Enjoying the Small Things

Enjoying the Small Things

$20 Thrift Store Valentine’s Challenge

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It’s been a long time since I’ve done a thrifting challenge and with Valentine’s Day coming up, I thought it would be a good time for some thrifting fun. I invited my friend and master thrifter, Nici from Dig This Chick, to do the challenge with me. My friend Nici lives in Missoula, Montana, land of the good thrift stores. Our southwest Florida thrift stores feel a bit like graveyards of overpriced Tuscan furniture and a lot of outdated summer florals. But Nici’s always scoring amazing finds, so Valentine Challenge on.

Here’s how it goes. We each have $20 to create as many Valentine looks as we can using items we thrift. Valentine’s Day can be interpreted however we please: red, pink, lace, hearts, romantic ruffles, home goods, clothes, whatever.

Here’s what my $20 got me…three complete looks!

Look 1:  A Victoria’s Secret 1-piece silk pajama romper–pink with red piping and a cute cinched waist with a red bow. I love the ruffle edge on the shorts. Price: $3.99. I admit, it felt a little like I was buying used lingerie, but I got over it fast after I washed it and saw how cute it was.

Look 2: Candy stripe button-up silk shirt (I love this shirt and have already worn it three times!) Price: $3.99. I added a pink neck bow, naturally. Gap chambray cotton twill pants Price $3.99. 

Look 3: Pink cotton/linen blend shirt dress. Price: $7.99. As soon as I saw this, I knew it needed some colored tights. I love how “Valentiney” it got when I added the belt, tights and boots.

Nici’s Looks.
She went a wee bit over the $20, but if I lived in Montana and had all the great thrifting options she does, I’d go over too.

Look 1: Thrifted handmade apron (I’m obsessed with this!) and four gingham heart napkins. Price for all: $8

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Look 2: TWO shirts: Madewell denim shirt (Price: $8) and a men’s Woolrich thick flannel shirt.

Look 3: Valentine Floral on Floral. Blouse: $5, H&M pants: $6. (her scarf and denim shirt are also thrifted)

I have found that, at least for me, thrifting feels more a lot fun when there’s a specific challenge. Otherwise, I get a little overwhelmed when I’m rifling through endless stuff with no purpose. And I think what I love most about this challenge is that all three of our looks are so US! And the pictures are so Florida/Montana–ha!

Any suggestions for next challenge theme?

Our Top Ten Hall of Fame Children’s Books

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It’s been a while since I’ve done a round up of favorite children’s literature, and I’m definitely due for gathering some new titles I’ve recently been introduced to that have joined our library. That post is coming. But I thought I’d do something a little different and definitely more difficult today–a collection of my Ultimate Ten. If I could only choose only ten picture books to keep, these are the ones I’d save. I’ll be honest, writing this post felt like a response to someone asking me to pick my favorite child. It’s a silly question you simply cannot answer. And if you dig into what books are not on this list, then yes–I’ve committed children’s literary blasphemy. No Maurice Sendak or Dr. Seuss or even some of my other beloveds like Marla Frazee. There are important social themes some of our favorite picture books deal with that aren’t on this list as well as genres that didn’t make the cut–poetry, non fiction, etc. But these ten are the ones we return to the most, the classics in our home, the ones that have survived our many book purges and will remain part of our collection forever because they represent my kids’ childhood, and the words and photos in them make me come alive when I’m turning the pages.

Children’s picture books are one of my favorite things in the world, and I will never not have an abundance of them in our home, even after the kids are grown. I buy them just as much for me as I do the kids. Some people collect snow globes or music boxes or valuable coins. I collect kids’ books–for their stories, for their illustrations and for the way these two things come together to create magic in the minds of little kids and bigs alike.

A few on this list may switch out with others in coming years, but for now this is it. With no further ado…the Hall of Fame:

1. Today
I’ve included this book on lists before, but it has risen to the top as my kids’ most loved book to read. Even Lainey will come sit with us when I’m reading it to the little kids because everyone loves what this book invites us to do…choose things. Of course it helps that the delightful pictures in this book are illustrated by one of my favorite children’s book illustrators, Julie Morstad (I think we have every book she’s illustrated); or that the entire concept of the story is finding joy in ordinary everyday routines. But what my kids love best is taking their time to carefully examine every page spread to make their selection in response to the questions the book poses: What hairstyle would you wear today? Where should we go? What should we eat for breakfast? What pajamas would you choose to wear tonight? The gorgeous illustrations present a buffet of selections, and my kids’ process of choosing is long and drawn out but an absolute joy to watch. Above spread? I’d choose the jeans, stripe tee (obvi), red puddle boots and that flower crown for kicks.

