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Enjoying: Spring Foreplay

February 23, 2016 By Kelle

I stumbled upon an old post I wrote exactly five years ago when someone tweeted it for spring the other day. Stirred up some springish goodness, so here. An excerpt:

It feels like Spring here. Like Warm and Cool have exchanged vows in a beautiful blue-skied ceremony and have brought forth a love child who dwells right here, right now. She is splendid, this love child, and she brings with her breezes that send our curtains fluttering and call the babies outside.

And since most of the country still has a snowy hump to summit before surveying blue skies and blooming crocus, I will bring you Spring. I’m a good sharer, so you can have some of ours.

I remember two main times in my life when I think of Spring. One was about seven years old. I remember our neighborhood, the kids who thought 55 degrees meant shorts and jelly shoes and the adults who washed their cars in their driveway when you could still see your breath. I remember picking out Easter dresses, new white tights and black patent leather shoes I’d lose a week later.

The other memories are much clearer as it was more recent. I lived with my grandparents when I attended college. In a small blue house on Dorothy Lane in a town known for two things–its Free Methodist church and its Free Methodist college. The juxtaposition of a young girl trying to find her place in the world living with her eighty-some-year-old grandparents very secure with theirs was interesting and made for a very enlightening, nostalgic and sculpting-of-the-soul experience. Regardless, I’ll never forget a Spring Arbor, Michigan Spring. How the amaryllis my dad gave my grandma every Christmas finally bloomed and how my grandma would call him up to tell him. How snow melting off the deck swing meant it was time to tidy up, pull the grill out, place pads on outdoor chairs. I remember bright yellow forsythia blooms were the first to show their colors against the gray leftovers of winter and how they signaled yard work and longer walks with Koko, the one-eyed cocker spaniel. Spring meant a good cleaning–the smell of Barkeeper’s Friend, a glossy finish on the gold linoleum, a switch-out of grandkids’ pictures in frames. Spring meant I’d attempt to clean all the crap that had multiplied over winter in the back seat of my teal Ford Escort wagon with the duct-taped fender, a.k.a. “The Staysh”, because it was the one thing I owned and cleaning it gave me a sense of control even though it didn’t really matter if it was clean or not.

And now, I merge the past with the present in my love of Spring. I plan my girls’ Easter dresses, search out some good jelly shoes, and slip a can of Barkeeper’s Friend in my grocery cart…for old time’s sake.

Insert spring goodness I was enjoying five years ago. Which brings me to a few things: What did I do with those clogs? I miss my bike. I need to bake something. Easter gloves are everything. BABY NELLA!

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These seasonal mood cycles are predictable now. I could write that same paragraph today, inspired by fluttering curtains, Easter dress dreams and memories of fresh mopped linoleum floors. Pastel seersucker is on its way, and spring cleaning is in the works. In the meantime, we’ve been enjoying…

Beach dates with our pals.
We go right from the school parking lot to the nearest sand and stay until dinner time. And we say “Let’s do this more often” while we watch little footprints get washed away.

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A quick trip to the windy city…
…to be pleasantly welcomed by sunshine and bearable temps.

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These little birds though.

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Valentine breakfast.
You should know I scraped off about 7 weird-shaped blobs before scoring with these perfect hearts.

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New spring chalk.

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His pleas to be in the driver’s seat.
…in the car, in life.

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Watching Nella run to Gary to ask him to play basketball because he did it once before and that’s all it takes to seal a memory and earn a reputation.

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Tiny teenagers.

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Pet store excursions.
We go a lot. To watch the dogs get haircuts, slip our fingers through cage slats to pet the kittens and to pick out the prettiest fish.

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Driveways covered with toys.

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Chocolate malt and cheese fry dates.
…
and glimpses of sister admiration.

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Picking the park less traveled so we could have it to ourselves.

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Toddlers who help with spring cleaning.

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Another day, clean slates, fresh, new…possibility.

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Let’s go in like a lion next week and then smooth it out with an even-tempered but highly productive lamb that bleats a happy chorus all through spring.

