jeans)

If I cheat on this capsule, it will most likely be with shoes, but I tried to pick a good variety to get me through both fashion and functionality challenges–classic J.Crew black heels (there’s nothing they don’t go with), my new Sutorial boots handmade in my cousin’s boot shop (going to give you a tour of this shop soon!), red Zara kitten heel boots, funky rainbow sneakers, black flats, t-strap clogs, Free People booties and a pair of sandals.

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Here’s the new space…it feels sooooooo good!

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Laundry can’t build up too bad, and empty hangers means time to wash clothes. I had more fun choosing what to wear today than I have in a long time (it felt like a whole new wardrobe!), and the best part? It’s inspired me to continue the organization and has uncovered some productivity that has been buried for a while.

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Have you tried a capsule wardrobe? Interested in attempting it but don’t know where to start? Share your thoughts, suggestions, challenges!

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Happy New Year Categorized Intention List

January 3, 2018 By Kelle

Somehow, it seems like Christmas was weeks ago, and in just the week since then, we’ve had a whirlwind of visitors that have kept us busy. Although I’ve never been one to hit the New Year with gung-ho enthusiasm or pressure to make resolutions (back-to-school seems to do that more for me), it does bring a push toward reflection and productivity. Some of the things I wanted to do this past week I haven’t been able to accomplish due to company (a wonderful problem to have–I love time with my people), so yesterday morning I straightened out some unrest and anxiety by sitting down and making a list of intentions for the year. I’ve found just creating time to write down the things on my mind relieves a lot of anxiety and is the first step toward actually getting them done. My list isn’t really specific resolutions (that list is much smaller) but more inspirations for when I’m feeling “slumpy” throughout the year. Keeping our bucket lists on display in our home this year has worked really well for helping me stay motivated and actually checking things off (we checked off almost every single thing we wanted to do from all three of our lists–summer, fall and holiday–this year), so I like the idea of keeping this list on display–near my desk or on the refrigerator to help my little easily-overwhelmed-and-often-distracted brain stay on track and accomplish bite-size pieces of productivity, balance and fun. And if I’m feeling like I’m in a slump in a particular area, it’s all categorized. The older I get and the more I understand myself and the way I work, the more I’ve realized I need categories and compartments for my carnival brain.

I hand wrote this list so I can add fun little illustrations, but so many of you asked for it on Instagram (after trying to take a screen shot and zoom in–ha, sorry!), I figured I’d write it out here if you’d like to borrow any of these and print them off.

I’ll be cleaning up some blog things here and refreshing this space with a new design this month, so stay tuned for more to come.

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And HAPPY HAPPY NEW YEAR! Onward we go, friends.

Be Present
Take a technology break
Read a book to the kids
Take a nature walk (leave phone at home)
Journal with pen & paper
Do a 5 minute meditation
Read a poetry book and highlight something meaningful (been loving this one on my coffee table lately)
Write a hand-written letter to a faraway friend/relative

Be Healthy
Floss every day
Carry a water bottle, keep it full and drink it frequently
Schedule annual doctor appointments
Say “No” to sugar
Alcohol only on weekend
Eat something green
8 hours of sleep

Be Active
Go for a run
Watch a 1/2 hour show while lifting weights/sit-ups
Lead the kids in a fun workout with music
Yoga/stretch session
Go for a bike ride
Take kids to tennis courts
Go for a swim
Attend a Saturday local boot camp workout

Be Social
Arrange a girlfriend breakfast
Meet a friend at Target and walk the aisles together
Text 3 friends randomly
Do an “I’ll bring you dinner some night/you bring me dinner some night” swap
Have a family over for dinner
Reach out to someone new
Organize a book club (even if it’s just for one book)
FaceTime a faraway friend

Be Creative
Keep a sketch pad by your bed
Have an art afternoon with kids and display the finished products
Paint a room a new color (be daring)
Make an inspiration board
Take an afternoon adventure to do some street photography

Feather the Nest
Change the bedsheets
Rearrange a room
Clean a bathroom
Organize a cabinet
Make the bedroom a restful haven
Buy a candle
“Turn down” the beds before everyone goes to sleep
Buy fresh flowers or eucalyptus and arrange small bouquets for display around the house

Be a Learner
Read a new non-fiction book (reading this one together with a friend right now–outside of my comfort zone–but fascinating and important)
Sign up for an online course
Watch a TED talk
Find a new informative podcast
Subscribe to an artsy magazine  (try UPPERCASE–pricey but ad-free and full of creative ideas and inspiration, CLICK for photography inspiration–I get giddy when I open the mailbox to see it arrived, FLOW–another pricey one but each issue is literally a full-blown book to be saved forever, or DUMBO FEATHER–an an inspiring collection of creative change-makers telling their stories)

Be Responsible
Clean out e-mail box
Unsubscribe to a retail company e-mail list that’s weighing you down
Cross off two to-do’s from your procrastination list
Put all upcoming appointments and school activities in phone calendar
Do a 20-minute sweep through the house/closets and fill one garbage bag with things to donate
Vacuum car
Fill up on gas
Get an oil change

Have Fun
Have a pillow fight before bed
Start a kitchen dance party
Wear a dress on a regular day
Jump on the trampoline
Plan a themed dinner party…for just your family
Try a new hairstyle

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Christmas Day

December 27, 2017 By Kelle

One of the greatest satisfactions of Christmas morning growing up was gathering all my opened presents into a big loot pile I’d just sit back and survey. Surrounded by wrapping paper shreds and a sea of shag carpet was my heap of treasures–the Cabbage Patch doll, the new legwarmers, the Kissing Coolers and Bonne Bell chapsticks all pushed into a pile that was mine. Before I even played with any of it, there was that moment amid the mess of Christmas morning that the simple sight of those gifts, arranged in a pile together, made me feel so lucky and loved and full.

