No offense to male readers or my husband, but I am about to generalize all men based on my observations of one. Ready? Here goes.
Men can’t handle sickness like women can.
There. My unfair statement of the year. As I write this, I holler to Brett in the kitchen, “Do you care if I write about how you suck at handling sickness?”
Long Pause.
Him: “Sure.” Because Brutha knows what’s true.
Needless to say, our house is a hot mess of stomach flu germs right now. I’ll spare you the gnarly details, but the middle of the night last night was a disaster–Nella waking up to nurse at the same time Lainey lunged to puke, Brett moaning with body aches and then–kid you not–Brandyn flinging open a door with a towel to his face and the flu evidence all over the floor. All at the same time.
I hate when my kids are sick, but I’ll tell you what–there’s something about the vulnerability of kids not feeling well that demands the most beautiful moments of motherhood. I take it as an opportunity for a brilliant performance, as tired as I may be. Because there is no other option. They need me, simple as that. I am the only one who can fix it. And so I’m on–aware, awake and ready to deliver the kind of care that will sear memories of precious maternal moments for my girls.
So, there we were last night at two in the morning, Nella nursing on one side while Lainey moaned in my other arm, and a pile of sheets that needed to be washed at my feet. I smiled and whispered that it was going to be okay, that it would be over soon, that I was right here and I wasn’t going anywhere. Brett looked at me helplessly, ignoring his own body aches for a moment as if he could help.
I smiled. “Go, Babe. I got this.”
Patting myself on the back? Hell yeah, I am. So much it was actually the first thing I said to Brett this morning. I annoyingly fished for a compliment. “Dude, how good can I do the sick kid thing?”
“This is true,” he confessed. “You got it down, Babe.”
And I guess, for all the times in this parenthood thing we don’t feel like we really know what we’re doing, there are these glorious moments like last night when you just feel like you were born to do this. Like your love for your kids gives you some sort of special powers, and you know you feel it–the super human strength of a mother’s love. For the record, when those moments come, it’s totally okay to brag about them.
So I did.
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A precious moment today during physical therapy…Nella was just too tired to finish her session, so she fell asleep in Jonah’s arms instead.
All that commotion last night, and Sister didn’t get a good night’s sleep.
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Friday Photo Dump:
Friday Phone Dump photos are taken on the Instagram iPhone app (free) and dropped into a 12×12 collage using a photo editing software (Photoshop Elements works). I am “etst” on Instagram if you want to follow the feed.
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On to some matters of business.
First, my friend Nici–the one I traveled across the country to meet last year–well, she has a lovely blog that many of you read. Long story short, she lost her URL due to an expired credit card stored in GoDaddy’s registry. She tried to buy it back and instead, they auctioned it off to someone who is trying to sell it for nearly $5000 which she, of course, is not paying. So, Word, dig this chick has a new URL.
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Next…
$154,000, Dude. Seriously. Heart swells. This is amazing stuff, and I know it’s not over. Thank you. Keep it rolling, and I’ll be back next week with more sentiments on 2 for 2.
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I so enjoyed reading your comments of your chosen words for the year and found myself shaking my head to so many of them. Yes, breathe; yes, laugh; yes, adventure!
The Bloom galley copy giveaway winners are:
Comment #1411, Emily: my word for this year is present. i want to focus on being more present with my girls when i’m with them.
thrilled to read your book!!
Comment #1992, andrijoy: My goal is continued gratitude. When one gives thanks each day, happiness follows and others feel renewed by your peace. I am currently grateful for my son, Wes. He is not here yet, but he has already taught my husband and I so much about love, humility, gratitude and grace. We are one of the lucky few who have also won those designer genes just like Nella. I am lucky beyond words to be given such a wonderful gift. I look forward to reading your book.
XOXO
Comment #28, Cynthia: Oh my goodness! I would just looove a galley copy! How fun that your book will be here for all to see so soon?
My word for this year? Generosity.
A general reminder to do even more in all my relationships π
Congratulations! Please e-mail your mailing address to kellehamptonblog@comcast.net with the subject line “GALLEY WINNER,” and your signed book will soon be in the mail!
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Last but not least. I finally finished Nella’s Second Year Book. I get a lot of questions about these books. I make them for each of my girls’ birthdays, and the creation is a long and gradual process. While it looks like tons of work, I make these spreads throughout the entire year. I wake up before everyone else a couple Saturday mornings a month, get my coffee and head to the office where I’ll work on these books for an hour or so. I do it because I love it, and the product happens to make my girls very happy too. I order my books through Shutterfly (100 page, hard bound book–they’ve lasted great), and I create all of my own 12 x 12 spreads in my old Microsoft Digital Image Suite standby.
Click here to see the book.
I’m hoping for a puke free night. That would be nice. But if not…
…I got this.
Heidi says
Hope everyone feels better quickly!
Now the book question – what’s that font on the cover? It’s adorable! (as is the picture… to cute!)
michellemybelle says
just an fyi i don’t think the link to Nella’s book works. it brings me to your photo bucket account when i click on it.
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Patti says
that last pic of nella looks SO much like you:)
Liane says
I hope everyone is feeling better soon!
Congrats to the winners of your book! xx
Beth says
the shutterfly book is super cute. i loved it so much. what a great way to recall & love those memories into the future. hope every one is feeling back to normal & healthy again soon. being sick is no fun. (:
Lisa says
I hope everyone feels better soon! I hadn’t had the stomach flu since 7th grade, and have now had it four times since my three year old was born. The stuff spreads like wild fire!
My hubby, bless his heart, moans and groans on the couch when he has the sniffles. If he wasn’t so dang helpful when he’s healthy, I wouldn’t be laughing about it. π
shellycoulter says
Love Nella’s book. Can’t wait to read yours. Sending bloggy- love from Wyoming. π
Tonia says
Oh no! I hope everyone feels better soon! And if you end up with it, I hope they take as good of care of you as you do them!
