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Rain

February 12, 2011 By Kelle

In the sun, I move quickly. Energized by its warmth and promise of outdoor activities, I sense the needle of my capability monitor creeping upward, and I often misjudge where it stops, convincing myself that an extra dose of Vitamin D means Do More. On a hot day we change our clothes once, twice, maybe three times, trading t-shirts for tank tops, tank tops for bathing suits, bathing suits for t-shirts. My mind reels erratically–as it has instinctively done since I was young–thinking of all the things we can do. We can run in the sprinkler. We can walk to the lake. We can trace our bodies with sidewalk chalk. And maybe we can do them all at the same time, like one of those one-man bands, blowing a harmonica, beating his drum and banging his cymbals all at once. I like that the sun is a good friend where we live–that it motivates and empowers me.

But–yes, but–the see-saw must shift its balance from time to time and, for this reason, I crave the calm that a good snow day brings. I miss the way my mind and body settled when, waking up to the swirl and whirl of a good blizzard, I knew there was nothing I could do but relax. Lainey loves to play storm. “Let’s pretend a storm is coming,” she says, and we run under the coffee table, covering ourselves with blankets, mimicking the sound of whistling wind and crowding our bodies closer. Her eyes get big and I, in turn, pretend to get excited. And there’s something…I don’t know…cozy about it all.

I say this not to complain about our bare feet and hatless heads in February, but to preface the good welcome of yesterday’s rain. An entire day of gray skies, slick reflective pavement and the calming hum of steady rain, whispering Do Less.

We did less. And it was good.

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Rain accumulation on our screen.

A quick escape for first year well visit and thankful to have just that…a well baby.

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Busy bee tries to swipe everything from Dr. Foley.

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She does “So Big” about a 100 times a day, her “baby shows off” weapon of choice for new friends.

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…perhaps my favorite picture of her ever:

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And returning home for more rain…

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…and our only Do Less disclaimer was that we baked. A tiny kid-sized cherry pie. We left the dirty dishes though…to abide by the whole Do Less rules, of course.

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My mom always used the leftover pie crust to roll out, sprinkle with cinnamon sugar and bake 15 minutes for cinnamon crust…divinity with a cold glass of milk, I must say.

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And, in keeping with the coziness of a good rain post, our new sponsor, Blanket My Baby, has an incredible collection of baby blankets and bedding to choose from. Lainey has always had her favorite puppy blanket, and I’ve been looking for a small one to become Nella’s favorite. We may have it here with her new Lovey Blanket. (look under handmade blankets for super cute prints for boys too!) Use Coupon Code “ENJOY10” for 10% off your entire order.

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It’s raining again this morning, and there’s an old movie with thick British accents calling my name. A Do Less weekend.

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Happy Weekend!

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Beach Night.

February 10, 2011 By Kelle

The gulf was wild tonight.

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Its waters somersaulting and aimlessly slapping the tide leaving a thin white foam that hissed and fizzed in the pink light of a setting sun.

Heidi and the kids joined us. Because I know Heidi’s just like me. These kinds of things go down best when they are unplanned, when thirty seconds after I have the itch to taste salty air and feel sand beneath my feet, I call her with a “Beach. Now. You in?” and she doesn’t hesitate a second before buckling her kids in the car and burning rubber, heading west.

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It was still and calm, and you couldn’t help but be moved by watching our three willowy ones brave the chilly waters, flailing their arms and swinging their legs like interpretive dancers.

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Or the cautious curiosity of the littlest one, timidly raking the sand, pulling her knees to her chest to keep her feet from getting wet, cradling her tiny baby doll to keep her safe, a far cry from her usual bullied babysitting techniques. But she was happy. Always happy.

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I’ve never been to a sunset yet on this beach where there wasn’t an enthusiastic crowd of seniors gathered to cheer on a bocce game. A different crowd every time but always the same place–hugged along the edge of the boardwalk. Their skin is tanned, their smiles white and handsome, and without fail, someone is wearing a flat cap. Buona Sera!

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For once, I didn’t really think tonight. No sunset ponderings. Not even the smacked-in-the-face realization of “I love this moment” which happens a lot for me. It was just still and peaceful and so very carefree. It was good…that thoughtless state of relaxation that must come periodically to recharge our senses.