2. All the Places to Love
I discovered this book when I was taking Children’s Literature in college and did a project on Patricia MacLachlan. I fell in love with it then and knew I wanted this book in my classroom and in my home library for my kids someday. Mike Wimmer’s paintings are warm and dreamy and pull you right back to the world of childhood. The story begins with a little boy’s baby sister being born (in a charming farmhouse bedroom with a quilt on the bed and sun streaming in the window–I can’t) and follows with him thinking about all his favorite places he wants to show her someday so that she loves them like he does. In our copy of the book, I keep a list of what those places are for our family from our Isles of Capri to the dock at the lake in Michigan, but we continue to add places as we experience new memories together. I love to buy this book for baby showers as well and write a letter in the front about what this book means to us and how we love to share it.

3. All the Ways to Be Smart
This book was published in the UK last year, and I scrounged the Internet and paid overseas shipping to get my hands on a copy (you can buy it on Amazon now). The theme of the book is so important and perhaps what I am most passionate about in today’s world of education. Being smart doesn’t mean doing well on tests. Or just being good at science or math or the limited little scope our schools measure. Being smart is SO MUCH MORE than that from being good at drawing and telling imaginative stories to knowing how to offer kindness to people who are hurting. I teared up on the first page the first time I read it to Dash and Nella: “I can’t wait to share with you how smart you are the whole day through…” In today’s world with all the insecurities and comparisons school can bring this book is a MUST HAVE for every little’s library.

4. Kiki & Coco in Paris (as well as its sister book, Lulu & Pip)
The photography in these books is pure heaven and every time I recommend them to a friend (and I’ve recommended it to many), they text me later, “Oh my God, this book! I can’t stop looking at the pictures!”.  The stories both follow the sweet adventures of a girl and her doll. We love these books so much, we did a project to recreate the theme in our own version, Nella & Maude (…and just finished Dash & Snowflake this past weekend for his birthday).

5. When You Were Small
I love all of Sara O’Leary’s books, but if I had to pick only one to keep, I think this would be it. Julie Morstad illustrated this one as well (yay!). A little boy who can’t remember what it was like when he was tiny asks his dad to tell him, and his dad’s imaginative stories that follow are so charming. “When you were small, we let you sleep in one of my slippers–the left one. You used a fuzzy wash cloth for a blanket and a tea bag for a pillow.”

6. Let’s Go Home: The Wonderful Things About a House
Again, I could have put several of Cynthia Rylant’s books on this list, but this one is my favorite and in keeping with that beloved theme of finding joy in our ordinary lives. This book takes a deep dive into our cozy homes and dissects each and every room and the magic that happens there, from toy-filled bathtubs made for long bubble baths in the bathroom to the best room in the house, the kitchen, where yummy things are baked and friends sit and talk. Think quilts and cinnamon rolls and cozy fires and lemonade with friends on the front porch–the best things in life.

7. Little Bear
I couldn’t leave off some classics on this list, and Little Bear is one we all love. It’s the first book I read all by myself as a kid (I remember it well–on a vacation to Tawas, Michigan), and I love that the simple text makes it a great book for early readers.

8. The Tale of Peter Rabbit Collection
Another classic, the Peter Rabbit books are what childhood is made of. In all three of my babies’ nurseries, these books were proudly displayed. The names of the characters alone–Jemima Puddleduck, Tabitha Twitchet, Mrs. Tiggy-winkle–are about the most delightful things to roll off your tongue. These stories are timeless and happy and full of adventures that make kids laugh. It’s kittens in pinafores and geese in bonnets, and how can that not make you feel good? B

9. Amelia Bedelia
One of my favorite humor books for kids! How has this not been made into a funny family movie yet? Get on it, Jennifer Garner! (love her family movies) Amelia Bedelia is a housekeeper who literally interprets phrases in the English language to yield hilarious scenarios (she dresses a chicken in baby clothes).

10. Stellaluna
Our copy is one I had to pay a purchase fine for years ago because I lost it after I checked it out from the library. I finally found it and only wish all our books were purchased this way because it has the crinkly plastic library cover on it which makes a lovely sound when you’re turning the pages, and the pages are weathered from all the other children who checked it out. Dash brings this book to me a lot; and every time I read it, he expresses great concern for the baby bat who was separated from his mama, even though he knows how the story ends.