Hailey @ Me and My Boys says
I got a little teary reading this, mixed with a little “YEAH!”. π
I so rock the sick thing too. Doesn’t matter how little sleep I’ve gotten. If my kid is sick, I’m suddenly filled with all kinds of energy, kisses, and extra love. The hubs is pretty good too, but like Brett, he hands that trophy on over to me. Hope yall feel better soon!
Claire @ Scissors Paper Rock says
Oh No….nothing worse than a household full of spews & sickness….but nothing better than being the one that can make it all better π You go girl…brag away…us Mumma’s deserve to let the world know when we rock at something π And so true….Men CAN’T handle sickness nowhere near as well as girls π haaa!
Love Nella’s book. In fact, 2 years ago, when I started reading your blog, you inspired me to make photo books for my kid/s….and so I have been π LOVE IT! Have a great weekend Kelle xx
Maria says
Kelle~Nella’s book is absolutely stunning! What a beautiful tribute to those two amazing little girls. Just a great job.
BTW~I’m crying that I didn’t win a copy of your book. Really looking forward to reading it.
kelly says
Hiii..i went to you friends dig this chick website…she’s gorgeous, i now have another blog I want to follow
π
kelly..
Summit of Glory says
Oh Kelle – Nella’s book is wonderful. Luv it!!!!!! xoxoxo Hope everyone feels better soon.
Sarah says
Hope everyone is feeling better soon!! Nella’s 2nd year book is amazing….LOVE it!!! Have a great weekend!
Life with Kaishon says
You seem like a girl that can handle sickness well. I love your books.
Megan@TrueDaughter says
First off, I have to say thank you. As a mom with a child with special needs, and a person who always expected to be an EIS (early intervention specialist) – and someone who fell in love with these gorgeous kiddos at a young age – what you are doing for Down Syndrome awareness and great and awesomeness, if you know what I mean, is simply amazing. Horrifically, 92% of these amazing kids are not given the chance to be born. Thank you for showing the world what a gift a child with DS is. Everybody needs a little sunshine…your Nella looks like a LOT of sunshine.
Also…Doooodeee – I must have the only husband in the world who moves into hyperdrive…nurseman mode when the kids are sick. Seriously, I can handle it all, blood, poop, whatever, but not vomit. He does all that, and nurses them well with more patience than I have! I once watched him lay between my two sons who had rota virus, one waking every 7 minutes to throw up, and the other every 20, ready and waiting with the bowl because they were just too weak to run for the bathroom. That’s love, baby. That’s love.
Blessings for a speedy recovery for your lovely family…and prayers that mama doesn’t get it!
Lauren@ "Happiness is..." says
Dang-was really hoping to win that giveaway π Momma’s really do have super powers and my husband is a wimp when he is sick and we always joke about it! AND…that picture of sister girl Nella asleep in her PT’s arms- beautiful.
Dina says
Ha, you’re funny! Good on ya for patting yourself on the back. We’re so allowed to be proud of ourselves – in a good way. Five stars to you!
Lissa says
Oh man, I wish I 1% of your “I got this” when it comes to stomach bugs. I cannot deal with it and am basically a huge mess all flu season, and the fear may prevent me from having a third child (and I thought teenage boys would make it to the bathroom π ) You are a superstar and I hope that you’ll have a puke-free night and can air the place out.
justjaime31 says
I went through Nellas book while I was watching Extreme Home Makeover… thanks for the extra (happy) tears tonight!
I beg to differ one he men and sickness… My husband is AMAZING! I CANNOT clean up the sick (I cant even type it lol) Wether its my dog, cats, kids, my own, it doesnt matter, I cannot clean it up. My husband clean while I take care of the sick ones.
I know obviously you dont post everything about your life, You dont tend to post the bad and the ugly, but I love reading your posts. I always walk away smiling and I ALWAYS find my “littles” (11,9 and 2) and give them an extra hug and kiss, even though they all push me away lol
If These Walls Spoke... says
Love it! My husband is great with the kids when they’re sick, but when HE’S sick…Lord have mercy. Shut the door and call it a day. Pathetic π Here’s to a puke free night, good luck to you!
Happiness is... says
Man sickness…let’s not go there..thankfully Ben never got the stomach flu that Alex and I shared. But I hear ya when it comes to Mama can take care of this. AMEN!
Your book – it’s inspirational! Beautiful. Big love for the instagram pages. What’s the font that’s on the cover? Also, where do you find some of your smaller graphics? That’s where I seem to suffer when I’m looking for something awesome.
Here’s wishing you a puke-free night! I’m off to decorate a hungry, hungry hippo cake!
Peace,
Jennifer
Michelle says
In our house, my husband is the king of sick mess clean up. Thank goodness! I’m terrible. I’d rather throw out sheets, toys, clothes and books instead of trying to clean it, but my husband saves the day. Although, the Tintin book has never been same since it had a go around with car sickness.
jenifer says
you might hate this question.
i have a lot of kiddos and a lot of digital pictures. my goal this year is to get some books done for them. i get the shutterfly part, but could you tell me more about the old microsoft standby program you use to make your cute layouts?? i just want to get something and use it and stop trying to decide HOW i’m going to do these books.
thanks.
i think you are ADORABLE.
completely.
Little For A Little While says
Oh, so not fun when littles are sick! Hope everyone is back and at em soon! Thank you for sharing your Shutterfly books. You’ve inspired me to begin them for my own kids…scrapbooking just wasn’t happening anymore. This is way easier π Happy weekend!
priest's wife says
uh-oh- don’t tell my husband but I NEED HELP when kiddos are sick at night…
our clan says
Thank you for sharing Nella’s book!! I have been trying to figure out how to do a book for my boys. I am no scrapbooker. So thank you!! Hope everyone feels better!! You deserve a high five momma!!
Cindel says
love the pic of the destroyed bedroom in the phone dump!
scgrits says
I agree. My dad and husband are fantastic taking care of sickies but, as we learned when we all got it over Xmas, they are TERRIBLE when they are sick. Gave me grief that I wasn’t doing enough to take care of my sick toddler when I was sick but you couldn’t get them to do anything once they came down with it.