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My friend Julie got me these Hunters for my birthday, and I adore them. I told Julie I liked hers and she went and got me a pair. Note to Self: Tell Julie you like her car.

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And I love that when I’m with Heidi, there is no pressure to talk or perform or catch up, even though we do that every morning on the phone. We just exist, happily together, swapping kids, brushing sand, ssshing babies…but completely aware of each other’s presence. Plus, she always remembers to bring snacks for my kids which is more than I can say.

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However, I did tell her I’d help take care of her kids if she went to jail for launching this rocket on a public beach.

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Thankfully, after getting the kids all excited about it and admonishing beach pedestrians to “step away, step away”, neither one of us knew how to work it and a bottle of vinegar, a box of baking soda and an embarrassing conversation with a guy who tried to help us later, this thing did nothing but leak a bunch of vinegar and stink up the beach. A big fat dud. The bonus of course being Heidi didn’t go to jail.

But the rest? Oh, it was good. It was very good indeed.

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Happy to announce…

Poulin’s back. Ready to attack.
Yup, renewing sponsor Mark Poulin‘s got some awesome new stuff in his shop.
His handmade metal and enamel jewelry is fun, quirky and destined to become a conversation piece. He’s an amazing artist, and I’m thrilled to have him on board again. (Check out his city rings!)

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That is all tonight.

Sweet Dreams.

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Enjoying the Small Things Encore and a Healthy Dose of Swear Guilt

February 8, 2011 By Kelle

This is how it starts.

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It’s called slippage, my Friends. The unattended slow decline of a room that was once clean. It’s a critical stage this slippage is, a fine line between capable of restoration and destined for disaster. Unrecognized, it could exponentially worsen. And it wouldn’t be the first time three books, a wadded sock, a lone boot, a winter vest, the tag ripped off a new bra and an inside-out pair of underwear transformed overnight to the back of Sanford and Sons’ truck. I’m just sayin’.

And while I would love to weave this little ditty into some beautiful post with applicable truths about pulling our shit together, I got nothin’. Nothin’ except a call from my dad in about–oh, twenty-two minutes–about not swearing on my blog (last time, seriously). What I really want to say is I had this storm of contemplations this weekend–the kind of inner dialogue that would have spurred good conversation in a circle of friends where both fervent likemindedness and passionate rebuttals would have spurred further good conversation. But alas, I was not in a circle of friends but rather deliberating motherhood, God’s existence, cloth diapers, canned food, the presence of fear, pleasing others, pre-K, homeschooling, the state of the Union and Christina Aguilera’s Superbowl performance all by myself while I attempted to put away laundry and sort through Lainey’s old 2T clothes. Apparently I didn’t get to the vest and lone boot in the bedroom.

Anyway, I used up all my good stuff on fake conversations in my head. With that said, I’m calling it a night with another Enjoying-the-Small-Things post because, seriously…can you enjoy them too much? Small things are like McDonald’s fries, cheesy popcorn, beach sunsets…there’s no such thing as too many.

So…

The Shadow Hunter.
I laughed just typing that. Because it’s the funniest little quirk she has. She’s obsessed with shadows…will spot the smallest sliver of light from a mile away and boot-scoot her way over to it as quick as lightning just to make her shadows.

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Let’s Play Friends.
It is Lainey’s most favorite thing to do. “Let’s Play Friends.” And it involves two stuffed animals and her mimicking their voices with this high-pitched Muppet-sounding squeak that makes me stifle laughter every time. It always starts with the same line: “Hi, what’s your name? You wanna be friends?” No one’s ever said that to her and I sure as hell haven’t heard my shy girl say it to anyone else, but still…it’s such a cool thing. I forget what my child development classes said this all means, but I’m pretty sure it’s some important stage of growing up where my three-year-old is becoming socially aware and more compassionate and all that good stuff. To me, it’s just another opportunity to sit and stare and be amazed that this little doe-eyed wonder belongs to me and that I get to watch her line up stuffed bears and shaggy dogs and peep out made-up conversations for a long time. And clarification: I just read this to Brett and he said he taught Lainey how to say “Hi, let’s be friends.” Glad we got that out of the way.

