Last night, we swam at dusk. The sky was blue-gray and the clouds still visible behind the crescent moon that glowed a yellow Cheshire cat smile. Lainey is becoming more confident with her swimming abilities, and her deeper almost-four-year-old breaths now allow her to swim long distances underwater. Sometimes she misjudges what she’s capable of swimming, and the last yards of her course have her kicking faster, reaching farther and finally grabbing the edge of the pool wall and emerging with a deep and desperate inhalation. I know that feeling; I’ve been there both literally and figuratively. But then she smiles–and disappears again underwater, like a fish. A happy blonde-headed fish who wants to try again.
I am inspired by my girl. And I’m loving our family night swims. They complete my day.
Thank you for kind words and great suggestions last post (I ordered an amber teething necklace! We’ll see if it works). I am forever grateful for amazing readers, for how you helped raise $103,000 for my girl and her friends in this country, and for making something I already love to do even more rewarding. I am interested in and inspired by the way people connect.
Well, it’s Friday and, for something different, I’ll answer a few of your questions.
Photography:
I started out in photography taking a lot of bad pictures that I thought were really good. I look back at my old stuff and am half embarrassed and half excited for what I will learn in the next two years. I like when people jump into something they want to know more about, when they aren’t intimidated by technical stuff or by people who are doing fill-in-the-blank better. Many of you have commented that you just bought your first DSLR camera, but that you are not a photographer. Guess what? You are. If you are taking pictures, you are a photographer; if you are writing, you are a writer; if you are hitting “publish post,” you are a blogger. I am not afraid to take bad pictures, to publish fuzzy ones or to write something I might later regret. And I think this is the best advice I could give. Don’t be scared. If you love doing something, do it. Learn it, stand by it, put yourself out there. You will fail. But you will swim again…like a fish.
There are two sides to photography–the art and the technical stuff. I have always been intimidated by the technical stuff, but I have learned/am still learning by doing. The art part of it? It’s like oxygen to me.
I love the challenge of capturing feeling in photos, of finding interesting ways to compose a shot, of taking a picture of a moment that I’ll forever be grateful for capturing. I am not an expert. There are a lot of technically better photographers out there. But I am passionate about people who want to learn. Being intimidated by perfection or someone else’s art should never lessen the value of your own art. And photography is art. I take pictures like how I look at life, and I look at life like how I take pictures. It makes me happy, and if it will make you happy, then I’d love to help.
*My camera is a Canon 50D, and my two favorite lenses are my 50mm, 1.4 and my 16-35mm, 2.8. I only use natural light, and I usually shoot manually, most often between 1.4 and 2.8. Someday I will buy new lenses, maybe upgrade my camera to my 5D dream. But for now, I am content. Good pictures come from the passion and soul in the one who is taking them…not from the equipment.
Proof: I think this picture’s kinda pretty. It was taken with a $2 app phone camera, and it is of the front of a Walmart, Friends. A Walmart parking lot while I stood next to a cart that had a wadded napkin covered in stale ketchup wedged in its plastic lattice. See, you certainly can find beauty in unlikely places.
*Some days I take 10 pictures, some days I take zero pictures, and some days I take 100 pictures. My camera is not a permanent fixture, and I can bang off 50 shots in about two minutes if I want. I don’t put pressure on myself re: how and when I take pictures, and it is in that freedom that I’ve found a comfortable place where art, creativity, documenting, and real life in our family live harmoniously. If the balance is off, we do what everyone else does. We adjust accordingly.
*If I’m in a photo, it’s usually either Brett or Heidi who takes it. Plus, I love the look, the art, and the angle of one of those reach-out-and-take-it-yourself pictures.
I like hiding my smile when Brett picks up the camera and gets all into it–crouching, leaning, contorting his body to get a cool angle and then proudly grinning when he “gets it.” There is an artist within us all.
More humble photography tips to come.
Sponsors:
This post is a great opportunity to explain the presence of sponsors and my attempt at unobtrusively weaving them into our precious family blog. I enjoy writing on this blog but it does require time. It doesn’t always work out in life to get compensated for time, but in this situation it’s a nice bonus. Periodically introducing sponsors is a way I can help support my family, and it’s been very beneficial in helping some stay-at-home moms who make really pretty things amp up their businesses. You will never see ads for car parts or rifles–promise. I choose sponsors who offer things I think you’ll like–things my family likes. I try to keep sponsors and giveaways at the bottom of posts so that when you’re finished reading, you can choose to read on or smile and walk away. I hope you read on for the sake of some excellent businesses trying to stretch their roots. And I wish I could share the story behind a lot of these business owners. I’ve come to know many of them, and the stories of how their businesses got rolling are inspiring.
Heart banner, Lisa Leonard Designs new decor line.
A quote from a past sponsor, Lilian Eve Designs:
To stay true to myself I sponsored Enjoying the Small Things because it has real readers. Readers with heart, soul, understanding, and passion to appreciate the goodness in others’ lives. For me, I had an outpouring of support for my unrelenting creative mind–a mind that never stops whispering new ideas–and the readers embraced me. I distinctly remember, lugging my laptop in with me the day Kelle ran my ad–sitting in the waiting room while my poor nephew, the “bubble boy”, got his numerous allergy tests and my sleepy-eyed niece wanting to know what ‘Nene’ was doing on the ‘puter’. I had no idea if the sale ticker would move but I was ready:)… and it was off…I sat crying… to be accepted, to be wanted- to make things with my hands and create with my mind- and be this eccentric- teacher by day- longgggggggggggging to be mother by night. My sister still reminds me of that day. Perhaps my dreams will soon come true.
Lilian Eve Designs had over a hundred new sales that weekend, and many of you are still sporting Regina’s beautiful crocheted designs. So, thank you for supporting her.
If there’s one thing I like, it’s finding cool stuff for my home, my kids, myself that isn’t the same thing everyone else has, and through the sponsors, I’ve discovered new unique places for gifts and fun splurges. I hope you have too.
My Faith:
Someday, when it falls in place naturally, I will expand on my faith. Faith is very present in my life and yet it has evolved over the years to a more encompassing place of respecting everyone’s beliefs and learning from many different walks of life. I have a very faith-heavy past, and there are both treasured traditions and beliefs from the past I keep as well as pains and misconceptions of God I’ve worked to heal. Faith and religion are two very different things. I am religion-less, but faith–the grounding, comforting belief that I am smaller than someone else, that there is more to my life than my breath and body–is a very purposeful part of my life.
Brett:
There are a lot of beautiful stories from our past together and from how he has embraced both Lainey and Nella’s presence and personalities. The stories will come in due time…promise. (and the boys too! but they are busy teenagers and not always around like the girls are for picnics in the woods and building block towers. It is a moment of personal victory for me when I capture a moment with the boys, and I’m happy to share them when they happen)
Writing:
I love words. I love the art of finding good words, stringing them together and digging deep within to recall memories with vivid descriptions. I like a variety of writing styles, many that are different from mine, and reading a broad spectrum of writing genres helps me strengthen my own style. Like photography, there are two components of writing–the art and the technical. Again, the technical (grammar, structure, spelling) can be intimidating. The art though–the voice, humor, and emotion of one’s words–is what is most important. Sometimes, my writing isn’t that good. And sometimes, I love how it comes together. But I still keep writing–as freely and true to myself as I can be, because I do not write to be good, but to be happy. And, as with anyone in any endeavor, I get better at writing the more I practice.
If you want to write, I’d suggest reading Brenda Ueland’s If You Want to Write. It is incredibly inspiring and empowering.
One of my favorite excerpts:
“…it is the way you are to feel when you are writing–happy, truthful and free, with that wonderful contented absorption of a child stringing beads in kindergarten. With complete self-trust. Because you are a human being all you have to do is to get out truthfully what is in you and it will be interesting, it will be good.”
If you write, if you journal, if you blog…please keep doing it. It is your art, your style, and no one can tell you that it’s not good…no one but yourself, and you don’t have to listen.
I leave you with another excerpt from Brenda Ueland’s If You Want to Write:
“…when you write, if it is to be any good at all, you must feel free–free and not anxious. …I hate orthodox criticism. I don’t mean great criticism, like that of Matthew Arnold and others, but the usual small niggling, fussy-mussy criticism, which thinks it can improve people by telling them where they are wrong, and results only in putting them in straightjackets of hesitancy and self-consciousness, and weazening all vision and bravery. I hate it not so much on my own account, for I have learned at last not to let it balk me. But I hate it because of the potentially shining, gentle, gifted people of all ages, that it snuffs out every year. It is a murderer of talent.”