Allison says
Love, love, love Nella’s book! Wonderful! And thanks for the info on Digthischick…I was wondering where her blog disappeared to!
Happy Birthday Nella!
Roksalanna says
Wow! Nella’s Second Year book is brilliant Kelle!
Hope everybody in the Hampton Household is feeling better.
Have a lovely weekend.
xo
Britt Emmons Ricardo says
Your sweet book for Nella brought tears to my eyes. What a treasure she will have forever. I continue to be impressed by how much you can accomplish in a single day – you work hard, sister! Hope everyone feels better soon and that tonight is indeed, a puke free one!
Hazel says
Oh dear God, it doesn’t bear thinking about. When i was a child if any of the 5 of us got it, we all had it usually in one night. My poor parents, often we ran out of sheets & towels! I think the worst time was once when we’d all been sick, Mum & Dad had finally succumbed themselves then our cat walked into their bedroom and thought she’d just add to the moment by being sick on the carpet!!! Dad never really liked the cat before, let alone after that misdemeanor. But you do sound like you’re a perfect nurse to your poor wee babes. Hope things return to normal soon. Can’t wait to check out Nella’s book.
RaquelDoesLife says
Ohhh my goodness, I could not agree with you more about the “men can’t handle sickness like women can” thing. Not the dealing with it, nor the having it themselves. Except I tried to tell my boyfriend that, and he protested it like a mofo. We both had the most horrible stomach flu ever last winter, and let’s just say I handled it with a little bit more grace and a little less moaning and whining than he did. But I’ll never bring it up again, because he insists his was worse than mine. Mmhmm. =]
At least everyone is getting it out of their systems (literally and figuratively) as a team! I hope your entire family feels better soon, the tummy flu is the worst kind of sickness, in my opinion.
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Kate says
Oh, Kelle, I LOVE Nella’s book! Is it weird that I look forward to these books all year? I make them for my boys, so your are very inspirational to me.
Thanks for sharing your life and your loves with us!
Marie Rose says
I know I’ve told you this a time or two but I LOVE your year books. You inspired me to do one when my little girl was born. I am working on year 3 and my Eden just loves her books. You are awesome and I love your stuff!
LeiShell says
I liked you before…but once I realized you still nurse Nella…even more! Being a nursing mom still with an 18 month old I am always explaining to people why I still do it…so it’s nice to know that there are other mothers who cherish it also. Hope your family gets better quickly!
Jennifer says
My husband has evolved into the best caregiver ever to me when I get I’ll. He goes above and beyond. I usually care for our daughter, but he does help if needed if he can get away from work.
Praying for healing for you all.
Beautiful Mess says
Little Nella is so adorable! Love her second year book.
Hope everyone feels better really soon!
Have a great weekend.
Jessica says
True Dat. But I already knew you had superpowers when you posted that pic of you flying alone with the girls with the flu π
Jenny says
Hoping for a puke free night for your family! I LOVE the book!!!
Darcee says
‘Tis true, our strong mama skills come out full force when there is sickness running amuck in our littles. Pat yourself on the back again.
Thank you for sharing Nellas photobook, what a beautiful gift for her throughout her life.
Kara says
Keeping in mind that I’ve never had to deal with children being sick, I was just telling my husband this very morning — and not for the first time — that he is just no good at dealing with being sick. He likes to think that the pain is greater for him than it is for others, but… I’m pretty sure it’s just because guys just don’t… do… sick.
CameoLeigh says
Oh I sure hope everyone is starting to feel better. The stomach bug has been going around the schools here as well. It is a nasty (but thankfully quick) bug. I just love the pic of Nella with Jonah. How sweet!!! I hope you all get some rest and get to feeling better. I have to agree with you, we got this when it comes to the sickies!
Kelly Cach says
*Yucky…..hoping the flu is long over by now π
*Nella asleep on Jonah…..sweetie babe.
*And thank you SO much for adding the URL for digthischick.
p.s. I sent a clip to your e-mail, but it didn’t go through. It may have been too big? too long? Or your mailbox is full? I think it was like 30 seconds or so. As usual, I had too much to say about my girl π
Meagan Kenney says
Ugh, I hope for a puke free night for you too. I have been hearing about the stomach bug that makes it’s way slooowly around. Didn’t you and Nella have it last week? Now the others… And my hubby, NO JOKE, pukes (weak gag reflex I guess?) if one of the kids barfs… Have a wonderful weekend!
Meagan Kenney says
Ugh, I hope for a puke free night for you too. I have been hearing about the stomach bug that makes it’s way slooowly around. Didn’t you and Nella have it last week? Now the others… And my hubby, NO JOKE, pukes (weak gag reflex I guess?) if one of the kids barfs… Have a wonderful weekend!
Stacey says
THANK YOU for sharing the new dig this chick link…was SO BEYOND sad when it didn’t pop up today, so thank you, thank you for making my night! cheers!
Mrs MacKenzie says
We had that bug! It was awful!!! But it doesn’t last long.
I looked through all of Nella’s book and I love it. Wish I knew how to work that program you used to create it. Your options are so limited with the pre-made formats that sites like Shutterfly, Snapfish, and Picaboo offer.
DeAnna says
“…ready to deliver the kind of care that will sear memories of precious maternal moments for my girls.” —Ahh, these are the things you write that make my heart swell with emotion. Thanks. I just adore the things you say about tackling challenges and how, in turn, I feel different about my own challenges – more motivated to conquer them. I pre-ordered my copy of Bloom and will be sitting on pins and needles until it arrives!
Jannice says
Nellas book is adorable! And I couldn’t agree more about super mommy powers with sick babies. I’ll never forget that first rush of pure mommy powers when my first daughter was a baby and woke up too hot…I remember changing her and getting her back to sleep and feeling like I just did the most important, beautiful thing in my life. Just knowing that I have that in me – something so simple to make my babies feel comfortable is so amazing. So true…you’re just on when they need you most! I thought I was crazy for feeling that way when they’re sick…I guess lots of us moms are like that!!
Hope you all feel better!!