Honorable Mention: Mrs. Muddle’s Holidays
The only reason I didn’t include this book in my top ten is because it’s out of print, hard to find, and I know you’ll click on it and want it and be disappointed when you see the out-of-print price. I love Mrs. Muddle and refer to her often in my real life. I want to be her. She’s an old lady who brings joy to her neighborhood by making up holidays for everything and celebrating life to the fullest. She hosts neighborhood puddle jumping parties to celebrate the First Shower of April, invites children to her house to watch earthworm races for Earthworm Appreciation Day, holds a neighborhood skating parade to commemorate the Birthday of the Inventor of the Roller Skate and hides presents from the “Leaf Fairy” for kids to find under big piles of leaves to celebrate fall. At the end of the story, the kids surprise her with a big party for the one holiday she didn’t know about–the one they made up for her, Mrs. Muddle Appreciation Day. See–don’t you want the book now?

Do You Change Out Your Pillow?

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This post is sponsored by The Pillow Club.
When it comes to finding things Brett will love, there are two indicators that make something an immediate win–if it has to do with sleep, or if it has to do with anything that cuts down germs. These are his most notable quirky passions, so much that they’ve become a bit of a family joke. Searching for the perfect gift for him, my sister once called and said, “I was thinking maybe a sleep mask, some hand sanitizer and Clorox wipes–think he’ll like it?” Brett is passionate about good sleep–so much that every room in our house is equipped with sound machines and, in ours, room darkening curtains. He believes sleep is the foundation of a good day, and he’s as passionate about the entire family getting good sleep as he is about his own. Then there’s the germs. Good God, what this man has done to protect himself from germs. He once saw a restaurant show that revealed how dirty draft beer dispensers are and how they harbor germs, and he’s never ordered a draft beer since. He has an electric ultrasonic sanitizer for his phone. He waited two weeks to set up a date after the first time we met because he heard I had a cold. Getting a clear picture here?
That said, you can imagine my smile when The Pillow Club approached me to see if their Core Pillow-a pillow designed around the concept of better uninterrupted sleep and eliminating pillow germ buildup–was a good fit for our family. Are you kidding me? Brett’s going to love this baby.
Here’s how it works:
We spend about a third of our lives sleeping–that’s roughly eight hours a day in bed with our heads on our pillows. We upgrade our cars, our homes, our furniture; we rearrange things, we tidy things, we switch things out. But for spending so many hours a day with our heads on our pillows, how often do we think about switching out our pillow? Not the pillowcase, but the actual pillow. Think about it. We smash it down with the weight of our heads night after night. We breathe into it. We cough into it. We might even drool into it. Our pillows harbor all sorts of dust and germs that can cause allergies, acne, etc. How often do you switch out your pillow for a new one?
The Pillow Club, like Brett, cares about sleep and germs too. They designed their Core Pillow so you’re not stacking, folding and adjusting your pillow throughout the night to get it just right.
It’s the first pillow that isolates an actual support layer in the center of the pillow to create the perfect blend of soft and firm. You sink into the soft outer layer (which takes pressure off of your body ensuring you don’t toss and turn) while you settle into the Flow foam support (which ensures you never have to stack, fold or adjust your pillow while you sleep).
And since you, like everyone else, are probably too busy helping with long division and maintaining that New Year’s meal planning resolution to think about things like when you should switch out your pillow, The Pillow Club does it for you and makes having luxury pillow replaced when they’re ready (they recommend every 6-12 months) affordable and convenient. When you sign up for The Pillow Club, you get two pillows delivered to your door every year for just $10/month (that’s 40% off their buy outright price).
Members then have the option of shipping back their old Pillow Club pillow, and TPC will rewrap the pillow in an outdoor waterproof cover and donate the used pillows to animal shelters as dog beds. Friday is very in favor of this.
I’m very picky with pillows and have to say, this pillow is super comfortable and supportive.

But we all know, the real tester of anything sleep related in our home is Brett, and he put his stamp of approval on this baby.

“Anything you want me to add to this post?” I ask as I’m finishing this.

“Tell them it’s flu season. Wash your hands.”

Want to try The Pillow Club subscription? Use code HAMPTON50, and you’ll receive your first 2 pillows for only $10 (that’s 50% off!).

Sweet Dreams.