Don’t be snuffed out. Whatever it is you desire to do, find a way to do it. Write, create, take pictures, craft, mother, bake, dance, run…and do it happily, truthfully, and freely.
Monday’s back to regular posting.
Looking forward to sunshine this weekend.
LilianEveDesigns says
SHUT UP? Am I the first comment?
Beautifully done!
XO
Thanks for including me!
<3
The Coach's Wife says
your words and photos are beautiful and always a highlight of my days! Thank you for the sound advice to keep writing, keep blogging, no matter what anyone says about it. ๐ Happy Weekend!
celena10 says
Ok… good. I’m glad I thought that I was like crazy for taking like 100 photos of my kids in 1 day. I’m going camera crazy and I’m like a kid… a sponge where I want to absorb everything! Thanks for the words… NOw of to home to take 100+ pics and practice on my best models… the kids!
Adriana Iris says
have a great weekend…
Team Lando says
Love it. You give me hope that I might eventually use this whole write-blog thing to help support our family and maybe inspire a person or two.
twentyfifthyear.com says
I’ve never commented, but been a long time reader and share-er of your blog. Out of the hundreds I have read over the years, it is my absolute favorite. I’ve cried, laughed and looked at life differently than I EVER have while reading your posts. As a writer, a photographer and someone who can’t wait for the day I have my own littles to photograph, thank you. Thank you for being you, capturing life the way you see it, being open and free and limitless and wonderful.
Every photo, every word, they are all dripping with personality – with what I imagine YOUR personality to be like if I were just sitting having a cup of coffee with you. It’s so beautiful and one of the things in my daily life I look forward to the most.
Some days, I just come here, minimize the window and listen to your playlist. Some days I just come here and click around the “You might like” posts and get lost. Some days, I just marvel at your gorgeous girls and your soulful words.
Thank you so much Kelle, for just being here and sharing your life with us.
erickson family says
one of my favorite posts yet.
Sarah says
OH I love this….it would be so nice if you did this monthly or something:) happy weekend…Sarah
SMM says
Just wanted to say thank you for writing, thank you for taking pictures, and thank you for being YOU!!!
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Lucy says
It’s wonderful to get posts from you. It really is. It’s also really nice getting a little more insight as to who you and your family are, your thoughts and perceptions of things. I love the encouragement and the honesty you share. It was just what I needed today. Happy weekend!
Shirley says
Thank you for this.
JJ Keith says
I so wish I had read that last Ueland quote while I was in grad school. I’ve been out for a few years and I’m still trying to shirk the hesitation I learned from incessant critiquing.
Jen says
Every one of your posts leaves me wanting more. Thank you for that.
lauren says
inspiration comes in many ways… you have a gift. pure and sweet and true. it falls from your lips, onto this screen and fianlly into my heart. half the time i just sit there and think.. how does she know what’s in my heart? do i wear a sign that she can see? common threads.. and yu have away of picking htem up and naming them so that i recognize them. thank you so much. xox
Nicole says
As always touching words and gorgeous photography. I am quite impressed with how your four year old is so brave swimming under water. I am actually quite impressed on how you intertwine your sponsors within your post. I think it is perfect. Also, it’s very nice to hear how you are so freely you! It is a wonderful message to pass on. Thank you for your post today! I always look forward to reading.
melissa says
LOVE amber teething necklaces. it always becomes very apparent to me when i’ve forgotten to put it on my son. good luck!
Benay says
I LOVE Nella’s outfit (and smile) in the last photo. She is simply gorgeous!
sarah says
I’ve never been this early in the comment form!!! You’ve refreshed my snuffed out photography light! I got an awesome Canon EOS Rebel T2i for Christmas and have taken some great pictures but still don’t really know how to use the camera that well. I HATE reading instructions and directions, BUT I’m gonna keep on capturing my little ones every chance I get…pressure-on-myself-free! I look forward to more posts like this. I want to sit down over coffee and hear your whole life story! Dangit, I guess I’ll just have to wait until you keep posting. ๐ Thank you!
Stef says
I am religious-less too and proud to be so. I love God and I love the freedom I’ve found in my faith in Him.
Its boundless.
I loved this post. Thanks for the tips on photography and writing. Those tips helped me out more than I thought they would.
Also, thank you a million times over for the post on my blog… you’re my favorite blogger in the world {seriously} and so I screamed and giggled when I saw YOU posted on MY blog. Wow. I might be a bit too excited about it. But it meant a lot to me and brought a smile to what was an extremely difficult day. Thank you.
Amy says
I’ve commented 3 times, and each time I say “best post yet..” or “this really is my favorites” but they ALL are.. you are fabulous Kelle.. thank you for letting us into your life and encouraging all of “us” to be a better “us”. you rock girl!
Zeller Family says
I appreciate your honesty. It makes people more “real”. You are a very special writer – one that keeps us coming back for more. Happy Friday!
Loosy says
You are the good in the world. Thank you.
Posie Patchwork says
As always a beautiful, well written & photographed post (from the heart, way better than any professional learned type could do). Gorgeous weekend to you, love Posie
The Good Girl says
Thank you for writing this! I am 21 years old and I LOVE your blog. So much. Your pictures and your family are beautiful!!!! this particular post meant so much to me–I just graduated from NYU with a degree in acting, and am about to make the move to Los Angeles to pursue my dreams–thank you for the quotes you included from that writing book!!!! Beautiful!!!!!!!!! Thank you for writing!!!!!!!
Laura says
LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE
and Thanks!
tracyallegre says
I love that let your readers join in your story! Please more photo tips and tricks. Your angles, your colors…are beautiful. Your girls always make me smile.
A Cappelli says
My heart is all squeezed and I feel a little choked up at your beautiful post. It sounds so cliched- but illustrating (and writing posts to accompany my illustrations) for me is like breathing. It is something I must do to feel alive- but trying to make a living from it is so difficult and there are days when I feel my confidence in my work waver and wane. I don’t need to make money from my drawings (although I imagine that a steady income from it would feel wonderful)-but I do need to draw to feel alive. Anyway, this post reminded me, again, why I do what I do and why I keep plugging along even when the well feels dry. Thank you.
mrs.magoo says
You rock! ๐
Sarah says
Really, Really, Really enjoyed this. Very insightful and motivational. You make it all (photography, writing, motherhood)seem so easy and maybe it really is….
laurieg says
Thanks for this post Kelle! You inspire all of us to do what we love!
Leanne Scrapper says
You know I had your photos in my dream the other night, I woke up all inspired to take lots of photos! I was sitting in a cafe last night with my family berating myself for not having my camera handy for some random cute and happy moments that were happening…you are rejuvenating ๐
I don’t mind the sponsor posts, they are such cute little things that you find. Would love to see more technical info on some of your shots, def looking forward to your tutorial!
Thanks for sharing and have a great weekend ๐
Leanne, Australia
Dan says
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chanalesing@blogspot.com says
Hi Kelle,
Awesome post about creativity. I hope you got my song. It all rings so true!
Mandi says
That last picture of Nella just made my week – literally! Can’t help but smile ๐
Kat says
Sigh, you are so inspiring!!
I want to be able to take photos like yours, to capture my 4 children in all of the innocence and joy as you do.
I would love any tips you can give as I try to work on my photography.
I love the way you write and your encouraging and uplifting heart.
Your blog has become my favourite jolt of inspiration.
Thanks for that!
Kat says
Ps I too have a Canon camera, but it is not an SLR, as I cannot afford one yet.
Can I still take great pics on a Canon powershot SX10IS?
What settings should I be using to shoot? I want to move away from using the auto setting but often get blurred pics when I use the other settings. Help!?
Sue says
Thanks for this post! Everyday you let us look in on your life, but this post let us get to know you a little better!
Life with Kaishon says
Don’t be snuffed out. That is such good advice. Kaish and the neighborhood kids and I are making cupcakes tonight on this rainy and dreary spring night in Pennsylvania. Your post is brilliant as always. Thank you for sharing your heart and your love and your life. You are a beatiful person.
KWQR says
Thank you!
Absolutely loved this…
…but faith–the grounding, comforting belief that I am smaller than someone else, that there is more to my life than my breath and body–is a very purposeful part of my life.
Beautifully put.
Brenda Ueland, Natalie Goldberg & Kelle Hampton are my three favorite sources of inspiration on the beauty of writing.
Happy weekend!
xo
Kate
Louise says
Another lovely post.