Just think, in a couple of months we’ll all be living through you and your little ioc!!
melissa says
I am in the process of donating, ordering, organizing, etc. Love y’all & GET WELL from Tejas!!
Aslaug Marie says
Jeez, you’re officially my hero. Sadly, I can’t handle the stomach flu, not in myself, not even in my kids. I have dreaded it for as long as I can remember, when somebody pukes or I even hear about somebody puking (I admit I had some trouble even getting through this post of yours), I freak out in so many ways and just.. shut down. The minute one of my kids puke, they’re my husbands responsibility. If I could leave the house and not come back for a week, I would’ve.
I’d give anything to be the one patting my kids on the back and telling them they’ll be ok. Caring for them instead of leering at them from a corner of the livingroom and spending the following five-six days in mortal fear I’ll catch it myself (I once got sick four days after my son got well, so I figure after five or six days, I should be safe), cause that shit is death to me. On the other hand, if I was the one who got it first, I’d might be able to handle it better, knowing they couldn’t pass it on to me. I should always catch it first, dammit! It has yet to happen though. Dammit.
Super powers! And that last picture of Nella sleeping in Jonahs arms is just precious!
count it all joy says
Hey Kelle, giving you a mum to mum high 5 from Sydney, Australia:). That photo of Nella asleep in Jonah’s arms…..I think I just ovulated. Meredith xo
mummalove says
Nice work, supermummy…brag away! Yes, boys really don’t cope well with the ‘man flu’ at all π Lucky we tough women are around to look after everyone.
Your Shutterfly book is gorgeous. You totally put me to shame!
Hope the family is all better soon x
Sharmaine says
i hope your kiddos feel better soon.
so funny tho, i have a friend who had kiddos with the stomach flu last midnight too, all the way over here in california.
and those lucky winners! oh how i wish i could get one with a note from you!
Steph says
STOMACH FLU HELP: (hope that caught your eye w/ so many comments π Charcoal pills!! They are at most health food stores and are a simple, natural, harmless way to flush out unwanted things/bacteria out… like a much heftier version of fiber. We’re talking one day (or less) instead of five for sickness. I’ve gotten to where I take some at the first sign of tummy gurgling and it gets flushed out w/o affecting me. -I have not thrown up since I discovered them. And I do sick like you described.. by God’s grace, this sista shines. And even through being thrown up on over a dozen times, cleaning it all up every time -w/ my charcoal magic bullets, I can continue to be Supermom the whole time. Every mom needs these!
For the kiddos, you can open the pill and mix the contents in juice/sprite to get it down. If they throw it up, just try again a little later. Adults, take two when you feel it starting (or after it hits) and then every few hours until you feel no more gurgling/cramping, etc. May you all be healthy soon!
Katy Walker says
Hope everyone is feeling better in the Hampton household. π
JG says
I Love It…:)
My Secret Rooms says
Haha, it’s soo true: let’s dish the notion of “generalization” – men suck at being ill π π Same story in our house. Exactly. My hubs seems to have one foot in the grave, come stomach flu time…
Hope you’re all better today?!
Making a photobook per year is a great idea! I’ll pick that up!!!
Have a wonderful weekend!
Team Lando says
You deserve major props for dealing with multi-flu-people last night.
And Nella cashed out at PT is awesome. How is she almost two?
Kristin says
Your photo book is AMAZING! Beautiful pictures of your beautiful children.
Having a sick house is never easy, especially when you have a sick husband on top of it all. Sometimes they are worse than the littles! YOU ROCK!
AnnieBC says
Patting you on the back! I too think I deserve a compliment, or two or three for my epic performances in the past couple of months dealing with 3 sick kids. Mamas rock, and finding that super Mom strength to care for everyone else around you is truly one of the best feelings….on tha note, Hope you don’t get IT too!
Alexandra e Pedro says
Whish you all get better soon! And yes, mums do have super power to do anything for their children…
I found your blog a few months ago, and got to read about Nella’s Birth story….burst into tears… and i got addicted to you and you blog…and just went to the very first post and read it all!!
This is the first time i write anything, im always postponing, because i allways thinks that what im about to write is not good enought. Today i’ve decided that i wont postpone anything….because i dont know if can do it tomorrow!
I want to say that i smile, laugh, cry, and dream with all your posts… and miles and miles away, you’ve got a Portuguese linving in the UK, that really admires you… and although this may sound weird, i feel that i really know you and your familly!
Wish i had write before and maybe got a galley as well π
Lots of love from me and my little familly:
Alex, Pedro and Gui xxx
melissa says
I could have written this post!! The week before Christmas I was standing up nursing while trying to bathe my puke-covered two-year-old, in the middle of the night of course! Dads are good at so much, but they are terrible at sickness. You rock! Best wishes for an uneventful evening!
melissamaren says
I can’t wait to see pictures of nella’s tea party!!!
Amy says
Oh I know exactly what you are saying. I feel the same way when my family is sick. I hope everyone feels better asap and that the buzz of keeping it all together pulls you through.
meghan says
That book is absolutely unbelievable. I’m amazed by the time you put into it, yes, but I’m even more amazed by your talent and how well-created those pages are. Your girls are going to be so thankful for those when they grow up. It makes me want to do something like that when I have kids.
CarolM says
I think its easier when the kids are sick than a husband. The kids tend to whine less, the husband dosen’t. I love the book idea, I wish i would have done it for my kids.
Southern Gal says
Well, I sure hope it was just a 24 hour bug and you’re about done with it. Not fun. We’re good, but it’s still not fun.
I see one of our favorite books, Skippyjon Jones, behind Nella in one of your library shots. You’ve got to get that book. The CD of the author reading the book is my son’s favorite. What? I don’t do a Spanish accent good enough for him? Who am I kidding?
Evelyn Louise says
The photo dump picture of Lainey’s bedroom all a mess makes my day. I am not a “neat” person by any stretch, but when I walk into Ella’s room and it looks like that, my blood pressure soars… So many tiny little things that need to be back in their place.
So glad to know that your littles make just as big a mess and instead of freaking out, you take a picture. That encourages me to DO BETTER!