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Saggy Tights.
I like ’em. That is all.

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Fair Weather
I literally pulled one of these cheesy moves today. Because the sky was ten shades of blue, the wind was in a really good mood, and the sun combined with the sweet smell of grass and echoing wind chimes for one high-on-life February cocktail.

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The bonus of nice weather? The thrill of it works like beer goggles. ‘Cuz I looked out my backyard and actually thought the pathetic dry remains of Nella’s party arbor and our irresponsibility in letting it sit out there for two weeks transformed to something pretty.

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The backyard just wanted to give the lone boot and bra tags in my bedroom a run for their money.

Fair Weather Things
If fair weather makes me high on life, then the fun things you do in fair weather make me…hmmm…what trumps high-on-life?

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Standing Attempts…
…make her feel all triumphant and proud.

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And then she squints her eyes and smiles all Winston Churchill-like which makes me scoop her up and squish that little marshmallow as close as I can get her. Punch-drunk love, Baby. Makes me all slap-happy and filled up. And I can’t get enough.

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Being Present.

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It will be a repeated declaration here, something I will continue to remind myself to do by typing the words, and I’ll feel good just by saying it. I’ll celebrate triumphantly when I’ve had a nice stretch of days completely aware and undistracted and yet I know I’ll have days where I’ll feel guilty for multi-tasking and spending too much time checking e-mails or planning what we’ll do next. I think the see-saw of being fully present and reminding myself to be is good though.

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I know I will always thrive on projects and people and having lots of things going on in my life…part of that makes me a better mom, I really believe it, and I want to model for my girls the amazing satisfaction having hobbies, fulfilling passions and helping others brings to life.

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But I think that tiny uncomfortable feeling of guilt that arises when we feel we could have done better is good too. Because what follows it is the best of the best, Baby–the full-dose, the first fruits. If we’ve already arrived, we have no place to go. But if we, for just a moment, feel like we might have slipped, how amazing are those next efforts, eh?

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My sister and I recently discussed the presence of fear because it seems everyone wants to be fearless these days. Don’t get me wrong–I want to be a badass. But, as my sister said, “A little bit of fear is good. Without it, we’d get into a lot of trouble.” I thought about it, and she’s right. Fear and guilt and all those bad emotions we think we, as moms, are supposed to detox out aren’t always so bad. Sometimes they govern good. And, while I ultimately seek a beautiful world of balance, until then, I will use a good occasional dose of guilt to propel me to deliver the best of the best. Ebb and Flow. One step back and three badass steps forward.

(and if you put fearless as your word, don’t feel bad…I want to be fearless too!)

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And that brings me to the end here, and I’m sorry to say, Dad, I swore a few times. I don’t know what my problem is tonight. I’ll clean up my act. I’ll use my swear guilt to fuel a nice clean post next time around. The best of the best…I promise.

To make up for it, some giveaway winners. Winners, please e-mail your contact deets to kellehamptonblog@comcast.net.

*Timeless Settings $50 gift certificate winner, Comment#18: Rojas Family: Beautiful post. I love the look on Lainey’s face when she’s holding Nella. It made me chuckle

And two Lisa Leonard Designs $50 gift certificate Winners:

*Comment #1410, p.o.s.h.: AUDACIOUS 🙂 love the giveaway!!! and the blog…as always. ~CC
*Comment #2382, riversnake: My word of the year is “imperfect” because I need to stop setting myself up to such high standards and instead start loving myself imperfections and all! So, I bet you can guess which piece I’ll be getting if I win. ~ Jill


Renewing Sponsor Bambaroos Boutique (the cute flower headbands the girls wear) has an awesome Valentine’s Day special going on right now too. Check it out HERE.

Leaving you with some of your “words of the year” I so enjoyed.

Settled ~Kelly
Changed ~Tera
Celebrate ~Autumn
Forward ~Beachbum 0407
Purposeful ~Bonnie Spear
Triumphant ~Debbie T
Simplify ~Tara
Passion ~Linda T
Today ~Brown-Eyed Mama
Resilient ~Erin
Authenticity ~Emma

Have a great week.

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