Can I ask you something Kelle? What happened to Nella’s glasses? I ask because my 9mth old daughter may need glasses too due to farsightedness and I am wondering how on earth I will keep them on her face and what happened to our lovely Nella’s.
Kelle says
Louise, it’s in the FAQ, but Nella had a second opinion at Bascam Palmer Eye Institute shortly after her first appot. and they said her perscription is mild and doesn’t really need glasses. We go to Miami for follow-up next week, and hoping for same news as she wouldn’t keep glasses on her face now even if we duct taped them.
Peg says
I know you here it a million times a day, I look forward to your blog everyday, for the writing, the pictures, the tunes…I’m going through a rough time right now and your blog makes me think and puts a smile on my face every day. Thank you.
Peg
http://lifeofpeg-familyrocks.blogspot.com
Farmgirl Paints says
Uh this was perfect. I’ve wondered all those things about you, but didn’t want to bother you with questions. YAY! Some answers. I’ll have to get that writing book. I didn’t realize I loved writing until I started my blog. Now I HAVE to write or I just might explode.
I agree 100% that blogging is work. I haven’t delved into sponsors, but I do have an Etsy shop and that counts I think. I would love to see my site on your blog as well. If I sold 100 orders in one weekend I would have a heart attack. I stress…that’s what I do;)
Katie Lee says
Thank you for your insight about faith. It is exactly how I feel about my own faith, but I haven’t had the words until now. Would you mind if I quoted you?
I love the popsicle picture so much!
Paytonsmommy says
I love this post! I love taking pictures and I am determined to take just as many photos of my 2 week old as I did with my daughter. I love learning new tricks and techniques and can’t wait to learn more.
I would love to book recommendations, not that I have a lot of time to read right now but I love reading, that is what I am getting my masters in and always love to hear about good books.
Have a great weekend! Thanks for the inspiration.
Savannah says
I just need to say thank you… I’ve been needing to say it for so long but this definitely gives me the perfect timing. Thank you for motivating me, inspiring me and letting me know that it’s okay to just keep being me. I’m blooming where I was planted baby.
Thanks Kelle!
My Thoughts says
Thanks for sharing more of your heart, thoughts, family and life. I’m certain that your willingness to open up blesses and helps more people than you will ever know. (-: Enjoy the sunshine Kelle.
Miscellaneous Mommy says
You? Are. Awesome.
I love your blog, your photos and your words. When I see a new post from you appear in my feed I literally smile and whisper, “yes”.
Thank you for the joy you bring into my day and for inspiring me to keep on keeping on!
Erika says
what a great post, kelle! your blog is so inspiring! ๐ those are my favorite lenses, too!
ali caudill says
beautiful post. loved it and needed to hear every word… again. you are a gift.
Evelyn Louise says
Thank you…
shell says
I LOVE your dark hair in your self-portrait.
Bumblebee and Sophie says
Thanks Kelle for the encouragement to not be snuffed out…so often I quit because I feel I am not accomplishing the task, be it writing, photography, blogging, as well as so-and-so. Even my own expectations stop me in my tracks sometimes. I want to reach for my dreams and if I have to muddle my way to the fulfillment, then so be it.
Thanks!
Cindy
Kathleen says
Inspiring post. I’ve always wanted to become a better writer. To expand my vocabulary and express myself in words the way that I visualize things in my head. I purchased the book you suggested. Thank you for another great recommendation.
Dawn @ Musings from the Pigg Pen says
Kelle:
I often say “this one is my favorite post.” And then another one comes along. Kind of like after a championship game (where you usually hear it was the best game ever played…minus this year’s NCAA Basketball Championship…simply awful. Sorry…I digress). But this is right up there with my favorites. I am one of those who commented that I recently got a really nice Canon XSi and photoshop CS3 for Christmas. I took a mediocre online class and still get intimidated by both taking the pictures well and editing (which I haven’t attempted yet). But, cheesy I know, I felt like this post spoke to me. I am a photographer…I am a blogger. I might not be the best one but I enjoy it and want to keep honing my craft and creative outlet. Thank you for reinspiring me.
Louise…if you check the comments again…I’d be more than happy to talk to you about glasses. My son has worn them since he was 10 months old (he’s 16 months now). He also has a mild prescription but has to wear them because of that (he also has a birth defect in both eyes). We’ll find out in October if they are working. Anyways, if you read this, you can email me at dawnpigg@gmail.com. I know I had lots of questions and not a lot of people to ask so I’m happy to help in anyway.
Anyways, thanks again, Kelle! I really enjoyed today’s post. It offered a glimpse of a side of your family we don’t always see, even with your beautiful writings.
Emma Kay says
You are such an inspiration Kelle. Even when you’re getting all technical and business-like, you still manage to fire up my belly. Oh, and I’ve finally met my inner badass, and her name is Millie (named after Mildred Loving – cause I like the sweet badasses).
Smooshie says
Thank you for this post – it’s nice to have a glimpse into your life in a new way. Your words about writing come at a perfect time for me. I’ve been “writing” a novel for over two years, yet with two kids I don’t have the time I’d like to dedicate to it and when I do sit down I’m filled with doubt about whether or not it’s any good, and I tend to not make much progress. You’ve reminded me that as long as it’s honest and I get the story out in a truthful way, it’ll be great. Great timing for this advice, as I have tonight free and both kids are fast asleep already.
andrea says
Love the FAQ. You should definitely incorporate it into the blog. Would love to know more about how you met Heidi
Jenn says
another one of my fave posts! I look forward to reading your blog everyday and check in often! Thanks so much for sharing all your insite, writing and gorgeous pics!
Lisa and Jeff says
Wow…reading this was a little eerie, to be honest. I have only commented twice, and I just started reading your blog a little over a week ago.
This week, for me, was spent thinking and agonizing over the fact that I want to “really” write. I have always loved writing, and have always felt that I have a bit (a bit) of a knack for it. I have been thinking a LOT over the past few days of trying to do something with writing because I love it and am passionate about it. However, the insecurities always creep in, and I realize I am kidding myself because I’m not “a writer.” But, you are right…it’s not about that, it’s about how writing makes me feel. It’s a release, a haven, therapy.
Thank you for writing this today, of all days. ๐
Aimee aka "Mommy" who writes our family blog says
Thank you for your words of wisdom on photography. I loved it when you said it didn’t matter what equipment you had, you could still be a photographer. I would love to be able to invest money in this beautiful hobby someday, but like the fact that I can still be passionate and capture the shot-calling myself a photographer.
Also, we seem to have a few similarities…
Firstly, we both seem to have a love affair with red shoes! I’ve spotted you and your girls wearing them from time to time, and I swear I have been magnet-drawn to them since my childhood. Love it!
Secondly, I couldn’t agree with you more on religion vs faith. I find it very important for us all to educate ourselves more on other religions, because they have more similarities than differences, and we should all have open minds and open hearts to other points of view.
Thank you for doing what you do, your blog always puts a smile on my face ๐
karlamcurry says
Loved the excerpts from “If You Want to Write,” and will look for it at my library. I have been journaling/blogging for years, but often felt disappointed for lack of an audience (if no one comments, it must not be “any good,” right?
Now, I write mainly for myself – but if can inspire someone, even better! Even if I just have a recipe or healthy tip to share, it feels good to process that information and get it out into words.
I enjoy regularly keeping up with your journey, but don’t always get around to commenting. Just want to let you know I visit all the time!
Beautiful pictures, as always. And I wish I could buy something from all your sponsors! I love supporting handmade artisans, especially mamas looking to help support their families. I tried Etsy, but couldn’t afford the listing fees. *sigh*
Kasandra says
I’ve been following for a few months and just today looked at your first posts. I have to say that I liked the short do but I totally dig the long dark locks! My 30th bday is coming up this year and your thirty post made me smile. My boy and Nella are around the same age and I love that you feel what I feel. Cheers to you and your honest, inspiring blog!
xo xo from a Canadian reader!
lynxymama says
extremely inspiring post kelle, thank you!
my first ever out of college job was an internship with graywolf press which published “if you want to write” for years. i am so happy to find another kindred who was touched by that book.
theenglishgirl says
My turn to share…
We took in a beautiful day in an amazing garden, swimming in the pool with our 16 month old boy Gibson.
There was a balcony encased in blooming jasmine, scenting the breeze to perfection. Right there and then, I snuck off, rolled out a yoga mat and practiced, bikini and all!
Breath in jasmine, breath out. Bliss!