As always, love your blog (and I pre-ordered Bloom!)
amypins says
So true, you may be generalizing but most women i know would make the same generalization. It’s a momma thing.
BUT, i think it’s also important to remember that’s ok if you DON’T got it at times too, and to allow your partner the opportunity to shine. My 8month old has been ill for a few months. Starting with the discovery of a hemangioma (non-cancerous tumor) growing under her tongue (scary b/c it was starting to affect her breathing and eatting, but being treated with simple medication), then onto one virus, bug, issue (first 2 teeth) after another, along with the ongoing discomfort of the hemangioma. I recently hit my “i don’t have this” after 2 months of “having it” and finally admitted it to my husband, who happily stepped up to take over a little so I could re-charge.
Monique says
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Lukesmommy25 says
Just started reading your blog and have a question who is Brandyn?
Monique says
What a beautiful second year book your Mama heart put together for little Ms. Nella!! Her smile makes my heart melt!! It is so pure, so sweet, so magical!! And those almond eyes of hers hold such wisdom and kindness!1
Thank you for sharing!!
Hope everyone is feeling better!! And I do agree with you that us Mamas know how to handle the sick kid thing…and it’s okay to brag about it π
Cheers! Happy weekending!
Monique
MicheleQ says
I’ve been married 26 years and have 10 children. My husband is a GREAT father and a huge help to me. Just last might he headed off to the grocery store with 4 kids in tow which meant finding shoes, coats and switching car seats. But sickness, yeah he sucks at it.
Mind you we have two children with juvenile diabetes and he IS a help with that but the other kind, yeah, no.
Your girls are absolutely precious. I love seeing your photos and reading your blog.
I am sorry about your friend losing her URL. I thought that there was a change in the law about that kind of thing. Mine expired recently and I had 15 days to get it back before it was sold. In any case you are a good friend to post her new URL!
cdnkb says
I’m sorry you guys were sick.
We got a 12 hour bug last spring. Everything was puking every 5-10minutes. It was insane. I was about 7 months pregnant with our third child and was still waaaaay more functional than my husband.
My oldest started in the night. I changed his bedding and then gave him a bowl and asked him to try to be sick in there. And he did! At 4, he woke up every 5-10min all night to throw up (eventually throwing up just bile) and every time he got it right in the bowl and then called me to wipe his face and passed out again.
Nobody talks about being able to throw up in a bowl during the night as a developmental milestone, but it’s the best. milestone. ever.
Thanks for sharing your lives with everyone,
Katrina
ARH3584 says
Nella’s second year book is AMAZING! I began reading your blog this fall, and just recently started back at the beginning, you posed a lot about Lainey’s books and I wasn’t sure if you were keeping the tradition going or not. I am SO glad you have even with clearly how much work must go into them! When they are adults and even teenagers it will be so fun for them to look back on and remember. Having a super talented photographer of a mom is a super bonus!
And CONGRATULATIONS on how far 2 for 2 has collected so far! You are going to make that goal, I just know it!
Amy says
You said it much more eloquently than I did.
http://www.mcgivenfamilychaos.blogspot.com/2012/01/no-sleep-and-sick-day.html
I SO thought I was going to win a copy of you book…boooo!! haha
Is it just me, or did Lainey get really tall??!! Love the library (or book store?) pic. My two year old is just starting to love the world of Dr. Seuss. I couldn’t be more thrilled!!
Amy says
*your*
(I should really re-read!!)
Caryl says
I normally rock the sick thing but since the week after Christmas, I have been the sick one. Boo! Luckily husband is rocking the Dr. House role. I hope the family feels better soon and you all have a projectile-free evening.
Cheers,
Caryl
Sarah Nora says
Nella’s book is amazing! She will treasure it forver and it will remind her of how much she is loved. Feel better soon to all the Hampton clan!
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Janita says
Pat yourself on the back indeed, friend…you deserve one! And what to say about that book you made for Nella? LOVE IT. Ah, your girls will thank you so much for those one day…I created a first year journal for each of my kids in Picaboo, and now need to start cracking on their wonder years. Seeing one of your creations again, I may want to get a little crazy and attempt what you’ve done…ahem…stay tuned for string of obscenities. Oh well, it’ll all be worth it because “their story” is always the favourite book in the house! That, and I totally make them for me as well. Need something to read in between harrassing my peeps in my nursing home one day. π Janita
Unknown says
I just have to agree with your generalized statement that men can’t handle it as well as women. Every little cold or sickness and suddenly they seem to be dying. My husband has had one thing wrong after another for over a month now and it’s wearing on my nerves :oP I haven’t felt well during that entire time too (basically everything he’s had…) but I refrain from complaining and just plug through to care for my daughter, our pups, the house and last but not least my 31 year old manchild haha. My daughter got the stomach flu the last night we were in FL visiting my dad. I was puked on so many times that night I can’t even remember, cleaned up more puke then I ever have in my life, and had to deal with a puking baby on the plane home the next day. I think got that same bug the next night. But when *he* got it, he was out of commision in bed all day. Haha. Got to love our men.
Hope everyone is feeling better real soon in your house! – Beckie
Kim Bart says
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Nella’s book. It is so beautiful, I love the colors and of course all the beautiful photos. You are such a talented lady!!
Shauna says
can I channel you? Cause the truth is when my kids have tummy troubles I would rather be anywhere else in the world than taking care of them. I can handle all the other stuff, but the tummy stuff makes me crumble. Does that make me a bad mom? I guess we’re all good at different stuff.
Simply Shelley says
Nella’s 2nd year book is stinkin’ adorable!! That’s something both your girls will have forever and ever!! Too sweet!
Happy Saturday! Hope everyone’s feeling groovy soon!
-Shelley
http://simply-shelley.blogspot.com/
Mimzy Wimzy says
So sorry everyone is sick. I hope your super mommy powers have them better in a blink of an eye!
That book for Nella is amazing! I intend to make a book for my newborn granddaughter this year. I know it will not compare to what you have created.
