This post is sponsored by Honest.
Okay, so I’ve finally figured out how to have a seamless beach trip with 3 kids–have a babysitter take them. Just kidding. When I moved to Southwest Florida from Michigan’s tundra, I promised myself that we’d be frequent beachgoers–jump in the car for impromptu sunsets and walk along the tide, coffee in hand, for weekend sunrises. I’m proud to say we have a very generous collection of beach memories in the ten years I’ve lived here, but I can’t say they’ve all been graceful, especially with the addition of more kids. Beach Hillbillies is how we’ve done it for a long time–dragging toys, dropping shovels, forgetting sunscreen and packing all wrong. And I’ve figured out why we were doing it wrong–Too. Much. Stuff.
Being that most of our beach trips are short (usually for sunset) and often planned last minute, the packing less strategy has saved us. We bring the essentials, and they all pack up and stay in one place. Grabbing them to hop in the car is easy just as coming home and unpacking is.
With summer around the bend and more sunshine in store for us, I’m breaking down our beach essentials today. Did you hear that they all fit in one bag? One bag that zips shut? Can we consider this a beach miracle and celebrate with a drink named in its honor? The Beach Miracle (recipe to come–let’s say it starts with coconut and pineapple).
Backpack
I’ve used beach totes, baskets, push carts, you name it to haul stuff to the beach for years and finally had a Eureka! moment when I switched to a backpack. A: With three kids, it’s essential to have my hands as free as possible to cattle prod–I mean, guide–the little ones as they make their way to the beach. B: It forces me to only bring what fits in the backpack. Simplify! C: Beach walks! With a backpack, I can leave our beach blanket on the sand, put valuables in the backpack and easily take it with us when we walk the beach. This was a game changer. I’m a beach backpacker for life now.
Beach Blanket
We have a beach blanket with a built-in handle that rolls up and is easy to transport. This saves room in the backpack for other essentials.
1 towel
We bring one really nice large beach towel and share it for dry-offs rather than wasting room for three in the bag and having that much more sandy laundry when we come home.

Small pail and a few good shovels (I love metal ones with wood handles)
I used to bring a beach tote PLUS a big basket of beach toys, and I can’t tell you how many times I lugged kids and bags down to the beach only to have someone chase me with a “M’am! You dropped this alligator toy/shovel/rake/headless Barbie/broken pail/etc. Unless we’re spending all day at the beach with plans to erect the greatest castle that ever was, all we need is a small pail and a few good shovels–and maybe a Barbie for Nella–all of which fit in the backpack.
Swim Diaper
We arrive to the beach already in swimsuits and flip-flops to make it easy. For Dash, I don’t need to buy disposable swim diapers because his Honest swim diaper is reusable–and adorable to boot. It holds everything. Don’t ask me how I know this. I love these swim diapers, though. You could also wear them under a regular swimsuit for girls, but Dash is comfortable in his swimsuit glory–Michael Phelps confidence.

Dry Diaper
I pack one regular dry diaper to slip on Dash before we leave.
Cover-ups
Sometimes as simple as t-shirts or sundresses
Large Ziplock
To keep wet/sandy things separated when we go home (especially if you’re putting a camera or cellphone in the backpack)
Small Ziplock
For shells and great beach finds.
Sun hats
Dash’s Honest sun hat matches his suit–wide brimmed, water-repellant, UPF 50, stays on with a little Velcro strap.

Sunscreen
Dash has really sensitive skin and had a reaction to sunscreen when he was a baby. We switched to Honest sunscreen, and I love it. It’s safe, naturally derived, goes on creamy and keeps my kids’ skin protected. I use the sunscreen lotion on their bodies, and the kids like to do their faces themselves with the sunscreen stick (which is small and easy to keep in your purse for impromptu beach/park dates).


Baby Powder
Baby powder works great to get sticky sand off skin. A little shake down and wipe off before you leave means your car seats stay clean.

Bug Spray
Depending on the season and weather, our Southwest Florida beaches can host these tiny flying bugs we call no-see-ums. At night, they can be awful. I keep a small bottle of Honest bug spray–made from safe and naturally derived essential oils–in our backpack.
Optional: insulated water bottles, snacks, camera, life preservers, wallet (while not always the most cost-effective, it’s often worth it for us to skip packing a cooler and buy a few treats and drinks at the beach shop), shell field guide (Lainey loves classifying her shells and keeping track of what she’s found)
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Summer’s coming…can you smell it? The beach awaits.












