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Pa-rum-pa-pum-pum

December 20, 2011 By Kelle

So, let’s see–it’s T-minus-six-days, and if there was some sort of meter to measure my enthusiasm for it all right now, it would read something like: “blissfully hanging from chandelier, with Christmas martini.“
Rimmed in crushed peppermint, of course. And I’m wearing cute Christmas shoes. And, for the hell of it, let’s throw in the fact that this imaginary chandelier-hugging version of me is also singing “Have Yourself a Merry Christmas”–the swingy swanky version–and I sound just like Ella Fitzgerald.

But really, I’m sitting in the office, eating stir-fry from a paper plate and obsessively clicking between three Christmas Pandora stations because the Little Drummer Boy song keeps popping up, and I can’t bear to hear “Pa-rum-pa-pum-pum” one more time. We get it. Your drum makes a noise.

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My girl had a recital this weekend. I stood back and beheld the wonder that the froggy-legged baby in the strawberry jammies who smells like cookies and purses her lips just like a baby bird–the one with a dusting of peach fuzz hair and deep blue eyes that, who knows, might change to a chocolate brown someday–well, she’s big now. She’s tall and confident and yet still a bit shy too.

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She dances on stage while I huddle in a small sea of parents, snapping photos, smiling, wondering how in the world that little newborn transformed into this girl so quickly.

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Eight little girls dressed in homemade fur muffs and snowball shoes, danced to “Baby’, it’s Cold Outside.” And our cheeks ached from smiles of praise, adoration, contentment.

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Our celebration had its encore at a greasy bar where we gathered with friends after the recital.

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Post-recital drive–the sky was showing off.

Our waiter came over, handed us some menus and asked, “Can I start you guys with some drinks?” Swear to Kris Kringle, Nella flung her head around, smiled and enthusiastically shouted, “YEAH!”

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Because Sister was thirsty.

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I’m feeling content this holiday, balancing the duties of right now with the anticipation of a bit later pretty comfortably. The house is in holiday shambles, but I look forward to cleaning it tomorrow and beginning to prepare for a special weekend.

Other than a small project I made Brett promise me he’ll finish, we’re done with crafting. My last project was an easy magnet board for Nella. I spray painted an old 16 x 20 frame and filled it with sheet metal (primed and painted). We’ll hang it low in her room for play/learning.

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Felt magnet letters, Etsy.


And now it’s time to party. I’m stoked for some excitement later this week–a house holiday concert from Mikey Wax. Check him out. He’s making quite a name for himself (toured with Howie Day, Landon Pigg…), and he’s touring the country performing free house concerts. And now I’m realizing, we don’t have a chandelier on which to hang from…bum.

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Lainey has proclaimed that these are her “reading glasses.”

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She’s wearing Nella’s shoes.

She shares with her sister, too.

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Let’s knock an F.A.Q. out while we’re at it: Nella had a second opinion and two follow-up eye appts. since her infamous Professor glasses, and she doesn’t need them anymore. I do miss them a bit.

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And finally, in an attempt to make purposeful efforts every day this week for really good (interpret as you may) leading up to Christmas, we began by letting our toes kiss the sand.

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I wanted to take the girls sledding on the beach. It would have been perfect–pulling them in a sled right along the shore until the sun set. Try finding a place that sells sleds in Southwest Florida. We settled for sitting in the sand.

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It was, likewise, lovely.

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More good stuff planned for the rest of the week.

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Sponsor Katrina Roldan for Sticks and Stones is joining us this week, bringing the original alphabet photography of Sticks and Stones (recognized on Oprah and Rachel Ray)–which is personalized and handcrafted upon order (never mass produced!)

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F.A.Q. post coming Wednesday.

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My girls, the bed, the sheets, the holiday movie calls.

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Santa, I Know Him.

December 17, 2011 By Kelle

Things that make me happy, right here, right now:

Boot Keychain.

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I’m not really the buy-the-LED-light-up-rose-at-the-gas-station-counter kind of girl. Or the paperback cookbooks/pencil toppers/slashed price CDs. But this boot? It was in a bowl with other little boots at a check-out today. And the lady said they were on clearance. I have a thing for miniatures. And boots. And things that make me think of Michigan in December. Dude, I had to have the boot. So I bought it and slipped it on our shared keychain. Two hours later, I ran out for an errand and noticed Brett removed the boot off the keys and left it in the center console. He has yet to realize I put it back on. I smell a Boot War. The boot stays. The End.

The Elf Went Home.

We’re not making a big deal of it, but turns out…this isn’t the year. The idea of an elf coming alive while she was sleeping was starting to freak her out, and we knew it. And I love that about parenting–the fact that loving your child comes with knowing your child. I know her, I sense her insecurities, I feel her heart beat in sync with mine. She kindly asked for Elfitty to go be with Santa and, um, let’s see…how was it she put it? Oh yeah, “Stay forever.” We smiled and hugged and said “of course.” Maybe we’ll try another year because, yes, it was fun. Until then, there are all sorts of hilarious elf texts and e-mails flying around our family.

Making Gifts.

A doll blanket to accompany one of Santa’s gifts.

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And a brilliant idea from my friend, Rebecca. We made several jars of homemade laundry detergent the other day–telling stories and entertaining kids while we grated fragrant soap bars and mixed powder.