Angela says
Damn straight you got this!! when my baby is sick i like to call it “Mommy Bootcamp.” Sees what I’m made of and if I can handle it–and I may feel as if Im struggling at times, but in the end, I kick that sickness’ boo-tay! π
Hope the household feels better soon!!!
Mrs. C says
LOVE the book!! Totally going to do this one day π Your family makes my heart so happy!
You+Me=Family says
Blech, we are fighting the stomach flu at my house too. Thankfully, it’s spread itself out to one person at a time. I could still do without! Hope you get some sleep tonight!
Kelly Cach says
****I’m re-posting my comment. I was signed in on the wrong e-mail. I don’t get technology….urg. Plus, I had to come back and say how much I LOVE Nella’s book!!!
*Yucky…..hoping the flu is long over by now π
*Nella asleep on Jonah…..sweetie babe.
*And thank you SO much for adding the URL for digthischick.
p.s. I sent a clip to your e-mail, but it didn’t go through. It may have been too big? too long? Or your mailbox is full? I think it was like 30 seconds or so. As usual, I had too much to say about my girl π
Melissa says
Ohhh I remember those days. Its like a switch is flipped and a cape magically appears on your shoulder that says ‘momma’s my name, puke’s my game’, and you can instantly soothe, clean, feed, mop up without a second thought. Thanks for the memory, makes me think, ‘Wow, I did good’!! Oh, and I love love love the girl’s little twisted up hair buns. I did the same thing with my girl when she was wee, and she always requested ‘inna bun mama’. She never wears her hair up now. Huh, go figure! ha!
Lauren says
Google “man cold”. You’ll be glad you did.
Tricia says
I so completely agree with the super mama powers that come, on cue, when little ones are sick. Oh the things I never knew I was capable of till the first time she sniffled.
Barb says
What a touching post, Kelle! All mommas can identify with what you so eloquently put into words:)
Linda MG in Soquel, CA says
Awww, Kelle, to all of your family: SO sorry about the stomach bug! Ugh and Yuk!! Yes, your sure know how to do the sickness thing! I think many of us women/moms do. I sure do, with my kids and NOW, with my grandkids! I must say that my hubby is very good at it too tho. Love Nella’s book. Hope everyone there is all better. Hm…i havent been around anyone with the STOMACH bug, but we and grandkids just got over a nasty respiratory virus/flu. I sure hope we dont all get hit with this one next! YAY for how much $ has already been raised for the “2for2”! WOW-people are really coming thru on this AGAIN, huh?? I am so touched and it sure helps to remind us of the GOOD in people, something needed in this world full of bad news and ugly images.. Love from Your Blog Mama~
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Linda MG in Soquel, CA says
TO AMYPINS – GOOD for you, realizing you needed to let your hubby step up. Wow, thats alot you have been dealing with!! Glad the tumor is treated with med. Ya gotta take care of YOU, too- a hard lesson for many women and moms. TO SHAUNA- NO!! That doesnt make ya a bad mom and YES we are all good @ different stuff. Some just cant deal wtih stuff coming out at both ends! ha.. KELLE- thanks for the update/info on Nicci’s blog! Weird story, huh? Love from Your Blog Mama~
Linda MG in Soquel, CA says
(sorry, ANOTHER one from me here) TO LeiShell – Yay for you and the nursing! Yes, I love that kelle still nurses. I nursed my kids a long time (they are all grown now). I love that my daughter is still nursing her second child (she is 18 mos old)! Granted, baby doesnt want to nurse as often, but… And, just my thought, but dont think any explanation is needed about your nursing~ Love from the Blog Mama
thedreamcalledlife says
You know what I find so funny? Your blog is my absolute favorite to read, and I think, “I wish I could blog like she does…” but then my blog turns out to be exactly what you choose NOT to talk about on your blog! The throw-up-on-the-floor, poop-out-of-the-diaper, nail-polish-everywhere blow-by-blow stories. You have such a good take on your life, to be able to ignore those parts… or, at least, to not share them, when it’s all I talk about! Although I am laughing at them, at least, and not complaining. π
Thanks, Kelle! Hope y’all are better soon!
-Lela
Ellen says
Gosh, I just so love Nella’s book. It’s beautiful!!
Melissa says
I definitely felt like I was officially a mom when my kids had the stomach bug in September. My 2.5 year old was throwing up every 10 minutes for an hour in the middle of the night and I was on it with towels, extra blankets, etc. But there was something so sweet about making myself a little bed on her floor with towels around us and pulling her close to offer comfort and be ready for the next round. And when my 4 year old got it 2 night later, I cuddled up with her too. Then I got it 2 days after that and my girls made me a princess crown so that I would look “pretty” when I was sick.
Lindsey @ The Hill House says
When my kids are sick is when I feel more like a competent mom than at any other moment. They NEED me, they WANT me, and I have GOT IT under control. Of course I want them to be healthy, but a little part of me loves the great high that comes from being able to handle the “stuff” better than anyone else in my house. Happy Weekend!
Mommy Brain says
Ya, not me…I’m not good with stomach sickness…totally freak out and feel so sorry for myself. Good job..and keep up the great attitude!
Rik says
Lukesmommy– Brandyn is one of two sons Brett brought to the marriage, born through his first wife, Maria, who is very dear to Kelle, life is an enchanting enigma. Brandyn and Austyn are wonderful young men and cherished big brothers to Lainey and Nella. The only “step” about them is the tracing of the steps into our hearts. I love them as my grandsons and am very proud of the way they are growing up. Just an explanation in case Kelle doesn’t get a chance. The boys aren’t in alot of photos as they are young teens and Kelle repects their privacy.
–Poppa
Amy says
I had to laugh when I read about your stomach flu story… we just returned from our annual ski vacation to Park City Utah (Yes….THAT park city, Utah..I LOVED your pictures when you went it just makes me giddy!)… the first night we were there my 1 year old threw up 4 times… 24 hours later my husband and I came down with what could only be described as the worst stomach flu we had ever encountered…and over the course of 36 hours 9 out of 10 family members on the vacation fell ill!! It became almost hilarious…and we bonded over the middle of the night vomit stories. That is one contagious BUG!!!
