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Everything We Need for Back to School and a Best Backpacks Round-Up

August 7, 2019 By Kelle

We are back to school next week, so this week is dedicated to all the preparation for a smooth start. I nest for back to school like a third trimester pregnant woman, stocking the homework cart, the refrigerator, the pantry; organizing the drawers, the backpack closet, the desk space. We choose first day of school outfits (round-ups coming later this week), backpacks and new tennis shoes with passion, and I fuss over silly little details like finding the cutest backpack charms as if it matters because when you’re starting something new and dealing with little fears as a kid, everything matters. On Lainey’s first day of kindergarten, I scoured our entire city–all day long–for the most perfect pair of kindergarten sneakers as an emotional escape to big life transitions. We all have our way of figuring things out–mine tends to involve new shoes.

I’ve been doing the back-to-school thing now for seven years, and it never fails to excite me–the smell of freshly sharpened pencils, the thrill of Meet the Teacher night, the sight of little backpacks lined against the wall on the night before the first day. Seven years in, I’ve also acquired several hacks–tips and tricks to make the school year easier and mornings smoother as well as some products we love that we use every day for school.

1 – Continuous Spray Water Bottle and Wet Brush
This spray bottle is a lifesaver for all the kids’ hair in the morning. It wets it with a continuous spray to smooth out the flyaways and makes doing hair so much easier. I drop a few drops of lice prevention essential oils in ours (I use rosemary and lavender) which also makes it smell good. The wet brush is the best brush for removing tangles. If you do morning hair in the kitchen, store a basket of hair essentials in a kitchen drawer for easy access.
2 – Minted Labels
We buy these every year (unless we have leftover from the year before), and they are wonderful for labeling lunch boxes, water bottles, etc. They stay on in the dishwasher too and peel off easily when you want to switch them out.
3 – Fit & Fresh Soft Ice Packs
These ice packs won’t leak or break and, because they’re soft and flexible, fit into lunch boxes better than the hard bulky ones. Also–sweatproof nylon!
4 – Retro Backpack Charms
Such a cute way to personalize backpacks and add a little fun. This set comes with a bunch to choose from, so you can switch out charms as often as you like.

5 – Best Lunch Box Ever book and Little Bento Box idea book
It’s every school lunch-making mom’s dream–so many creative lunch ideas in one place with inspiring pictures and grocery shopping help!

6 – Squirrel Pocket Hand Sanitizer Holder Clip  or Barking Hot Dog Holder Clip
A cute way to have hand sanitizer close by at school as kids enter the germfest again–backpack clips that hold pocket size hand sanitizers (or “hanitizer” as Dash calls it) from Bath & Body Works. They clip right in. Back to school calls for this Fall Traditions Hand Sanitizer Set.

7 – 6-pack Dance Shorts
Nella loves wearing skirts to school but doesn’t think twice about making sure her undies don’t show. She’s going into third grade and to protect her dignity and make sure we don’t give her an unneeded reason for kids to poke fun, I make sure she has a stash of privacy shorts for skirt days.
8 – Green Savvy Reusable Snack Bags
Great environment-friendly alternative to sandwich bags. They’re durable, cute and can be washed and reused over and over.
9 – Our Fave Hair Accessories
Colorful Ball Hair Ties – I do Nella’s hair in a lot of twosies styles–2 buns, 2 pigtails, 2 braids, etc. These are inexpensive and super cute for finishing it off.
Giddy Up and Grow Felt Barrettes – My favorite girls hair accessory splurge shop. Everything’s handmade with adorable details. We bought these strawberry clips for the school year and to add to our Giddy Up and Grow collection.
10-pack Corduroy Bow Alligator Clips – The cost of bow clips can ADD UP. This set is inexpensive and yet pretty and classic.
10 – Snug Flasks
Nella and Dash take these water bottles to school every day. They last forever, are dishwasher safe, and are easy to keep at their desk.
11 – Family First Day Bracelets
First days of school involve a lot of nerves and the unknown. Each member of our family wears a bracelet the first day to remind our family that we are thinking of each other and that we are supporting each other’s capabilities and confidence. These also work great for test days, interview days, etc. and are just as meaningful to adults as they are for kids. We’ve done cord bracelets and rubber bracelets but this year couldn’t give up our summer camp vibes, so friendship bracelets it is.
12 – 3-tier Utility Cart
This cart has SAVED us in terms of creating a homework space. I’ve designated different areas of our house for study, but nothing really lasted until we made this cart our school headquarters. We keep it right in the middle of our house–between the kitchen and living room–and have it stocked with everything the kids need for studies–electric pencil sharpener, pencils, notebook paper, math manipulative, crayons, glue, educational games, site word cards, etc. The wheels make it portable, so we can move it wherever we want–great for when tutors come over.
And finally, a backpack round-up! This year’s favorites:

1 – College Vintage Backpack
I got these for Nella and Dash this year, and I’m obsessed. They’re so cute, perfectly sized and completely functional for what they bring to and from school.