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We found a few recipes online and ended up blending some of them together–one cup of Borax, one cup of washing soda, two cups of grated bar soap (several sites suggest Fels-Naptha or Ivory, but we used a variety of homemade scented bar soaps from Whole Foods). And the best part? Lavender essential oil (I shook at least a good 20 drops per jar).

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We blended it in a blender until it was a well-mixed powder. It smells amazing, you only need one tablespoon per wash, and it’s very inexpensive to make.

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I even tested it. Fresh, clean, stain-removed little baby clothes.

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Yields 11-12 jars from one box of Borax, one box of washing soda and a little more than 12 bars of soap.

I never figured myself to be the make-your-own-laundry-soap kind of girl, but I’m two weeks shy of 33, and I’m realizing all sorts of things about myself in these beginning chapters to Thirties. I can make my own laundry soap. I like a nice boot on my keys.

Wheeeee.

That’s what Nella says when she wants to swing. She points outdoors and says, “Wheeeee.” Sister is communicating bananas lately, and we are eating it up. There is that moment when I figure out exactly what she means, and I’m beaming–shaking my head, smiling, responding with exuberant praise. “Yes! Yes! Nella! Good Girl!” We clap. We celebrate. More words. More knowing our child.

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Imagination.

So she doesn’t like little elves that walk around your house at night. No biggie. There’s so much she does like. Friends, make believe, Daddy.

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Santa.

I combed their hair extra smooth today, wound tight buns, found new hair ribbon, and slipped black patent leather shoes over tights. I usually hate malls, but today we walked into the side hallway and were welcomed by the last chorus of “Frosty, the Snowman.” I smiled. It felt like Christmas–the contrasting monopolized one that, today, actually nicely “accessorized” the homey fireside one we love. I pushed the stroller while Brett held tightly to Lainey’s hand, and we walked past the food court and into the tunnel of kiosks toward the castle of Santa’s crew.
There was no line and, thankfully, this year’s Santa had a real beard and was over 30. He was real, thank you very much. We sat Nella down first.

That went well.

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Once her sister mirrored her on Santa’s other leg, she was just fine. And I love that.

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I couldn’t stop smiling. And my big girl? The one who now suffers from Elfanoia actually relaxed her shoulders, snuggled into that furry coat, and made captivating conversation.

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Sometimes I still have to tell myself I’m a mom. I have two little girls who sit on Santa’s lap and, in a little over a week, I’m going to clutch my coffee cup and cry-smile while I wrap up the year feeling grateful in a moment of clarity–watching my family all huddled together.

That’s all that really matters.

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Friday Photo Dump:

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Friday Phone Dump photos are taken on the Instagram iPhone app (free) and dropped into a 12×12 collage using a photo editing software (Photoshop Elements works). I am “etst” on Instagram if you want to follow the feed.

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Last minute Gift Suggestions:

Stock up on Body Care Product Stocking Stuffers from Michelle Timmons Arbonne or surprise a mama you love with a subscription to Mamalode magazine (I’m writing a piece for their next issue and excited about a friend’s article in the same issue.).

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Your F.A.Q. questions are great–will answer several next week.

And now…also loving…Vince Guiraldi, fireplace fires, colored lights, planning next week’s holiday meals, knowing things will slow down come Monday, parties and ballet recital this weekend, wearing slippers, good neighbors, my little boot.

And memories of this day, last year.

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It’s mid-December, almost the end of the year…what are you loving right now?

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Filed Under: Holiday, Make Stuff, Photo Dump 137 Comments

Quick Craftastic

December 14, 2011 By Kelle

Stopping by.

It is worth mentioning that the photo on the left turned into the photo on the right in fifteen minutes.

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This is because Brett called on his way home from Miami and said he’d be home soon. Never underestimate the magical powers of The Shakedown .

While I let my kitchen dishes rot today, we did other things. Crafty things. Christmas things.

20 minutes, a few pieces of 12 x 12 paper, a bottle of glue and some twine will give you paper lanterns.

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Fold paper in half, cut slits on fold (but not all the way to the end).

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Open paper.

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Glue one edge along lengthwise slits.

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Curl into circle and secure. Add some ric rac, ribbon, whatever (easier if you do this before gluing into a circle). Hang lanterns with twine. Proclaim festive love, sing a carol, light a candle, Amen.

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Hallway decorations=Check.

The house has been properly Christmastized. Of this, I am sure.

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Don’t worry, the bathroom mirror did not go unnoticed.

From behind the house, fa la la la la.

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There you be. Tuesday holiday lovin’.

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Heal My Sole Giveaway winner :

Comment #205, I Live for a Little While: I love that you dive right in and let your kids make messes (Nella and the puddles!). I need to do that more often. Hugs!

Congratulations, please send your contact info to kellehamptonblog@comcast.net with the subject HEAL MY SOLE GIVEAWAY.

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Two last things.

1.) I’m working on gathering some frequently asked questions for an F.A.Q. post next week. If you have a question, want to know more about something, whatever, throw it in a comment on this post, and I will do my best to collect and answer some of these. I’m working to connect more with readers, answer your questions and create more communication here, so this is a good place to start. Ask me anything (thank you, Amba!)

2.) Have a happy night.

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