Hiding round the corner was this:
http://tinypic.com/r/2rdu6og/7
Nature at its finest, captured with my little old point and shoot.
๐
Happiness is... says
I’m adoring:
-Nella’s growing locks
-That last shot of Lainey
-The poignant quotes from Brenda Ueland.
-That you wear your heart out there on your sleeve.
One question related to one of your sponsors – what do you think about your Silhouette cutter? I’ve been longing to get one for some time and they’ve made some juicy improvements (Mac compatible/cuts through material now). I’m a font junkie and I love the opportunity that I can use ANY font to create all sorts of crap.
Any thoughts are greatly appreciated. I just bought Lightroom today, so I have to space my next toy accordingly!
Happy weekending.
-Jennifer from Annapolis
Kelly says
I love how Nella is looking less like a baby and more like a little girl. Where has the time gone?
Thanks you for this post!
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I teared up a little while reading this. Your blog is full of what I want to do, and you are so inspiring. Thank you.
Ericka Schapekahm says
I’m currently suffering from blogger identity crisis. Thank you:) Just what I needed to hear, when I needed it.
Kirby Johansen says
you could write almost anything and I would be there reading it. I feel such a connection to you and look forward to Mondays, Wednesday and Friday post. Happy weekend.
Katie (Mama May I) says
This was really inspiring. Thanks for taking the time to share. ๐
Mom Fashion World says
I enjoy reading your blog.
You have beautiful pictures!
Christy says
You’re just dripping with integrity! You are so good for women.
You are so good for me.
xxo
Erica says
I’m in love with this post. A little boost of confidence for me and I can proudly say “I am a writer.” I’ve just self-published my first book and grown in my blogging. I look forward to your new posts and look forward to many more. Hope you have a sunshiney weekend!
Kara says
I love, love, love this post. You are such an empowering person on so many levels, and I love how much that came through in this post! Beautiful!
Andrea says
Thank you! I needed that tonight- feeling your words somewhere deep in my soul.
Mary says
I love what you said about not letting anyone snuff you out, you touched a soft spot there. I love to journal, and I stopped for a while but when I am done writing this I am off to pick up my pen and journal again. Thank you Kellie for helping me get my mojo back!
Emily Robertson says
Thanks for the inspiration! I will keep on writing and taking my fuzzy pictures and loving every second of it!
Ellie says
Thanks Kelle,
I write and try to take photos so your inspiration is good, nah, great. Thank you.
Nettie says
Kelle,
I am in love with the last picture of Nella…That smile is infectious.
Thanks for the inspiring words but you always seem to bring that in your posts. You are so positive and such a role model for us mommas.
Thanks for the photography tips. I am looking forward to more of them.
happygirl says
I’m getting the book you recommended. I need to get more confident in my writing for my blog. I feel intimidated by some of the really good writers on blogs I follow. Thanks,
just jen says
o, how i aspire to write a F.A.Q to my little world that is even a smidge as interesting as yours….
happy weekend. soak up the sun. and at sunset, o, i hope you grab that man of yours and dance barefoot in the tall, tall grass…
big love, groovy girl.
Jaclyn Hicks says
Life is about finding something we love and doing it well….whatever that may be. I wanted to become a children’s book author, and I did. I didn’t do it for the money or for the glory, I did it because I wanted to. I was driven to. Keep writing sister. It’s awesome.
Rojas Family says
Love this post. Love the little insight on you and your family.
I love hearing peoples love stories, so…..How did you and Brett meet? Maybe this will be a FAQ you answer one day. ;o)
Tracy says
I’ve had a really rough last few days and you honestly just put a smile on my face. Thanks ๐
Dreaming about the 5D puts a smile on my face too but then I realize it will probably be a long while before I get one, lol
dig this chick says
Love your confidence and humanity, both strong and fragile. It’s why people tune in here.
Someone once commented on my blog that writers love to hate writers and it so bummed me out. Perhaps it’s true with some BUT with MANY it isn’t. With many, they find inspiration and betterment and fulfillment from others doing wonderful things.
x
Alicia says
this post was perfect…i love learning what makes another mama tick ๐ i also didn’t realize how much i loved writing until i started my blog…i actually thought i was a crappy writer til i started doing it…now i feel like it gets better as i go.
blogging/writing/etsy-ing all takes courage…weird as that sounds. i started a shop in october and i am SO glad i took that step ๐
Chelsea Earnhardt Plax says
Beautiful, thoughtful and inspiring as always. Thank you for sharing your family and life with us. You make me want to do and be better!!
Maryna says
I could never quite find the right words to describe how I feel about religion..You found the words for me Kelle..
“Faith and religion are two very different things. I am religion-less, but faith–the grounding, comforting belief that I am smaller than someone else, that there is more to my life than my breath and body”
I could of said that..right to the point…if I could write …lol
Jennifer says
“Someone else’s art shouldn’t lessen the value of your own art.” You couldn’t have said it better! I am a musician and it took me a long time to learn this. Sometimes when I would listen to “professionals” play, I would get so discouraged. But I have learned over the years that just because I am not as good as they are doesn’t mean I am bad. I love to play my flute and nothing is going to stop me from doing it!
Thanks for another great post Kelle!
jj says
Thank you for allowing us all to see a bit more of you and your life… it is truly a privilege.
I now understand about the frequent giveaways — and will read about them with a new understanding of how they benefit not only your family, but the artists as well. It is nice to think that you receive some compensation for bringing your reader friends so much joy.
With sincere appreciation for such a thoughtful follow-up post to the suggestions and questions.
xx
Kristen says
Thank you for sharing so much of you and your family!
tjennings says
It is so true that so many times our fear holds us back and keeps us from our true passions. Fear of failing is probably one of my ‘worst’ traits… I’m a born perfectionist. I keep a journal, but even there, I find myself ‘editing’ for fear of judgement from whoever will inherit my journal when I pass (ridiculous isn’t it?). Thank you for being so bold. Just this evening I was telling my fiance about you and your blog and how it brings me so much joy, inspiration and courage. I too am a lover of photography and writing and so to read your honesty, makes me feel like I could put my own out there and maybe it too would be accepted with as much love. I hope you and your lovely family have the most amazing weekend and I look forward to your photography lessons whenever they are ready for viewing ๐
Isabella's Mommy.... says
Thanks for the photography tips. My husband is great at taking pics, me, I’m not that good, but trying. You’re a great inspiration – thanks for that!
Cameo's Angels says
Ahhh I loved this blog entry!! I needed this today (as with most of your other blogs). I love your willingness to share because we all need inpspiration and you my friend are GREAT INSPIRATION!! I love what you said about religion and faith…so true….and right where I am right now in my life. Thanks for sharing. Happy weekending!!
Meghan says
Love! Just LOVE your blog… but this last post was perfectly timed for me… Have a beautiful weekend with your even more beautiful family. And, please, keep sharing and inspiring us.
john says
I got amber teething necklaces for my twin girls. They love them and they make a huge difference! Glad you got some too. http://howdidthishappen-sarahandjohnroberts.blogspot.com/2010/12/christmas-gift.html
Christina says
BEST. POST. EVER. I just bought a DSLR in January and like you, I am intimidated by the techie stuff, but love the art. I have a basic Canon Rebel xTi, but I love the way it caputes the beauty of my subjects (my 4 kids!) Especailly the radiance of my sweet Violet (who alos happends to have DS). Thank you, thank you, thank you for your tips and keep them coming…PLEASE!
C & O Mummy says
Thank you for the photography pointers! You have inspire me to create more pictures of my girls… I will be forever grateful! I actually look forward to reading about sponsors, and checking out their sites. I recently bought two sun hats for my girls from le la la (I chose the one Nella was wearing, blue with the white flower) My girls look irresistibly gorgeous in them, great for pictures! I also like to support stay at home Mum’s like me, we are a special breed.
Jannice says
Thank you for taking the time to share so much! Have a great weekend…can’t wait to read your next post!
Tracy says
thanks for this post. Sometimes i need to remind myself to be just that; myself.
Lovely ballerina picture. I kept scrolling up to see it again. (:
Carissalayla says
Thanks for writing and sharing, I love it!
Kristin says
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littlebitsept09 says
I loved this post! What a fun post! Thanks for expanding on some of those things that are “you” at your very core! Definitely creates a small window into your outlook on life. It’s strange to feel like I’m getting to know someone who knows nothing about me, but I really have enjoyed reading your thoughts. They have helped me through my two years of parenting my sweet little boy.