2 – Zara Monster Backpack
How cute is this? The little zipper eye pockets! This is a little bit smaller than big kid backpacks and perfect for preschool and kindergarten.

3 – J Crew Sequin Shake-up Bag
Every little girl’s dream bag! See through, sparkles and tons of shake-up sequins. J Crew quality, so you know it’s good!

4 – Rockets of Awesome State Bag
State bags have become iconic in the backpack world–classic style and great quality. Love this rainbow stripe version in collaboration with Rockets of Awesome.

5 – Vans Color Block Bag
Great for any age, especially the Vans-loving preteen.

6 – Classic Herschel Retreat Backpack
This is Lainey’s pick for this year. We’ve been Herschel fans for years. Their backpacks last forever and feature red pinstripe waterproof lining.

7 – Adidas National 3-stripe Backpack
Sporty vibes, comfy fit, classic Adidas style.

8 – Dinosaur Backpack 
Cat & Jack has so many cute backpacks this year! I love the fun print on this year and the complementing dinosaur zipper charm.

9 – Fjallraven Kanken
Classic European Style. I bought my first Fjallraven backpack this year, and I’m sold for life. I’ve been carrying mine every day instead of a purse for months now. And SO MANY COLORS.

10 – Jansport White Backpack (to D.I.Y. your own design!)
For the artist. No one will have the same backpack as you if you design your own. Grab some permanent markers and go wild.

11 – Americana Backpack
Another Cat & Jack homerun. Simple unisex design, great for any age.

12 – Emily & Merrit Bunny Backpack
This makes me wish my girls were still in preschool. They would have LOVED this sweet bunny bag.

13 – Deer Mum Penguin Backpack
I’m a sucker for cute penguins. Love the simplicity of this bag and yet still whimsical and fun.

14 – State Kane Backpack
A bit pricey, but amazing quality and classic State style. Also available in so many patterns and color combinations.

15 – Lands End Planet Backpack
Super functional–roomy, comfy, pockets, affordable and yet stylish. I love fun patterns like this that aren’t too “little kiddish.”

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4 Things I’m Working on in Parenting

April 17, 2019 By Kelle

As my kids grow and change and our family learns more about ourselves and each other, I find the focus of my parenting goals changes as well. Sometimes, important parenting themes last for a season and with more experience and knowledge of who our kids are, the things that are important to us shift. A few things I’m working on right now…

Less Labeling
Oh how we all love a good label, a way both to define ourselves and save us the effort of figuring someone else out. “Save me the trouble, just tell me your Enneagram number.”  Vegan. Paleo. Extrovert. Introvert. Suffers from anxiety. The Funny One. The Athletic One. The Artsy One. Enneagram 7. I love a good personality label as much as anyone else, but the challenging thing about labels is that we are ever changing (especially kids!), and when we label ourselves and everyone else knows that label, it can be difficult to break free from that generalization or evolve into something new. Yes, Lainey will probably always be more shy than my other two, and Dash stands out as our spirited family entertainer. I will reference those labels from time to time, but I never want to lock my kids into personality traits because I need a way to define them. I don’t want to be so loud with my “She’s shy! She’s shy!” proclamation that it drowns out the many times Lainey’s lively and extroverted with friends. It’s very freeing and enlightening to pull back a bit on the labels for my kids and delight in all the ways they surprise me–they’re constantly evolving, and I want them feel permission (and an invitation!) to do so. I loved one of the stories Kelly Corrigan shared in Tell Me More about her friend who adopted a baby, consequently having no immediate inherited labels to attach the baby’s personality to like we often try to do.

“MH and Leon had accepted the call to raise a child, not by railroading her into becoming a gratifying mashup of biology and dreams, but by allowing her to reveal her nature over time, in no particular order, with switchbacks and reversals along the way.” Twelve years later, MH still says, “I don’t know who this kid is.” Now she adds, “But she does. She knows exactly who she is. I’m just along for the ride.” 
– From Tell Me More, Kelly Corrigan

Less Telling Them to “Be Kind,” More Complimenting “I Love How Kind You Are”
“Be kind!” “Look out for the kid who needs a friend!” “Make sure you include!” “I hope you were nice to her!” I’ve been hammering my kids with these messages since the day they were born, but at some point, constantly instructing “Be kind” suggests that I think my kids wouldn’t be kind on their own without my reminders. Lainey and I were recently talking about a situation at school with some girls, and I immediately jumped in with my obligatory, “Well I hope you were kind. You didn’t add to the drama, did you?” From her reaction, I realized my tone and questioning suggested that I didn’t trust her to do the right thing on her own. Of course she was kind! She’s proved so many times that she is kind and has been complimented many times by others for being a good friend to all. I want to do less nagging and more recognizing her natural inclination to be compassionate. I’m trying to switch those “I hope you were kind” responses to compliments that show I trust her and am proud of her: “I’m so glad she has you because that’s one thing you are so good at–being kind to everyone.”