Debby says
Love the picture of Nella and Jonah. I think he is smitten by Little Miss Nella. Her second year book is adorable. Great idea. You got lots of pictures in one book.
Kenny says
I had to stop reading about half-way through . . . I was afraid I was about to catch something!
Farmgirl Paints says
you nailed it when you said they can’t cope. seriously my honey nicked his finger somehow doing dishes tonight and he came over and made the biggest deal of it. it’s a nick. not a biggie. they just need the mothering i guess. hope y’all feel better really soon.
Crystal says
Oh my goodness. That picture of Jonah and Nella is beautiful!
What a blessing that you guys treat each other like…. family. Truly special.
Cage Free Family says
Alright, I’m going to admit it. In our house it is Hubby who handles the sick for anyone over 2. He handles the clean up, the soup making, the crying, the sheet changing, etc. He also does all poopy diapers. I have no idea how it came to be like this, but somewhere along the way of the duty breakdown he got the messy illnesses.
sarah says
Keep that super hero mom cape flapping in the wind!
Gina says
Sometimes my hubby is uber helpful, sometimes, not so much. Regardless, I am invariably sick with worry. So you, my dear, are a far stronger woman than I am.
That being said, I handle my own sickness much better than my husband handles his.
And? That picture of Nella and Jonah? I melted a little, right onto my laptop. Sigh.
laureneverafter.com says
I say relish in the super mom-ness. And it’s okay about your “unfair” comment. I think a lot of women feel that way!
Teed Family says
Kelle,
I know you get a lot of comments on your blog so I am hoping you will catch this one!
I hoping you can help this family! Help get the word out to save this little girls life! Her name is Amelia and she needs all the support she can get!
Please take the time and read her moms post… http://www.wolfhirschhorn.org/2012/01/amelia/brick-walls/
Then if you feel like you can help please sign the petition
http://www.change.org/petitions/executive-vice-president-and-chief-development-officer-allow-the-kidney-transplant-amelia-rivera-needs-to-survive
I started reading your blog about a year ago and enjoy doing so! It helps me through some of my hard days and has touched me deeply! You have many others that read your blog as well and I am hoping that you can help Amelia… you have the power not to just spread the word about DS but also about other children whos syndromes are much less common and don’t have as much of a voice. Thank you for your time!
J9 says
the photo book is simply amazing.
i have a billion pictures too … i need to make time to make that kind of stuff.
I was surprised you didnt do the layout in Photoshop.
Maybe the other program is faster?
EIther way. Great work. Seriously. You rocked it.
Dylan'sMommy316 says
I totally get what you mean about sick husbands. I can handle my little guy being sick ANY DAY of the week. It’s the S.O. getting sick that I dread. He’s mean and cranky and a big baby about it. I always think “It’s a cold for crying out loud. Try pushing a baby out of your who-ha.”
Samantha says
Hope the rest of the weekend is healthier and calmer than the first half has been! But, yes, you’ve got this!
Aimee says
Love the book! What a treasure for your girls (& your family) in the years to come!
Nf1andprek-whisper says
Some great graphic colors in Nella’s book… I make shutterfly books a lot.. and you have way more fonts.. and know how then I do…. I was sorry to hear about dig that chick.. that is ridiculous…. I love the pic of Lainey in the library or book store.. and Nella’s party is going to be a tea party.. can’t wait to see those pictures…..
Molly says
Kelle, Nella’s photo book is so awesome! I finally started Landon’s baby book (I’m really really behind) two weeks ago and it is slow going. I have a lot of trouble deciding what photos to put in the book! There are too many to choose from! But I’m going to work on it little by little and then start on Brigham’s baby book next. It feels like I’ll never catch up!
Heidi says
You are a rockstar, mama! Is Brett always bad at handling kid sickness? It sounds like he wanted to help and would have helped if he hadn’t been sick himself. I hope that everyone feels better soon!
Party of Ten says
I hope everyone is feeling better today. Once again, love the picture book. You are so talented π
Kristina says
Love the photo book, you are amazingly talented. Hope everyone is feeling better, having sick kids is no fun.
Pamela says
Kelle or any other followers,
I would love hints on how to narrow the photos for a photo album. I probably take 100 pics at each “event” in my daughter’s life. I love the way your books look, but I noticed you usually only have 1-2 double page spreads per event. Do you use any criteria for cutting out pics…I get so overwhelmed and don’t know where to start, if anyone has some helpful tips I would love to hear them!
Jennifer says
Bleach, bleach, bleach! It’s one the only things that will grt rid of stomach virus germs. Also, no visitors in your home for at least 2 weeks after the last person was sick. No need to spread that yucky virus around!
aubrey says
That book is beautiful! The “oh” face page is priceless. Your girls will treasure the books for all of their lives.
-Aubrey
Rebecca says
When my little one was sick last I remember thinking to myself “I am mommy, hear me roar!” There is nothing like having mom to make it all better. It’s what we do! Love your blog. Thanks for sharing.
Janita says
Pamela,
Re: your question on how to narrow down photos…I too suffer from how to choose photos from the hundreds I take. I’ve made several photo books for different events (Dad’s 75 birthday, baby’s first year, travel adventures and so on) and the rule I apply is this…if my house was on fire, and I knew I could only take “x” photos with me, which would I grab? (a little dramatic yes, but hey, I need to be jolted). When it comes down to it, you always have favourites. Whenever you download a batch of photos, create a file called favourites and throw your top ten in there right away. What you’ll find is for each event, there’s that handful of pics that tell the story…capture the moments…the memories. After all, if you try to put too many into a book like this, you’ll lose the overall effect in the jumble (trust me, I’ve tried…looked like a dog’s breakfast) Another idea is to highlight each event with your top pics, then have a few pages in the back of your book with all the other photos you love, albeit much smaller without text (much like Kelle did on the “Mama’s favourite pics” pages near the end of Nella’s book) Anyway, I’m no expert but from one dreamer to the other, hope this helps! xo
Pamela says
Janita,
Thanks sooo much, I love the idea of creating a favorite file. But that leads me to the next question, do you keep the ones you don’t use in a digital album? What do you do with those, do you print them and just put them in album or a box? Thanks again for you help…I probably have 4000 pics from the past few years and I am just overwhelmed. I have only made a few books because it gets so overwhelming.