 

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Enjoying: Monday

February 1, 2016 By Kelle

I thought I was acing it this morning when I lit my candle for my morning intentions and started the coffee pot, my Monday off on the right foot. But then I went to make lunches and realized my “I can stretch the groceries one more day” assumption yesterday was a poor choice. My mom can do it–transform flour, water and a spoonful of leftover vegetables from last night’s dinner into a gourmet chicken pot pie that feeds 20. I never inherited the Domestic Jesus gene though and haven’t quite figured out how to turn our “loaves and fishes” into school lunches. Stretching it one more day for me means I’m smearing dried-out cream cheese on random things I find in my pantry and calling it a sandwich. Or plucking as many half-withered grapes I can find off a dried-up cluster and willing them to perk up with some rinsing. Quite likely, this all ends up with opening the kids’ lunchboxes at the end of the day to find everything I packed still in place, untouched. “I didn’t like the hard roll,” Lainey will report, which I’m guessing she’s referring to the old clementine I found at the bottom of the vegetable drawer. Here’s the thing about “stretched it one more day” lunches. The day after always reaps the best lunches in the history of motherhood. Because the second after I drop the kids off at school on sad lunch days, I’m at the grocery store, filling my cart with Best Lunch Ever treats, promising to get a more consistent grocery shopping routine and become a better mother.

All that to say, it’s amazing how quickly you can go from having everything together to feeling like everything’s falling apart. In a matter of minutes, candles and intentions to shoddy lunches and sarcastic snap-backs: “I’m not the only one who’s in charge of grocery shopping, you know. You could pick up a few things too.” There is no limit to our do-overs in parenting though, and so far at 1:00 p.m. today, we’ve started our Monday six times. Outlook: Sunny. Pantry: Stocked.

Cushioning all our start-agains are the sweet small things. Lately, we’ve been enjoying…

Florida’s finest weather…
Lots of happy Florida snowbirds right now, basking in the best this state has to offer. When we’re missing family in the Midwest, these days are our bargaining power for getting them down for visits.

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Salty dogs with my dad…
…
who’s officially retired and lives ten minutes away now.

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Pajama donut breakfast at the park, post sleepover.
Five kids, all who were up at 6 on a Sunday morning.

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Finding Nella wearing one of Lainey’s long dresses. Every day.

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A little space freshen-up, thanks to a can of yellow paint and some picture rearranging.
(Also I’m wondering how many days of quote switch-outs I have before I use up all my favorite You’ve Got Mail and Dead Poet’s Society quotes on our new letter board.)

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Snout Love.

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Some afternoon yoga.

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Duck Duck Goose

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These #$&*ing skates.
He wants to wear them all the time–thinks they’re so funny. As if skates weren’t dangerous enough, try wearing them 5 sizes too big.

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Anyone else’s kid think it’s so funny to lick your face when you ask for a kiss?

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A little pre-Valentine creative expression.

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Happy New Week, friends. Feel free to start over when needed.

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(several asked on Instagram: Moon Phase garland found here.)

 

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Enjoying

January 18, 2016 By Kelle

I fell off the New Year’s Enthusiasm & Motivation bike and am currently doctoring scrapes and convincing myself to get back up and keep riding. Happens every year, we’ll get there. In the meantime, a collection of recently enjoyed ordinary moments.

Enjoying:

This little friendship.
“My best friend,” Nella says whenever we talk about Ivy.

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Heidi and I swap kids a lot during the week so they can play together. Play dates usually begin with a closet upheaval while they try on 8-10 different outfits. Play dates usually end with parents digging through upheaval to find the original clothes their kid came in.

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Dash and the Green Car.
He drives it like a real car. Even props his elbow over the seat while he leans around to check behind him while he backs up. It’s the funniest thing to watch. Nella doesn’t like to drive it, but she loves to ride with Dash. He takes her on a lot of car dates where I watch them drive off, thinking “What is happening here?” These cars for kids are nothing but confusion for moms already facing time slipping away too quickly.

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Sweaters at the Beach
We finally got a good stretch of cold front (the heat’s running today!) and have been wearing lots of sweaters lately. I love the beach this time of year–a little quieter, colder, but so special for early morning walks…with sweaters. You know that fortune cookie game where you add “in bed” at the end of all your fortunes (not that I’ve played it or anything, but I know some people–some really immature people–who’ve played it). Add “with sweaters” to anything, and it’s better.

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Weekending Outdoors
As much as I miss the cozy vibes of a Midwest winter and swoon over snow scene pictures this time of year, I am so appreciative of the 2 seconds it takes to find a pair of flip-flops for an afternoon outside rather than the 20-minute assembly line of mittens, snow pants, hat, scarf, boots. We enjoyed one warm day tucked in our cold front this week which called for a hose shower and popsicles.

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First Tooth Lost.
We don’t know where it is or how she lost it but alas, she smiled one morning with a sweet new gap.

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I can’t believe she’s almost six.

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Stripes on Stripes.

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Weekend Vibes.

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