More Night Time Reading
We’ve been a reading family since my kids were born and have children’s books galore in our home, but I’ll admit we used to do better with the consistent bedtime reading together ritual when they were all really little. However, I’ve been reading The Enchanted Hour, and the data regarding the benefits of reading aloud to your kids is stunning and enough to challenge me to recommit. The kids are loving it so much and holding me accountable. There’s no way I can get away with putting them to bed without reading aloud now–Dash won’t have it. Now if I can just convince him that we don’t need to read 7 books every night.

Less Bemoaning Falling Off the Horse, More Shutting Up and Getting Back on the Horse
The lapsed read aloud before bed tradition is a perfect example of how you can easily pick something back up in parenting without loads of guilt. As in other areas of life where we fizzle out on commitments–eating healthy, working out, waking up early–parenting offers a smorgasbord of opportunities to fizzle and fail. I want to spend less time bemoaning the fact that I fell out of a good habit and focus more on simply getting back to business. We are human. We’re going to fall off the horse many times. What sets a successful person apart from others is one’s ability to get back on the horse and keep riding without all the drama of beating yourself up for falling off. Better eating, healthier screen time rules, more reading, more snuggling, more play time together, better listening–it’s never too late to try again.

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Stealthy Vegetable Disguises for Kids

March 5, 2019 By Kelle

This sponsored post is in partnership with Stonyfield Organic, a brand we love not only for their products but for their values. They make delicious healthy yogurt without the use of toxic persistent pesticides, artificial hormones, antibiotics or GMOs; and they do it all with planet-friendly business practices–from using yogurt cups made from plants instead of petroleum, to making their own renewable energy.

I’ve admitted before that while I’m not big on getting hung up over parenting regrets, I have a few of them that are hard to live down. We moved Nella out of her crib and into a bed too quickly (her sleep has never been the same); I picked up my kids toys for them for far too long (leaving them out is a bad habit now), and then there’s the fruit before vegetables mistake. When my kids started eating solid foods, I skipped over the green stuff and went right for the applesauces and peaches because I wanted them to taste good. I missed out on the chance of expanding their taste buds early which led to a long stretch of limited things they’d eat–pasta, cereal, fruit, bread and sweets. Repeat. We’ve since introduced many new foods and are slowly growing their taste tolerance, but we still struggle in the vegetable department. It looks a little bit like this:

There are two words that work for a number of parenting challenges though, from slipping out of a room without waking up a baby to adding vegetables to their diet: BE STEALTHY.

A few sneaky ways we’ve tricked them into eating vegetables:

* Smoothies – Whenever we toss our favorite frozen fruits into the blender, I make sure to throw in some spinach. It gets pulverized in the blender, disguising the turn-off factor of unappealing leaves, and its taste is masked by the fruit.

* Sauces & Soups – If I chop them up good and pair them with the right flavors, I can slip in some veggies in our spaghetti sauce, chicken soup, and cheesy broccoli soup.

* Air Fryer – Brett bought a new air fryer last year (his Amazon picks, of course) and has made some creative options out of green beans, sweet potatoes and zucchini chips–all which the kids have tried with the selling factor of “fries” and “chips.”

* Stonyfield’s Whole Milk Yogurt pouches – Stonyfield gives moms a break and does the stealthy work for you, slipping veggies like sweet potatoes, spinach, beets and carrot in their convenient yogurt pouches and tubes.

Their new whole milk flavors include Apple Cinnamon Sweet Potato (Dash’s favorite–he says it tastes like creamy apple pie), Blueberry Apple Carrot (my favorite–so rich and creamy!) and their new Strawberry Beet Berry yogurt tubes.

My kids’ lunchboxes have come home many afternoons with their snap peas and dip untouched, but the yogurt pouches are always a favorite. Little do they know, they’re packed with carrots and sweet potatoes and beets!  Cue evil mom cackle.

Bonus – no mess, no spoons, no dumped yogurt all over the inside of their lunch box.

You can purchase the new Stonyfield flavors nationwide at Target, Walmart and a variety of other retailers.

Baby dolls are fans too!

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