Janita says
Having a favourites file rocks! Then when you go to make your digital book, you can just go to that one file and not have to wade through everything else. Starting a book is daunting enough so adding this step helps immensely. After downloading a batch of photos, I review and delete ones that are bad/blurry (for which there are many), or if I have a series of ones that look a lot alike, I’ll scrap a few of those as well. (not many…baby steps!) As for what’s left, I mark my favourites and yes, I keep the rest. I store them all in Picasa which helps as a place to have a one-stop filing system for everything. (also, has some very cool easy editing tools, including a tool to create collages which are great for digital books) Also, from time-to-time, I back everything up on a memory stick (usually fill a 16 GB every couple of years) This way, I have everything safely stored off my computer. As for printing photos, I don’t create albums outside of the digital ones. One exception: I print the ones I want for their hard-copy baby book (The book Guess How Much I Love You captures highlights for their first 2 years, then mercifully it ends!!!) Other than that, just the ones I want framed for around the house; again, this is where that ‘ole favourites file comes in handy when you have to choose just a few to blow up and frame.
ps. Kelle, don’t you just LOVE me using your comment wall to talk about shit I know very little about? Just kidding, Pamela. I’m an expert. xo
Pamela says
Thanks for all you help, Janita!
Linda MG in Soquel, CA says
Awww, Poppa RIK, tho I , myself, have known who Brandyn, et al are for a long time, i just love how you described about STEP. Havent seen you on the comments a lot, or maybe i just havent caught them. Been missing you and your wonderful way with words, & your beautiful soul here. Just love you.. The Blog Mama~
Kurt and Tara Heath says
I have a sweet angel just like you named Jenna, she just turned two in September and we LOVE looking at your blog. The pictures are worth a thousand words!! We just got over the flu and watching Jenna was so hard, she had no idea what was happening to her little body. Last week in physical therapy she too fell asleep on her therapist, I snagged a pic too. She was just too tired to finish! Thanks for such an inspiring blog, I totally love it!
Jessie says
Sooo true! I’ve been combating morning sickness for about 6 weeks now. And even though I feel nauseous and gross, the laundry and dishes still get done and my toddler is happy. Today, my hubby came down with a slight stomach flu. It was no church and bed all day for him. Ha! I secretly patted myself on the back. π
anne. says
You go girl!
Andrea says
The book is once again Amazing and filled with love!!! Nella is just beautiful!
Stephanie says
you, my friend, are seriously super mom– that book for your sweet Nella is gorgeous! I hope I’m half the mom you are when my husband and I have children of our own!
Lindsay says
Love Nella’s two year book! I will make these books for my babies… when I have babies that is. π
Renee says
I too love the feeling of being a momma when we have to take care of the sickies. It’s amazing super woman feeling! I sure hope the flu bug has moved passed your house and everyone is feeling better!
I LOVE Nella’s photobook!! What a great idea!
Anna says
Your blog is one of the most beautiful ones. I can’t wait until I can buy your book.
I don’t know how you do it, but you always seem to catch “the” spark in your pictures.
Cheers from Australia
Anna
Gretchen says
Oh my goodness…your birthday books that you make for each year are AMAZING! If I ever have children I am going to steal this idea!
Christa Forsythe says
I find it truly amazing how much love I feel for my kiddos when they are sick… I can cuddle, rock, hug, wipe/clean, and kiss them all night long … and only feel privileged and delighted to be there Momma! Hope all feel better SOON!
Stephanie says
Someone may have already said this, but Google “Man Cold”. You’ll find a hilarious youtube video by that name. You’d appreciate it.
Emily says
You simply MUST watch this video clip on the ‘man cold’ because it is exactly what you are talking about!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VbmbMSrsZVQ
(youtube ‘man stroke woman man cold’ if it doesn’t work). Hope everyone feels better and looking forward to Nella’s 2nd!
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Ashley says
Nella’s book is precious, as is she!
http://mylittlehappies.blogspot.com says
Her book is gorgeous! You did an amazing job and these books are definitely something your girls are going to treasure! We did a formal tea in NYC for my daughter’s first birthday and it was so fun–just my mom, my girl and myself. We wore big hats and decided to make an annual tradition of it. Nothing better for a little girl! π
~Shari says
Oh My Gosh! I am so your newest follower on Instagram! *happy dance*
I am sharifox I’m just saying. π
Kimberly says
Girl, how do you do it? I swear if I had just an ounce of your positive energy and talent…you are amazing. You totally inspire me.
Kristen says
Wow…you actually make the stomach flu sound like something I miss now that my kids are relatively grown and no longer need their mama to hold their hair back!
Tenille says
What an AMAZING keepsake for Nella!!! I love it!!
Tiffany@FindingK says
i love her book! I also have started an annual book for our little girl. And a gparents book which we will give for xmas.
Jules says
That book is simply amazing! And what an incredible keepsake for your girls to have when the grow up. You are talented beyond words!
Bevin says
Kelle I have a question about BLOOM! I pre-ordered a copy for my Kindle. Will the photos you include in the book be available on Kindle? Will they be in color on the ebook versions? This may be a question for your publisher but I can’t be the only one wondering. I cannot wait to read it!!
Angel On The Run says
HAPPY BIRTHDAY NELLA!!!
joyjoy. says
π but in case you wonder why men are suck sissies when they are sick-they don’t have as many white blood cells. so they actually feel sicker than us as well as have to try twice as hard to overcome infections….. so be easy on hom π
joyjoy. says
*such
heather says
Oh my gosh! I had this link saved in my bookmarks so I could get ideas for my kids’ scrapbooks. I just looked through Nella’s book again. Seriously beautiful and amazing! What a treasure forever! xo