Thirty years later, I sit on the floor of my living room next to a fire, second cup of coffee in hand. The sun has just barely risen, but the house is fully awake. Three piles of treasures begin to form amid scraps of wrapping paper, and I watch as my children gush over new Barbies and Legos and more glue to make slime. I slowly survey the living room and take in every bit of the scene–the way Brett gently calls “Hey Buddy” to Dash to distract him from opening his sisters’ presents, the chipped nail polish on Nella’s little fingernails as she carefully peels back the paper on her gifts, the ribbon Lainey tucked around her neck like a scarf, the dog asleep on the couch, my dad and Gary excitedly making over every little thing Dash holds up to show them, the music, the warmth, our home.

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This is my pile of gifts, this is my Christmas treasure, and though the greatest excitement of this morning is associated with childhood, nothing can compare with how lucky and loved and full I feel at this moment.

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Yes, the living room’s a mess, and yes this recognition of gifts comes with the pain that life is so very fragile and this scene will change every year, but for a moment, everything I love is pushed together into a pile in my mind, and I sit back and survey it and whisper a million thank-yous before I get up to refill my cup, grab a garbage bag, take a picture, wipe a nose, pull the sticky buns out of the oven. This...this is my favorite thing about Christmas.

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Looking back, a few scenes from our Christmas:

Making Florida snowmen Christmas Eve from frozen corn starch, shaving cream and peppermint oil.

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Our Christmas cake that Dash slowly devoured little by little every chance he had to sneak away and help himself.

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Baby of the family motto: Just give it to him.

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Christmas Eve bar with our signature drink “The Rudolph”: 1.5 oz Bourbon, 1 oz. fresh lemon juice, 3/4 oz. rosemary simple syrup, shaken and poured on ice. Garnish with rosemary sprig (and a cranberry Rudolph nose, suggested by Instagram followers who were clever to tie in that title).

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Dash wanted to address his own presents, and in true baby-of-the-family fashion, he wowed us with how many letters he can write on his own. My favorite for all my kids has always been their first capital “E” with, like, 19 lines coming out of it.

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Crossing off some of the last things on our Holiday Bucket List (taking it down, dating it and tucking it away in our keepsake drawer today)…

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Setting up our reindeer runway and sprinkling some treats for Santa’s reindeer…

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Milk & Cookies for Santa…

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Watching The Family Stone Christmas Eve, my favorite…

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Santa’s gifts waiting…

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Christmas Morning.

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The girls wanted “real baby” dolls, and Santa delivered. They played with them all day Christmas day and requested we pull out the old baby car seat from the attic.

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(Santa purchased this doll for the girls, for those who asked).

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(Palm Springs Playhouse from Land of Nod.)

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Lainey does not gush emotionally, so it meant a whole lot when she looked at me and said, “I can’t even tell you how happy I am this Christmas.”

My Christmas spirit may be a festive little elf for the month of December, but every year on Christmas Day, it goes into this deeply reflective place that–this year–had me crying in the bathroom. I feel too much–this is my burden to bear, and it does come with bonuses, so don’t feel too bad. “I don’t even know why I’m crying,” I told Brett. My sister recently likened this feeling to therapy dogs–a friend who had one said that on therapy days, the dog gets more exhausted than when he runs at the park. On therapy days, the dog soaks up the emotions of all those he’s around and loving, and that’s a lot to bear. Even when I tell myself “low standards” and “just chill” for Christmas day, I can’t help but feel so aware of how much I love the people I’m with and everything everyone is feeling–even if it’s all good–that I just go into therapy dog mode and soak up too many feelings and then fall into an exhausted heap Christmas night.

Loving people is so hard and so wonderful. And as much as I love Christmas, there’s a reason it only comes once a year.

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Taking this heap of gifts into the week as we continue to soak up family, feel grateful for everything this year has given us and move forward toward the new year…onward, my friends.

I hope you all had a wonderful holiday…wishing you more love into the new year. xo

Leaving you with my post on Instagram from Christmas night: Lying in bed with the girls as they fell asleep tonight, I heard the ghost of Christmas past…quiet little sobs: “I don’t want to go to bed, Mom, because when we wake up, it will all be over.” My mom reminded me today that I was exactly the same (and maybe still am ????)–cried every Christmas night growing up, so sad for the end of the anticipation. So I held Lainey’s hand and told her about the words that have become my anthem…There Is More. We are the keepers of the secret power of recognizing and creating celebrations among ordinary days, and that power lasts all year. Everything we love about this season is scattered throughout the rest of the year too–opportunities for gathering, music, giving and gratitude. How many sunsets will take our breath away this next year? How many nights will we fall asleep, feeling warm and full and loved? How many adventures await us? “There’s so much to look forward to,” I told her. “Let’s start tomorrow with a walk on the beach.” ❤️ Merry Christmas…there is more.

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