And I definitely love your sponsors. I think I’ve ordered from 4 of them to date!
sarah says
You. Are. So. Lovely!
๐
sarah in canada
Peeper says
I just wrote this long comment and then I deleted it all. I’ve commented a handful of times but I’ve kept it pretty superficial. Here is what I want you to know:
From you I am learning about the mother I want to be and the mother I *wish* I had.
My mother did the best she could with the tools she had to work with. I’m so proud of her for all that she did manage to achieve from literally nothing. Even still, she was more-often-than-not despondent and depressed. As a kid, I was more-often-than-not lonely. I spent most of my adulthood swearing I wouldn’t have children.
Now that I have a daughter I am not always sure what to do with her. Love her like a lunatic, yes. Beyond that? It is often a mystery and I spend a lot of our time in well-worn paths and flying by the seat of my pants.
I once heard an author describe her mothers relationship to her. She said that her mother regarded her like a goldfish in a bowl: every now and then she would tap on the glass to make sure she was still alive.
I don’t want my daughter to remember us like that but I don’t have a great example to draw from. That’s where you (and Nici and others not relevant to this forum) come in. I love reading vivid descriptions from mothers who really freaking love mothering. We don’t do it the same way – my reality is different from yours, both are good and right. But the important thing is that I see something different from what I knew – for that, I hope that my daughter will know something different too.
So, thanks for the pep talk. I will continue to take flawed pictures and write an anonymous dinky blog. It does make me happy. It also provides a tangible foundation for my daughter. Someday many years from now she will be able to read her own history and I hope it brings her comfort and understanding.
Little says
Kelle,
I’ve never commented before….I’ve been reading since Nella’s birth story and was “hooked” from the very start. I am the mommy of 9 ~yes 9~ I am blessed beyond words and I love being home with my blessings trying to capture every precious moment of life; because if I don’t try to capture it in my mind, heart or on camera it will just pass by never to be seen again. I don’t get out very often with the girls….but I do very often come to “Enjoying the small things” and I come away feeling like I’ve been over to a friends house. This is a bit weird since we’ve never met and there are nearly 100 posts given with so many who feel this way…so I am just one of many who has been touched by your God given talents. I love your open door, your welcoming smile of words. I wasn’t going to write anything, but what you wrote under -leave your comment- just got me, there have been so many times you have given me a smile…maybe my comment will give You one!
Friends, Sandy
Sarah says
i am always so excited to check out the sponsors on your page. you can always see the heart of the women who make them.
and i love the quote about stale criticism and cynicism snuffing out budding talent. inspires us to push beyond our fears of not being good enough for others or ourselves.
the girls are gorgeous as always!!
Micaela says
Good advice. All things I need to keep in mind. You are fabulous.
Danielle says
Yet again you have inspired me. I always look forward to reading a new post from you. I truly enjoy baking, but I fear the failure of trying something new so I keep putting it off. After this feel good post of yours, I’m thinking it’s time to. Please keep writing and encouraging like you do!
Tina says
Oh Kelle… thank you, SO much. I’ve recently had doubts about my blog after some negative feedback from an acquaintance (because I wrote a brief paragraph about breastfeeding my daughter?!)and this post makes me feel soooo much better. When you said “If you write, if you journal, if you blog…please keep doing it. It is your art, your style, and no one can tell you that it’s not good…no one but yourself, and you don’t have to listen.” I almost cried in relief… it’s so totally me. I blog for myself, not anyone else, because I want to document my daughters and our life together as they grow up. I also post my thoughts and experiences on my blog so my close family and friends can keep up with our busy lives; unfortunately some people who read it do not necessarily mean well towards me and my family. I sincerely find you to be ridiculously inspiring and I thank you for being my outlet for relief, inspiration, and comfort!
You girls, as always, are beyond lovely. You can see Brett’s love for his girls radiating from him in each and every photograph you capture; he is so obviously head-over-heels in love with his daughters. It’s only logical that his sons are equally wonderful and captivating. You truly have an remarkable, endearing family.
Thank you for doing what you do, Kelle. That Nella was truly sent to you as a gift, not only so you could enjoy her forever, but so that your astounding talents and wonder could be shared with the rest of the earth. You are incredible!
liling t. says
You’re such an inspiration. ๐
Little Muse says
thanks kelle! as well as answering some of the questions so many of us might have, your advice on inspiration was just what i needed to hear at the moment. I love your last quote from Brenda Ueland as well. Very wise!
Lisa says
Not that I ever expect anything different from you but I’m glad you are remaining true to yourself. That’s why we are all here.
Because this is a blog we probably wont know as much about you as we wish we could. Unless of course you really piss off a friend and she has a tell all. Even then, I bet the stories would be good.: )
You said something in this post about fear and how it can drive us. Funny, when I was in HS I had a little clipping on my door that read “don’t let your fears stand in the way of your dreams.” I didn’t live it though.
My husband and I recently made the decision (4 months ago) to leave the place we had called home since our childhoods to follow a dream and move closer to nature and in a smaller community for the benefit of our children and ultimately the family. It was exhilirating! A dream had come true. I didn’t let the fear of the unknown get in the way. I am hoping to reclaim more of my spirit here and look for more ways to suck the marrow out of life as you say. It feels great and I’m not sure I would have taken the leap if it wasn’t for the inspiration I receive from your blog. The book “A Million Miles In A Thousand Years” became like the bible to me after reading it. Thank you.
So point is, just keep up the good work and with luck we (this blog community) will do the same.
Cheers,
Lisa
Jane@flightplatformliving says
what an inspirational post! thankyou thankyou thankyou, that is one hell of a way to start my day! i am off now to run, take pics, write and craft and love my kiddies with your words in my soul…i think its going to be a good day. love and hugs jane xxx
*mae* says
I truly love your blog and how you welcome each of us into your home and your family thru your photos. Thank you for this post – for inspiring everyone to continue writing even if we are not as good as you with words and expressing them. Thank you for being an inspiration yourself to every mom – in every country and city – no matter where we live. We are all so touched and inspired by your wonderful family and your story.
Olivia says
Thank you! Your push and inspiration is exactly what I’ve been needing to hear. Thank you for being you, you inspire me so much when it comes to writing, my son and photography, you have such a kind soul Kelle and I’m so thankful I found your blog so long ago. I always read your words with a smile ๐
abbey bernardi says
oh i loved all of it!! beautifully balanced and fun like always!! before i read your blog tonight i wrote mine and i thought it was cool we both talked about failing : ) always makes me feel good when someone relates. i loved the part about faith, it helped me figure mine out a little better. xo happy weekend
Keshyra says
Wow, this post came at just the right time for me! It was like an affirmation to a conversation I had earlier today. I was talking to a fellow mommy blogger friend of mine and I was telling her how starting my blog has been good but I don’t really know if I’ll keep it going. I was doubting myself and I know it’s easy for me to give up on things if I find it too difficult or I get discouraged. She was so supportive, and told me how she’s liking what I’m doing and that I am a good writer. I never ever thought of myself as a writer before, but I guess she’s right. I am a writer. I’ve taken this animal on and I will continue, I won’t give up and I will believe in myself. Sometimes in your journey through life you really need those signs that point you in the right direction and I had two today, a conversation with a good friend and a great post by an inspiring writer/photographer/mommy blogger whose blog I just adore. Thank you so much.
heather says
I am loving the idea of photo tutorials. You have a natural eye for the art of photography and I think you’re technical knowledge is pretty kickin’ too! I would love to hear any advice you have for us amateur photogs.
Thank you for your words. They lift and encourage all of us. You are a gift, Kelle!
xo.
Jen says
Loved this post. A glimpse into how it all comes together! Thanks.
I recently started a very basic beginner photography class to really learn how to use my camera like it’s meant to be. Can’t wait to put it all together a little better! As always, love your photos and creativity!!
My Secret Rooms says
Heavenly.
Thanks. I feel empowered by your fabulous words and feelings, for that I send a huge “thank you ever so much”!
I relly love this blog and all that you pour into it.
It’s a sunny, beautiful day in Scandinavia today and I sure will capture it with the camera, as always.
Up to now I’ve always only shot with love (no technical skill) and will continue ’til, one day, I’ll have time to learn the technical stuff….!
I wish you a wonderful weekend!