I’m a florida girl born and raised. So yup I’ve doing the backpack for years. I love it. My favorite blacked for the beach thought is a HUGE Jean sheet I found a thrift store. Perfect for multiple people. I’ll have to remember bug spray.. thanks for sharing.
Love the jean sheet idea. And lightweight too, so easy to carry, I bet.
What is a “jean sheet”?
I’m guessing a sheet that looks like denim?
Is Nella potty trained now? You only mentioned diapers for Dash. Did I miss a monumental post? Cause that is cause for celebration.
Yes, she is! And at night too! We are very proud of her.
Would love some advice on Potty Training, my daughter who also has Down Syndrome will be 4 in August and we are no where near even starting, she doesn’t seem to get it yet.
So hard to give advice on this one, Beth, as potty training is different for every kid, especially with DS. We have friends with same age child w/ DS who followed a strict method (can’t remember the name of it) and it worked for them a year ago–and other friends who used the method and it didn’t stick. We are a pretty laid back family, and there have been several times where I’ve felt guilty because the potty training consistency wasn’t happening on my end. But then one day she just started doing it on her own–telling us she had to go and trucking on down to the bathroom. It’s been a few weeks now, and she hasn’t looked back. It helps to have great support at preschool too. We exposed her to the big potty gradually, frequently and made it a super comfortable no-big-deal thing.
Beth – this is the method we use in the ECDD classroom where I am a para-professional. (Our classroom is not an ASD classroom it’s the cognitively impaired class, but this method works for children with all kinds of developmental and/or cognitive delays!) I sincerely hope it helps you!
“Toilet Training for Individuals with Autism or Other Developmental Issues: Second Edition” by Maria Wheeler
http://www.amazon.com/Toilet-Training-Individuals-Autism-Developmental/dp/1932565493
You are a lucky lady to live in paradise! We head to Ft Myers Beach every March from Wyoming. So beautiful! It’s what I imagine heaven to be like 🙂 Enjoy your piece of paradise
Try using a 4″ paint brush to brush away the sand. Decorate the handles, paint a different color.
Such a beautiful family!
My heart lives in Florida. Too bad the rest of me lives in Toronto. 🙂 Have you used the Honest bug spray a lot? Just wondering about its effectiveness…
Ha…and my heart is split in places I love too. The spray works great for us. We’ve only used it at the beach where the main annoyance is no-see-ums. We haven’t used it in areas of thick mosquitos. Summer in Michigan will truly put it to the test.
Great post, even for those of us without kids, it seems like we always bring too much stuff.
What is your preferred backpack you use?
Hi Jessica,
I love Herschel backpacks. They seem to be pretty durable and lightweight. Lainey’s school one has been through the ringer this year–and washed several times–and keeps on ticking.
As a Grandmother of 9, I want to add I cannot live without our Mac Wagon. it folds flat…carries a lot …great in sand.
PS: in love with your Blog!
Thank you! (Grandmother of 9…lucky you. :o)
Can I offer a life hack that has totally rocked my beaching world? Wet bags. They are supposed to be for cloth diapers or something, but they are essentially reusable ziplock bags you can wash. We put our wet bathing suits in there, sparing everything else in the backpack from getting wet/ruined. Like you, we also take a more medium-sized ones for beach finds like sells and disgusting seaweed I throw out when we get home anyway but the kids make me take.
Thank you! (And way more environmentally friendly than Ziplocks :o)
One question. Did you/Do you get to meet Jessica Alba?! ✌
ha, no but she sure looked beautiful at the Met Gala last night!
I have to know where you got Lainey’s bathing suit?? I love it!
It’s actually from a local beach shop here in Naples called Alvins. That doesn’t help much, does it? Ha.
I am interested in the honest swim diapers and glad to know u like them! The disposable swim diapers are awful to change when my kids have pooped and they always seem to save it when we get to the pool! Is it any better with these diapers and I figure with #4 in diapers this summer I might give it a try! any thoughts?
Why is it that they always wait to get to the pool? They save it for our inconvenience. We have two Honest swim diapers, and I love that they’re not plastic-y, and they’re thick and magically hold in everything. The disposable ones seem to be pretty thin. Because they slide on like a regular suit, you still have to pull them all the way off to change though.
Hi Kelle,
Do you have a recommendation for a shell guide? Would love to get one for my six year old for the summer!
We love ours and use them a lot–easy to follow, great pictures and good for adults and kids. Our big field guide is specific for Florida beaches: http://www.amazon.com/Floridas-Living-Beaches-Curious-Beachcomber/dp/1561643866/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1430918827&sr=8-1&keywords=floridas+living+beaches. Lots of info and pics and everything you could possibly want to know. We also have a waterproof brochure that’s really simple but great for kids: http://www.amazon.com/Shells-Beach-Floridas-Coast-Foldingguides/dp/1893770044/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1430918723&sr=8-2&keywords=shells+of+floridas+gulf+coast. It’s also location specific to Florida’s Gulf Coast, but the author (Jackie Leatherbury Douglas) makes versions for other beaches in US.
I am so excited to order from Honest Co – I’ve heard great things. I really wanted a swim diaper but apparently they are part of the collective so the code will not apply if you have it in your basket, just fyi to anyone who wants to order one. I’m definitely getting bug spray and a sunscreen stick though!
We’re moving to Naples later this summer and I’ve never tried to bring all three of my kids to the beach, so this post came at the PERFECT time. I need to start looking for a decent backpack! A friend of mine’s best beach trick was to get a fitted bedsheet instead of a blanket–you can tuck it into the sand like it’s going on a bed, and it never flies away in the breeze! Now to go look at those swim dipes for my little guys…
Um…that is brilliant! We’ll have some nice hot weather for you late summer. :o)
Hi Kelle!
This couldn’t have come at a better time… my two girls and I love the beach! I love the backpack idea and love your blanket with a handle… where is it from? Do you manage to squeeze this in the bag as well? Love your blog!
Hi Kelle, Happy Mothers Day!Wondering if the Honest but spray is effective for keeping the no see ums away.I too live in Southwest FL and have had many sunset beach trips shortened because of those pesky little bugs!