/A
Deb says
Love your blog! x
p.o.s.h. says
Starting a blog this past year has been a different kind of communication to get to know and love. My husband and I have a travel blog…he does the writing and I provide the pics. We’ve done so to include those we have left at home with we live in the UK and explore Europe. It has been amazing but it’s over in 6 weeks. Not sure what will become of it but I think we might keep it for the rest of our adventures even if they are just digging in the dirt, going camping in the hills of TN, or bringing our future children into the world.
Thanks as always for your wonderful words. Your blog inspired me to do a few “publish posts” of my own ๐
adriel, from the mommyhood memos says
Thanks for a great post. I love hearing your perspective on writing and photography and I very much feel the same. I’m so glad there is a medium for people like you (us!) to share your gifts! It’s also nice to read a little about your perspective on faith and family. Thanks for sharing. xx
Jule says
I was wearing my Lillian Eve necklace today! As always i got a lot of comments on it, my daughter wore her head band yesterday and I had people asking me where I got it from. I love your sponsors, I’ve brought a lot from them and have loved everything I’ve received.
I just love this blog xx After having lived here for 10 years your orange post inspired me to go to the local apple orchards (in Australia so they are in season). The kids have loved it and we are eating some amazing fruit!
Katie Stratton says
oh my oh my, did i ever need to read this. i’m tucking every bit of it in my pocket to remember throughout the day.
thank you so so much for sharing.
<3
aprilanecdotes says
The sunlight is filtering into my Ohio kitchen, the boys are playing Wii together and I just read your fantastic post. I loved the quote at the end about criticism…putting them in straightjackets of hesitancy and self-consciousness, and weazening all vision and bravery. This applies to all areas of life! Off to buy flowers and get ready for birthday #2 party tonight. susan
haveFaith says
Ohh I liked this. One thing that really touched me was how you described your Faith. So beautifully. I feel the same way, and many people have told me that because I don’t attend church, I haven’t finished the bible, that I can never believe in anything other than myself. If I feel something, oh and how strongly I feel it, I firmly believe it is there. If my knee hurts, it hurts, and therefore MUST be there. If I feel God’s presence guiding my life, loving me and helping me through this journey, he is certainly there. My middle name isn’t Faith for nothing.
This was very nice. I feel like it gives hope to those who don’t have as much confidence as others, and maybe the self confidence you have can motivate someone else. It also gives us more insight to you, although we know how loving, creative and awesome you are, but it just helps to get more information on who’s behind the beautiful blog.
I think it’s great you want to give back to your readers by posting things they might be interested (this FAQ for instance) I think it shows how much you cherish this blog. Let me just say that the sponsors are always welcome & I will always know that something you try hard to work on, like this blog, comes with a price. That price is time, and as a mom you don’t always have it. So if the sponsors help, keep posting them! They’re beautiful sponsors anyway. (:
Have a great weekend!!
Anna says
Thanks for another great post Kelle. And yay to getting the amber teething necklace, it’s wonderful. My 7 month old has it on constantly (usually around her foot in a sock so she doesn’t eat it!) and its been great, she barely fusses at all. I hope sweet Nella feels a difference!
TRB Holt says
“Faith and religion are two very different things”…..I JUST had this discussion with a friend the other evening…We were talking about the many forms of religion and how not all religion pertains to God. I love that you said this…
xo, Bug & Ruby’s Gram
jennymariee says
I very recently started a blog. To document my girls’ lives. And yet i’ve felt nervous about posting. Why would anyone want to read about my boring life. Thank you for reminding me that I started it for me and my daughters!! And hopefully now I can get back to itwithout feeling so nervous.
jen says
thanks for sharing this. i just alluded to you in my last post. and i want to thank you … because i think you … in these past three years and some odd months (can you believe the girls are about to be four? gah!) of reading … have inspired me to do more with my life which has lead me to live my life more.
with your occasional encouragement … i started a photography business. (i still can’t believe that people find my art beautiful enough to hang upon their walls). and i keep on writing.
so … thank you.
from far away … thank you.
Colleen Renee says
๐ again, thank you!!
The Williams says
So glad that I stumbled upon your blog a few months ago! Each of your posts inspires me to capture every moment.
Jenn says
Holy Bananas did I need to read this today! I have been pondering moving forward with my creativity and have felt so self conscious and stifled. Thank you for giving me a hand up! Happy Weekend ๐
Picture Parables says
How weird is it that when I saw this blog posting, I thought of you, and I’ve never met you!
http://ofloveandbeauty.blogspot.com/2011/03/finding-time-to-create.html
UrbanCountryMom says
Thank you for this post. I needed the kick in the butt. I’ve been wanting to get a different camera (Canon or Nikon) and try my hand at photography. But I’ve been too scared to do it. That’s just silly now, isn’t it?
Molly says
Lovely. I also recommend Annie Dillard’s “The Writing Life.” Phenomenal, short read that made me want to write.
pakosta says
there is just something about you, the honesty, the raw, the real, the acceptance of others, you are “good people” as they say….
love your blog!
I keep a journal for each of my girls, I LOVE to write. I don’t think I am good at it, but I love it just the same! thanks for encouraging me to keep writing!
tara
Sarah says
Great post! Love, love your blog!
Kelly says
I realize this post may or may not have been emotional for others it was very much so for me. I’ve recently taken up photography with a new DLSR camera and while I have no clue what I’m doing, I’ve been able to caputre incredible moments. Your pararaph about taking pictures made me cry….I need to believe in myself more than I do at times and you said it perfectly – “no one can tell you that it’s not good…no one but yourself, and you don’t have to listen.” Thank you – thank you for saying that so believingly.
kk says
i am so inspired by your words and photos. thank you so much for sharing your passions! i have a strong desire to explore photography now and it’s all because of your beautiful photos.
Bearden 365 says
Thank you. I am a photographer hobby gal–it sparks my creativity and I have loved it since my first polaroid was given to me in 1987! Yet I often feel intimidated, and yesterday I read on FB for the 1000 time, one of my “real” photographer friends posted “Just because you own a camera doesn’t make you a photographer.” Your words were the EXACT opposite of that, and your words were the truth. I’m a therapist but I don’t go around telling everyone just because they talk it doesn’t make them a therapist!! I will focus on the positive thoughts that are out in the world, like yours, because creative is creative. And it makes me happy, even if I am not a “real” photographer.
C and J says
Thank you for the inspiration. I tested out my brand new DSLR Nikon this morning in our little girls room, snapping photo of headbands and pink frilly dresses, her crib etc and even though those photos may not be the best, they are amazing to me. They may not hold a spot in anyone else’s heart but they will forever mean something to me. They represent the love and anticipation we have for our impending arrival and all that she means to us. I am a photographer!
Sherri says
Well Kelle, you have done it again. I have been feeling uninspired for weeks…after reading this post I’m going to my blog & I’m going write. Thank you, friend. Love the picture of Nella, & Brett with the book!xo
Jolene - EverydayFoodie says
One specific thing that I find always makes your photos so beautiful is the colour! You dress your girls so colourfully and bright and I love that ๐
Brian and Jamie says
Wonderful post, wonderful photos as always. Where did you get your girls’ headbands in the popscicle picture?
Mama Marchand says
I needed to hear EXACTLY what you said in your “don’t be snuffed out” paragraph. Thank you. I’m on the cusp of some serious life decisions and that spoke to me. ๐ Beautiful art!
Noan says
Oh, what a beautiful post. I had to run and get my writing journal and copy that final Ueland quote into it! Thank you for being such a consistent source of inspiration. I am sure that there are many people out there who are creating art today because of you. Nameste girlfriend ๐
Katy says
Thanks for the F.A.Q. ๐
Tonya says
I love this post! I agree, when there is something you want to learn to do, you should just do it. You will make mistakes, but you will also learn so much from those mistakes! It is all worth it to learn. I have done this with knitting and sewing and will continue to do it with photography! Anyway, as long as I like what I have made, who really cares what anyone else thinks!
Thank you for addressing the faith question. I so completely agree that faith and religion are too completely different things! I guess what I am seeing is that most *religion* is terrible and damaging; however, faith is beautiful and uplifting. Finding the balance in my life is an ongoing thing, I want my children to grow up with a positive relationship with God, not a scary one that tells you God is up there with a big stick just waiting to strike you down for every small infraction. I have learned to despise *rules*!
Oh, and I hear you about teenage boys! I have two of them, and they are always doing something and not really up to having pictures taken : D Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us!
Amie says
I love how you find something you love and throw yourself at it. From photography, to gardening, to writing. You take the good with the bad and share it all with us, and for that I am grateful. I think you’re a very real example of being a mom and doing the things you love. Have a great weekend. xo
Ashley says
You rock my socks. That is all.
Kmarie says
I feel that way about writing too. I loved those inspiring morsels:)
The Dimas Family says
Kelle as usual you are inspiring and somehow have managed to post exactly what I’ve been thinking and feeling and exactly what I needed to hear. “Don’t be snuffed out.”
At times I get so caught up in staying on top of the housework and my job and bills and trying to keep my constantly stressed-out husband happy(which is impossible all the time, of course, no matter how awesome a wife I could ever be)- that I wind up flopped on the couch watching mindless TV to close out my day. I have come to realize that instead of zoning out in front of TV, I could be doing something else that is still relaxing AND re-energizing. I love to create- music, food, scrapbooks, my little private blog that exists mostly to keep long-distance friends and family in touch. And I love to read and I love to run. I’ve started, slowly, to do more of these things instead of watching TV and it IS re-energizing!
I think I’m going to read the Brenda Ueland book and start to journal and see where that leads… thank you again Kelle for inspiring and pushing me to be a better, more whole person who really sucks the marrow! It’s the kind of person I want to be, and the kind of person I want my girls to know as their mommy.
Maureen says
Beautiful! Thanks for sharing… I absolutely love how your girls dress!
ayshamartin says
Thanks for posting this; so much great information and inspiration. I hope you keep introducing us to your sponsors because I have bought a few really cool things thanks in part to you.
Happy weekend Kelle! ๐
Kelly Cach says
Sooo glad you explained the sponsors bit! Seriously, I was choked up reading about LilianEve Designs…..sweet girl. I cried for her and I don’t even know her…and never would have known OF her had it not been for your blog. I think I have the gifts of mercy and encouragement. I have such tenderness for people in general, and am soooo happy when they succeed.
Oh, and one more suggestion: I need meal ideas!!! Let’s exchange recipes! I read an old post of yours (you made a scrumptious looking sandwich–with hummus).
I LOVE HUMMUS!
Kelly ๐
Mama Mandy says
How do I get an awesome header like yours? Do you make them yourself or use a template. PLEASE HELP ME, mine is so boring!
~KC: says
Smiling … Great post!
What a beautiful and graceful way to address things, my friend. :)))
Loving your strength, courage, vulnerability, all these beautiful photos and Brenda Ueland’s quotes. xox
“Awakening the heart involves stepping out of our character armor in order to let reality and other people into us. An open heart is also the source of courage…Courage involves facing the world squarely and letting your heart be touched, forever opening to life, come what may.” ~John Welwood
Me? says
I Love your bangs…
When shall I muster the courage for some of my own!?
-Amy
mo says
wow! thank you! i really needed to hear this words about writing and blogging. i have a blog of my own that i like and it took off rather well, and after a month (silly me, it’s only been a month!) i’ve started to get anxious about it, to question whether it was worth the effort, etc, etc. this is just the kick up the behind i needed! you put it all back into perspective.
THANK YOUUUU!!!
btw, i’ve been reading your blog ever since monica bielanko linked to it, and love everything about it. you have such a friendly, inspiring voice.
Sharone says
I agree with a comment above — I want to hear your life story… wish you had a talk show!! you have an amazing ability to write like you’re talking to each individual person… and it’s a bonus that your pics are amazing to accompany your writing!! still waiting for the book!
xo
Sally says
Sigh..I love how I’m always reading this and thinking, that is JUST how I feel!
I’d love to hear more about your faith sometime, will look forward to that post someday.
Angie Neal says
I’m a rare commenter but read everything you post. I just wanted to say how much you inspire me. I know you’re not perfect, but the way you live life and share it with others is truly inspiring. It makes me want to be a better person and most importantly a better Mom. The post you wrote about just doing things,(the orange grove post) making the memories and revealing the mishaps of your adventure was so freeing. It’s changed the way I view things. Just wanted to say thanks!
Emily says
so beautiful. i love your space- honestly, you are the only blogger I never get tired of. for real.
thank you.
wemustntdwell says
I LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog! Been following it for a couple months now… reading your words and seeing your pictures of your beautiful kids & lovely florida never fails to make me smile! I’m just finishing college in a month and I can only hope to have an amazing family like yours someday!
Keep up the good work & if you ever come to DC I’d love to meet you ๐
– Jen
Also here’s a teething relief tip that has been helpful with some of the little ones I’ve babysat for!:
Make some strong chamomile tea then mix a little juice in with it and freeze it into an ice cube tray. When they’re ready put a few cubes in a piece of cloth, tie/knot the top and hand it over to Nella!
Kim says
I don’t know how you do it but you seem to have just the right words for whatever I’m going through in my life. Love this blog and am so glad that I found it!
rebecca says
,,,love nella’s smile, so sweet!,,,would love to see photos of your garden and how it’s growing, please do share,,,the carrot nella was teething on (in a previous post) looked yummy,,,
thetaooftulips says
You know what you’re really good at? Eye-lash photos- they make my heart go pitter-pat everytime. Sweet babies…
Thank you for the inspiring words about writing. I think I’ll check that book out- lovely…
Cole
thetaooftulips says
You know what you’re really good at? Eye-lash photos- they make my heart go pitter-pat everytime. Sweet babies…
Thank you for the inspiring words about writing. I think I’ll check that book out- lovely…
Cole
MamaRobinJ says
I came across your blog (belatedly) via Nichole’s small moments spotlight and have now spent a couple of hours reading it. It’s beautiful, and if you want to inspire people you’ve done that with me. I’m at a bit of a turning point, I think, and I’m definitely going to come back and read more. Your perspective is quite beautiful.
Liz23 says
Aloha! I am a new reader and I love your blog!
I also love the music you have!
It would be awesome to see your playlist….I love the song you have playing right now and would love to know what it is….perhaps you already have a place you post it but I just can’t see it…if that’s the case, sorry!
Mahalo!
Lovely Lindsay says
this blog was EXACTLY what i needed… as a writer, a photographer, and yes, even as a blogger.
thank you!
Kathryn says
I love raw honesty – thank you, great post!
Liane says
I love your outlook on life.. I am a person that is a stickler for routine and I find it very hard to relax and just enjoy the moment. I’m always thinking of the next thing that needs doing.. I think I should take a leaf out of your book.. Just breath & relax.. Thankyou for being such an inspiration ๐
Philip May says
Hey Kelle, another good book about writing is Steven King’s “On Writing.” I know you’re thinking, Steven King? Check out the reviews on Amazon.
How true about the snuffing out. Nothing makes me sadder than to hear my uber creative daughter come home and fear the creation of some picture/story for fear of what her classmates might say.
I’ll say it again…the young professor is gorgeous!
Hannah says
I love reading your blog and seeign your photographs. You are an amazing mom, photographer, and woman!
http://www.oklahomahomemaker.blogspot.com
Missy says
Written so well. I strive everyday to be a better, blogger, crafter, photographer and mother. You inspire me with every post you write. Thank you!!!
dae129 says
I have never been disappointed in one of your blogs. Your writing and pictures and family have a beautiful way of getting inside me and changing my mood and attitude about life. Your little girls sweet faces always make my day and I’m grateful for your effort and work to blog about your daily joys and struggles. Thanks!
~Anna Edgar http://www.whereiskermit.com
David says
http://www.jimspancakes.com/
A friend recommended this site for me. We had a blast at breakfast this morning. It made me think of you. Lainey would love em.
mmariemk says
Woops I was signed into my husbands Google account. Haha. Sorry
Tanya says
Loved this post, thank you for inspiring me to be a better mother and photographer, I love learning from others and in particular, you!
Lisa Y. says
“Don’t be snuffed out.” I love this quote!! There are so many expectations and distractions in this life that can keep us from our passions. I HAVE to keep singing and acting…in my small town theatre…because I love it and it feeds my soul. If I stop, I feel snuffed out!! And if I feel snuffed out, then I’m not as good of a mom, wife, or any other of my labels that I choose to have. And when I start feeling guilty for the time I invest in that passion I’ll come back and read this post! Love you, Kelle!!
Summer says
Great post Kelle! I love the quotes about writing…and beautiful pictures, as always!
I love to take pictures but am definitely still learning. I prefer to take them outside but if I am indoors and there is no natural light and I still want to capture a great shot, do you have any suggestions or tricks?
Thanks again for your blog!
Paytonsmommy says
I would love to know how you balance two young kids. I just became a mommy of two a few weeks ago and I feel so torn – I am trying to spend time with my 3 year old DD but also spend time with my almost 3 week olds son. I know my daughter is stuggling adjusting to the new baby and it has been tough – he came a few weeks early and things happened fast which I think was hard for her -so how to you make each child feel special and a part of things. Any parenting tips I would love as well as photography since I love to take pictures. Can’t wait for your tutorial.
Thanks for the inspiration.
Sarah says
Thanks for this!!! I love to read your blog, it inspires me. Inspires me to write, to be happy, to “suck the marrow”!!! Thanks for reminding me that things are awesome and that it’s all about perspective!!!
paula devi says
Such clarity. Your photos are beautiful and reflect your heart, not only your to beautiful daughters. It’s lovely to se them growing. Your center is so strong, so calm. I am awe struck by this. You must have a wonderful mom & dad, who gifted you with so much love and empowerment. From reading Nella’s birth story I see such a strong, loving family support system. SUch a blessed legacy to give your girls.
Daniele says
Loved the faq…would love to read more reader questions answered in the future ๐
paula devi says
i need to edit more. ๐
Ky says
I’m curious to know how on earth you are able to keep all those gorgeous hair clips in Nella’s hair. Surely she must try and take them out?
Tina says
you are the absolute best!
Jill says
” because I do not write to be good, but to be happy” I love this line. It’s so true and you could replace “write” with a million other things and it feels so meaningful. Thanks.
Allison says
Your posts always come at the perfect time for me! They are often words that move me, things that make me think harder about whats going on in my head, and most importantly, they make me smile! thank you
Relationships are a spiritual practice says
Nella is one breathtakingly beautiful girl… GORGEOUS! Thanks, as always, for being you and sharing with the world.
Roksalanna says
Sounds like Lainey is doing really well with her swimming!
xo
Ashley says
Thank you Kelle for the little insights into your life. You inspire us to be better women!
Kellie says
Kelle, I had to share this on FB…
Seriously, you are one of the most thought provoking, inspiring, “aha” blogs that I read. Thanks for that!
Kathy Drachowski says
I love your attitude toward, photography, writing, faith….very inspiring. I too am just learning photography *technically* but I love the rush I get when I get a great shot! The pictures tell the story!
Nester says
Great post, Kelle. I have recently started my own blog, and blogs like yours are such an inspiration to me. Thank you for sharing your talents and passions.
Phoebe says
Thanks so much for answering those! A really nice insight!
Jen Burns says
Re: FAITH: I’ve always felt your faith is very clear. Typically people who want to know “exactly” what you believe are not interested in your “faith”; they want to pick apart your doctrine and theology or lack thereof. I would caution against writing anything that doesn’t come from the spirit with in you; that spirit is already clear through your writings. No need to explain love. It is from God.
Julie Smith says
Beautiful blog! Would love for you to follow me as well at
http://www.toddlerbedandmore.blogspot.com ! Thanks , Julie
Nicole says
Thank you for the inspiration and the honesty you bring to every post. It is so freakin refreshing!! ๐
I love how you described being religion-less, I often have a difficult time putting into words how I feel about God…but this actually helped me remember that I am not alone in how I feel and even if I were, it would be ok. (Wow that sounded like an old SNL skit.) Anyways, keep on with your bad self. Love reading and learning!!!!
tracyallegre says
Thank you for sharing. Looking forward to more information on photography please ๐ The very last picture of Nella makes my heart smile!!!
Are we there yet? says
I totally agree with you on faith and religion being two very different things! I appreciate reading and seeing small glimpses into your life!
Julie says
Love this post! I am bookmarking it for later inspiration. Love that last picture of your sweet baby. My heart swoons!
theduntons says
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on Photography! I love taking pictures and while it’s not my profession, I dream that it could be. Perhaps one day, but in the mean time, I just love sharing what I capture. It’s great to read your words of encouragement and do realize that someone will always be better, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t love it and pursue it! I feel as though I see the world in a way that I wouldn’t if I wasn’t thinking about what pictures I could get. It helps me to open my eyes and take in the beauty around us. Thanks for sharing your world!
McFarland-Higgins family says
This just SUNG to me today. I so love to write and snap pics and blog but always feel funny saying that I am any of those things. Today, I will shout it loud and proud! Thanks!
Iren says
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Iren says
I was thinking about blogging since last year, but just when I “met” you and your blog, I finally started it. I knew that all the “drunken monkeys” in my head that kept telling me how boring your blog will be, had no longer a chance. (my blog “Fairy Bread” is in german, so not so many people will be able to read it, but this is the language of my heart…)
THANKS FOR EVERYTHING! YOU’RE SO GIVING…
Flower Patch Farmgirl says
You answered questions I didn’t even know I had. I would love to talk unreligious faith with you over a martini… but that seems improbable, what with the geography thing. And the fact that you don’t even know me. ๐
Flower Patch Farmgirl says
PS – Bird by Bird. Right?
spencefam5 says
Your blog is so wonderful! It makes me happy to stop by each day and see the beautiful pictures of your gorgeous girls…Nella is so precious, as is her big sister! Keep up the great work ๐
Elisa says
I loved this post. I too had a faith-heavy past and am still trying very hard how to figure out how to move forward.
Like you, I take bits and pieces here and there, and try to teach my kids to be good people. Because in the end I think that matters most.
Love hearing your stories.
Natasha says
I love it. Gorgeous pictures.
Esther says
Slightly late comment perhaps, but I just had to say thank you thank you thank you for that picture of the ballerina. I don’t know if you know the ballerina herself or anything about ballet, but I do. I am a Ballerina because I dance ballet. I am not particularly good at it and my feet definitely weren’t built for it. Neither were the ballerina’s feet in that picture. Her feet do not have perfect ballerina arches, but she has struggled as I have to reach a point in her career where she can do an arabesque en pointe. I gave up ballet five years ago because I felt that my schedule didn’t have room for it anymore and I’ve been wrestling with the question of whether I should pick it up again. That picture made up my mind for me. I’m going back. You don’t triumph like that and then drop what you love. So thanks. For the words and the picture.
Molly says
Oh, how I love this post. I relate so much to your style of writing. I call it “hallmark card” writing because it always makes me tear up, just like the cards.
Your photos and writing style inspire me each time I come to your blog. In fact, I had your photos and style in mind when I wrote my most recent post. I want so much to be better at photography. I am confident that I am a writer. And I know for certain that my photography is getting better and better. But I still need help/practice.
Thanks so much!!!
mary ann says
Wow! I just discovered this blog thanks to Creative Mama. So much of what you write in this post resonates with me – from faith to creativity. In the midst of a hard week you have provided inspiration to be the person I want to be!
Sarah RDH says
GREAT post!!! Loved it all!! I started blogging to reconnect with my former, younger, writing self. I didn’t want an open journal laying around my house, I wanted ablog- that I can LOCK if I want to, delete if I want to, and when I want to share, for strangers to read that wouldn’t judge, so that I could truly be free with my writing. I *have* deleted a couple of personal posts, I try to not talk about friends or family members on it (at least not in a negative way, even though sometimes I’d like to vent!!) bc I have chosen to give my blog address to a few friends & family! I haven’t been blogging as often lately though, just haven’t felt it. I still want to get into photography- I’m still trying to talk my hubs into a better camera- but for now, I’ve been playing with my $100 (50% off! ) Olympus. It’s not the best, but I really don’t know how to work it much either! I need to get out that manual…anyway- I’ve found MY best shots come when I get eye to eye with my kids, nice & close. ๐
Nikki James says
I LOVE this post! Thank you for sharing with all of us who hang on your every word ๐
falalacreative says
I found this post to be wonderfully relevant and uplifting. Your blog is a combination of sunshine and sprinkles and poetry; in other words, it’s absolutely lovely. The following quote, in particular, is going right on the dresser mirror.
“If you are taking pictures, you are a photographer; if you are writing, you are a writer; if you are hitting ‘publish post,’ you are a blogger. I am not afraid to take bad pictures, to publish fuzzy ones or to write something I might later regret. And I think this is the best advice I could give. Don’t be scared. If you love doing something, do it. Learn it, stand by it, put yourself out there.”
– Kelle Hampton
Michael says
I love your stand on faith, it expresses exactly how I feel about Faith in my own life. I was also home schooled and had a very religious heavy childhood, but I would not change it because with it, I am the women that I am today and I am happy with were I am at. Thank you for expressing beautifully feelings that I have had but have not been able to put into words about where my faith stands.
*Trini* says
Nella. Is. Beautiful. And. Adorable!!!